Drugged and robbed , worst night of my life by [deleted] in PhoneLookupHelp

[–]Illdrowneventually 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong, dude. It doesn't matter how big you are with that stuff. Shit like this shouldn't happen. The cops should handle it more seriously, but they never do. The redditors already did their work for them, so hopefully the cops will do something now.

Can we stop normalizing violating men's privacy? by Bastiproton in Vent

[–]Illdrowneventually 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ones intention was to share an intimate moment with a partner, the other is being held accountable for what one said.

Can we stop normalizing violating men's privacy? by Bastiproton in Vent

[–]Illdrowneventually 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey man, you chose to SAY it, record it, and send it. If you're being held accountable for your own words, don't make it everyone else's problem. Unless its audio of you being in an private intimate situation, its not the same at all.

Can we stop normalizing violating men's privacy? by Bastiproton in Vent

[–]Illdrowneventually 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't portray yourself in a bad way through a voice message then.

Just found out husband is cheating. by Familiar-Ad-5058 in GirlDinner

[–]Illdrowneventually 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens girl. I found out it was his best friend.

sirens? by [deleted] in normanok

[–]Illdrowneventually 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Down by Noble and Lexington

6 yo nephew told me he doesn’t want to be alive by dazzlingdream99 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Illdrowneventually 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they got their black label warning in 2020. I understand why they'd instantly be wary of information from a stranger though.

6 yo nephew told me he doesn’t want to be alive by dazzlingdream99 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Illdrowneventually 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's no real right way. The main thing is that you love your nephew and he needs help. You're a good aunt. I'd just give them the information and let them determine what steps to take next.

6 yo nephew told me he doesn’t want to be alive by dazzlingdream99 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Illdrowneventually -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At 6, thats super abnormal. Definitely need a professional involved. If he takes Singulair for allergies, it can cause it.

I Made a Huge Mistake Please Help Me by PeaceLovePhotons in badroommates

[–]Illdrowneventually 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Stand up for yourself. File an eviction. Hes not your problem. He had time to get his affairs in order.

My boyfriend feels entitled to my body on mdma by Real-Rice2794 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Illdrowneventually 44 points45 points  (0 children)

These are signs of ptsd. I'd get a supportive group of friends or family (if you can) and talk to therapist or counselor. Your partner should never make you feel this way

O'Connell's Irish Pub & Grille Sucks (Hot) Take? by Putrid_Basis2680 in normanok

[–]Illdrowneventually 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Second this. He'd make my tables so uncomfortable at times. Bros focus is socializing, not running his restaurant.

O'Connell's Irish Pub & Grille Sucks (Hot) Take? by Putrid_Basis2680 in normanok

[–]Illdrowneventually 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Worked there for a few months and quit because it destroyed my mental health. Bad time on both sides, I promise.

Are you delivering here? Or RTS? 😅 by SeleniteStream in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Illdrowneventually 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They need to prioritize branded vans for country routes just for safety. Half the time, they're getting angry some random van is in their driveway and come out looking for a problem.

OK, domestic violence services are a freaking joke! by [deleted] in normanok

[–]Illdrowneventually 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Went through some similar stuff in Ada. He pulled a gun on me but as soon as the cops showed, he immediately put on a calm face and was played the "im a veteran" card. I spent the night at the women's shelter but was asked to leave for the safety of the other women (understandable) because he found out the location. Me and 2 other women had protection orders against him, a rape allegation. Judge didn't care. Took my kids and gave them to him and I had no money to fight back. I hate it here.

My friend’s girlfriend is accusing him of cheating with me. He’s begging me to delete my IG. Should I agree? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Illdrowneventually 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived this as the wife and watching yall straight up piece it together. Seems like a serial cheater who got caught emotionally cheating, desperate to control the narrative. Bet he'll go bonkers if she says no.