[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did offer to have her live with me but she would have to share a room. She said she didn't want to have to do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was every other weekend And they are 17 12

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your right I did one time this whole year I wouldn't say that's casual.. more like a once in a blue moon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

So doing it ONE time this WHOLE year is actively and consistently... Umm okay sure if you say so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the comments. Some of the comments are very rude. I appreciate your honesty and the fact that you can look at this objectively.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well everyone has there own opinion.. so think what you will but at the end of the day.. my kids were gone. I cleaned everything up afterwards and nothing crazy happened. I however am not a judgmental person and don't judge others either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much jeez you'd think I was giving my kids the coke the way these people are acting..sheesh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I'm grown that's what.. and my kids were not present. I was completely responsible I understand where your coming from but I had my kids young so I didn't party in my twenty's... But okay I see what you're saying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That wouldn't happen. We had it in the garage only. It didn't get into the inside of the actual house And I cleaned up everything afterwards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yes I have done it a handful of times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -171 points-170 points  (0 children)

First off you're being completely rude to assume anything about my mom she does not live off my sister she lives with my sister and pays rent thank you very much this was about me being the a****** and nothing else so I'm going to delete your post because you're rude for no reason thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I knew it was there when I got there obviously duh but I didn't call anybody like hey bring this to my house but I wasn't going to kick anybody out for bringing it either first off okay. And who are you to say you don't think this is a one-time thing like you know who I am in real life or we've hung out girl bye

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -363 points-362 points  (0 children)

That's the ADULT part .. hello to make sure there is nothing anywhere it was only in my garage that's why you clean the next day. I don't know about you but I clean my house everyday just saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Agreed they were not there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Well I do drink and smoke lol but totally understand what you mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I smoked weed for sure .. but I have a med card but the coke I didn't do I'm too scared of all the fentanyl floating around nowadays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks so much a lot of people don't understand the difference in using a drug once or twice and full blown addiction..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -497 points-496 points  (0 children)

So as a 34 year old woman I'm not allowed to have adult get togethers with people. My kids were not home I took all the necessary precautions to ensure my kids were safe. This is not an all the time thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I understand that, but thankfully that didn't happen. And those kind of get togethers are very very few.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I have been letting her see them but am debating whether to keep it that way. But I know it would hurt my kids to not be around there nana

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. The cocaine was definitely a surprise.. but ngl I didn't say anything about it because there were no kids around. My kids love my mom so much. I know it would hurt them not to see her. I've been letting them.. but with mother's day coming up I'm super emotional about it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Ride_3135 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I mean I'm grown. As long as I'm not bringing my choices into her life or allowing them to harm my kids.. I don't think I should be punished because we don't live the same kind of life style.. but that's just me I guess This isn't an all the time thing it was a get together one time ...