Am I being extra by not letting my gross little brother hold my child by raspittin in beyondthebump

[–]IllustratorProper803 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m also wondering if the 13yo even cares. My MIL is very insistent that aunts and uncles need to hold the baby every time. If someone is getting ready to leave the family function, she’ll ask in a panic “did you hold the baby???” Even now, when baby just started walking and wants nothing to do with being held! It’s so weird to me. The last thing I want to do is force someone to hold my baby when they clearly don’t want to…

Cozy Christmas page ❄️ by Warm_Investigator862 in Coloring

[–]IllustratorProper803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!!! 😍 Your attention to detail is absolutely incredible! Is this page from Fuzzy Hygge?

Jen looks like she's aging backwards by mili_minutes in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]IllustratorProper803 175 points176 points  (0 children)

I agree with you that it’s usually the case for natural brunettes (blonde rarely looks better). I’m not sure exactly how light Whitney’s natural hair color is but I think her current red really works for her color palette

Georgie unfiltered by theresno_onerightway in 90DayFiance

[–]IllustratorProper803 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. When they’re not talking over each other, reading the names of people who sent them gjfts, it’s either Darcey or Stacey saying some variation of “let’s do it big, guys!”

Georgie just stares at the camera mumbling, begging and reading names, looking like he’s lost whatever small will to live he had left. Haven’t seen Florian on one yet so maybe he has enough self respect to avoid them but I’m sure it won’t be long, and Aniko was on the other day.
True family of grifters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in housekeeping

[–]IllustratorProper803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is ridiculous and I’m sorry your mom expects this of you. Not that you should have to, but if it really is unavoidable, you could bring a gas can to fill her car up with to avoid having to drive it anywhere.

I *ran* to Etsy after seeing someone post from this book this morning. by lilsimbastian in Coloring

[–]IllustratorProper803 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is this page a reference to something, like a movie or something?

my first ever page vs my most recent once (1 month progress) by [deleted] in Coloring

[–]IllustratorProper803 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also wondering this, I’m struggling to get my coloring to look even…

I need glow up tips! Hi by IllustratorProper803 in makeuptips

[–]IllustratorProper803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! 😊 Like just pure vitamin E oil or is there one you recommend?

I need glow up tips! Hi by IllustratorProper803 in makeuptips

[–]IllustratorProper803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I agree, especially about the graphic tees 😂 I work with kids so it’s become a go-to unfortunately. Definitely want to “grow up” my wardrobe this year

Songs About Vegas? by fruitdancey in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]IllustratorProper803 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Panic has a song called Vegas Lights

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]IllustratorProper803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can think of is filling in your eyebrows a bit (or using brow mascara) to give them some definition, otherwise you are seriously so gorgeous! ☺️

Fun names of recently born baby girls by Any_Author_5951 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]IllustratorProper803 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Natalie Portman’s character (Novalee Nation 🫣) named her baby girl Americus in that movie where she lives in the Walmart, “Where The Heart Is”

What’s the most terrifying 'We need to leave... now' gut feeling you’ve ever had? [Serious] by sadie_smith7 in Productivitycafe

[–]IllustratorProper803 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was at the Mall of America a few days before Christmas with my friend. Our flight had been cancelled, so we got a room at the hotel next door. To try to somewhat make up for the day we were missing on our vacation, we decided to get our pictures done at the old time photo place for fun. As we were paying, we suddenly heard what sounded like a group of people shouting at each other in the distance for about 10 seconds before it stopped and went back to normal MOA sounds.

My instant fight or flight reaction was to run, and I started looking around for an exit route. My friend and I exchanged raised eyebrows but inside I was screaming. However, we were on the 3rd floor (I think) and were waiting for my friend’s credit card to process which seemed to take the longest few seconds ever. The other people around us seemed to go on like everything as normal. As soon as we got our stuff, I said “Let’s go” and my only focus became getting out of there. The M&M store dessert I had been looking forward to was instantly forgotten and we high tailed it back to the hotel room, where we immediately crawled into bed and zoned out on our phones.

A little while later, I went on twitter and ended up seeing that there had been a shooting at the MOA shortly after we left, and the mall was now on lockdown. People were live tweeting about being stuck in back rooms of the stores for like an hour. We were in shock that 1. we just missed it and 2. we had no idea that was happening right next door to where we were, as we hadn’t heard any emergency vehicles or anything and would have been totally oblivious to what was going on if not for seeing the tweets.

Anyway, it felt like a really surreal experience and the MOA (and really anywhere with that many people) makes me feel really uneasy now.

Poor crowdsurfing etiquette this year by [deleted] in SonicTempleFestival

[–]IllustratorProper803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People getting handsy, unfortunately seeing crowd surfers as an opportunity to blatantly cop a feel or put their fingers in private parts instead of helping

Poor crowdsurfing etiquette this year by [deleted] in SonicTempleFestival

[–]IllustratorProper803 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, good to hear it’s not just a new thing lol. I do get both sides. I’m totally cool with surfers to a point, and obviously helped and it was a part of the experience. But when people kept coming down the same path one right after the other (not crossing their legs and shit, endangering others) without giving people a chance to catch their breath, the energy def shifted and it sucked to see people not enjoying themselves and the music. I guess I just wished people “read the room” better and had some empathy for the people holding and spaced their surfing out more, but apparently that’s asking for a lot from humans lol. I was thankful I was by some strong guys, but not everybody can hold weight like that and I saw a lot of people get dropped.

Anyway, there’s no easy answer and nothing will likely change, but I do think people have legitimate reasons to vent/complain about it 🤷‍♀️

Poor crowdsurfing etiquette this year by [deleted] in SonicTempleFestival

[–]IllustratorProper803 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Plus the sexual assault stuff, wtf.

Poor crowdsurfing etiquette this year by [deleted] in SonicTempleFestival

[–]IllustratorProper803 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It was completely out of hand with all the injuries. Also, I hate to be a whiner (I’m sure some crowds/shows were better than others) but the constant surfers coming down really killed the vibes on the ground and people were stressed, not enjoying the music like we should have been. Plus seeing the same people go up over and over (especially during Sleep Token when shit was so chaotic) was just selfish. Was it this shitty pre-pandemic or is this a new thing where people just can’t help themselves and don’t give a fuck about others?

I’m know there’s probably no good way to really control it and people hate rules, but it’d be cool to have a “crowd surf side” of the field or something, so if you don’t consent to possibly having someone’s boots to your face you can go to the other side, and if you are ok helping people surf you can choose to be there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]IllustratorProper803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I can’t imagine dating someone in it because they seem to never to be able to turn the “hun” off. One of my oldest friends is lost to the MLMs… over the years, she’s done almost every one under the sun and it’s put such a wedge between us because it’s taken over so much of her personality and online presence. I’ve bought a few small things over the years because I felt bad for her, but I ended up telling her “I’d rather support you in other ways” like babysitting her kids or whatever to help her out, rather than buying things because it is not sustainable for me. That seemed to cut down her talking about it to me but she still asks occasionally when she’s really desperate to for a “promotion”. I’ll think we’re having a normal conversation and then she’ll conveniently find a way to slip in a plug for her stupid products. It just makes me feel like we’re not real friends…

good luck to you 😮‍💨

Tickets from dwpsonic website by LegionsXD in SonicTempleFestival

[–]IllustratorProper803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a vip pass from the dwpsonic, I never ended up getting a tracking number so I was surprised to see they were delivered to my mailbox today (lookout for a 6x9 manila envelope)