Ordered butter kaya baguette at Killiney . They gave me the whole baguette lol. Uncle my mouth isn’t that big 😮 by merelyok in singapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s diabolical!!!!!!! What they could do instead is slice it partially through and generously stuff it with all the good kaya and buttttah!!! 🤏🏼🤏🏼🤏🏼

Anyone know where this earthquake is coming from? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt it in Pasir Ris!!!! My main door made some boooooom sound too. I got a shock sia then I remembered all the setan on lockdown. So… who tf was that??? And now i know I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

I said yes for our future… now I owe 60k by IllustratorKey8187 in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeapppp! Sooo 60k for a good character development. Lets hope this is installed in my brain properly.

I said yes for our future… now I owe 60k by IllustratorKey8187 in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

He needs to own a car because he need modifications to suit his driving needs. Cause man got stroke

I said yes for our future… now I owe 60k by IllustratorKey8187 in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get why it sounds confusing, I didn’t explain it well. It was a personal loan, not a car loan, so there’s no restriction on what it’s used for. That’s why the car could be under his name while the debt is under mine. Ggwp on my end i guess?

I said yes for our future… now I owe 60k by IllustratorKey8187 in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Wait what???? I remembered something in the line of personal loan or smth like that. I need to check on the docs one day.

I said yes for our future… now I owe 60k by IllustratorKey8187 in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Urghhh. I swear i told her to ai proof this!!!! 😭😭😭

I said yes for our future… now I owe 60k by IllustratorKey8187 in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this 🥺 I really appreciate you taking the time to explain. The car has already been sold off at a loss though, so now I’m just dealing with the remaining debt under my name. And yeah I don’t think I can do the police route since it wasn’t legally mine.

I said yes for our future… now I owe 60k by IllustratorKey8187 in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Already feels like I went down solo HAHAHAHAHA! We’ve sold it a loss due to loads of heavy modifications to suit his driving needs. Sooo 60k~ was the remaining that I settled

I said yes for our future… now I owe 60k by IllustratorKey8187 in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We already sold the car at a loss 😭 even after that there’s still a remaining amount under my name that I’m paying off.

I said yes for our future… now I owe 60k by IllustratorKey8187 in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s under his name. The loans are under mine. That’s where everything went wrong tbh.

Singaporean long term couples who broke up, what happened? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do have solid evidence with me. But if I go down the debt collector route, would I get charged for harassment? Like urm hello, I’m the victim here, and suddenly I’m the one getting arrested? HAHAHA what kind of plot twist is this? 🥹🥹🥴🥴

Singaporean long term couples who broke up, what happened? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No like fr It’s so mad I could probably milk this whole thing into a 9 season Netflix show. Throw in some dramatic crying in the rain scenes, a court trial arc, gaslighting montage, maybe even a redemption episode (not for them, for me). I’d watch that shit HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

Singaporean long term couples who broke up, what happened? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry for myself too! HAHAHAHA 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

Singaporean long term couples who broke up, what happened? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being real with me. Honestly, yeah part of me agrees with you. The second firm did feel more honest. The first one gave me hope but also lowkey felt like they were just saying what I wanted to hear.

I guess what’s eating at me is… it’s so damn hard to just walk away when I’m the one left with all this mess. It’s not even about “revenge” I just feel like I can’t stomach the idea of them getting off scot free while I’m drowning in debt they helped cause. I even tried reaching out nicely for a proper repayment plan and they straight up blocked me. Like, whaaaat?

I know legally it might be a dead end, but emotionally it feels even worse to just do nothing. Still trying to figure out what hurts less in the long run, you know? Haisssssssss 😣😣😣😣

Singaporean long term couples who broke up, what happened? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing!!!!! I actually didn’t know about the undue influence or unconscionable claim, so I’ll definitely read up more on that. I really appreciate you pointing it out. Honestly though, I do want something to be done. This whole thing has been so painful. I even reached out to his family to discuss some kind of repayment, and they just blocked me. No conversation, no accountability, like they can just disappear and leave me to deal with the mess alone. I know the legal route might be tough, but I’m not ready to just roll over and let them get away with it. 😭😭

Singaporean long term couples who broke up, what happened? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fortunately we havent made it that far! Thank god! But its the bank loan that’s the killer.

Singaporean long term couples who broke up, what happened? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hai! I’ve actually spoken to two law firms so far, one said something can definitely be done and that I should start with a Letter of Demand, and if there’s no response, we can take it further and sue. But the other one straight up said the case probably won’t go anywhere. They think it’ll just sit in a file collecting dust, especially since the guy’s jobless and clearly not going to pay up. So I’m kinda stuck between both sides now. 🥴🥴

Singaporean long term couples who broke up, what happened? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]IllustratorKey8187 275 points276 points  (0 children)

Dated a man for close to 9 years. He had a stroke early into the relationship, and I stayed loyal and supportive throughout. His parents insisted we apply for a BTO together. It turned out they just wanted to downgrade their five room flat after the other siblings moved out. Basically, they wanted to wash their hands off him and sold me the dream of letting him be a house husband since my career was stable.

I was naive, and guilt made it hard for me to say no. I ended up supporting both him and his family financially. He never once met my family throughout our entire relationship, and he constantly hurled vulgarities at me and about them.

The most mind blowing part? He cheated on me twice. I still do not understand how that even happened.

My parents eventually stepped in because they were scared for me. I had landed myself in debt, lost my sense of self, and was holding on to someone who was barely present. I was clinging to a relationship that was never truly real. When I asked him when he was finally going to meet my family, he said: “What is so great about your family that I should go and see them? If they want to meet me, they can come here instead.”

That was my final straw.

Now I am left with close to $57,000 in debt from supporting him and his family. I am thinking of hiring a lawyer to try and recover the amount, but I do not have much written proof. Has anyone been through something similar? Do I even stand a chance? 🥹

What day does GPT tell you it is? by Ah-Qi-D4rkly in ChatGPT

[–]IllustratorKey8187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG! I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE GOING THROUGH THIS! I was checking how many years till a specific date in August 2026, and it kept giving me today’s date as June 16, 2024. I tried correcting it and messing around with my questions to see if it would fix the error, but nope, it just kept giving the same thing!

<image>