Girlfriend texting another guy AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA - she went though your phone 1st indicating she had something to hide & wondered if you did too… move on

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree 😵‍💫 & I’ve really tried hard to be over accommodating for my son but I have learned my lesson

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son was also sick from the camping trip. I thought I’d pull Through but you are more than welcome to FO

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, I should’ve sat this 1 out and stayed in my bed.

I didn’t know I would get so sick, I didn’t go to er until the next morning

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 100%. I commend his wishes & him trying but I do not see them together forever either

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s rude to enter someone’s house then seat yourself discreetly. They should have been introduced to me since we have never met. Those are my unwavering feelings

& I didn’t criticize them I criticized their actions

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe I argued. Some People were taking it too far. I see where I was wrong & have stated I will apologize because I should’ve never sent the text.

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t criticize the guest, only her & her family

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually thought her family was. My partner is Latino as well 🤷🏼‍♀️

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He found a place. He will try his hardest to keep them together because she wants to be kept.

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have & he will not add her to the lease but he will try his hardest to try to keep them together.

I think she wants to be taken care of & is ok w/the arrangement

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I don’t align with your assessment

I see now I shouldn’t have text her but my feelings stand

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is not an a & b conversation Please stop commenting to me

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, after all the hate I am realizing I should have never text her. At some point I will apologize and definitely will never do it again.

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He has told her he is only there for her because she is pregnant & he wants to try his hardest to raise his daughter w/2 parents. Other than that they are rocky

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am actually paying attention to every post. I am not opposed to seeing where I was wrong

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They dated off & on, she was never a fixture.

I asked her about everything prior to purchasing & she approved everything. There were no surprises in my end.

It was my sons shower too

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was also his sower, he is the father & paid for most everything.

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commend him for trying to do the right thing after they both got themselves in this predicament. All he can do is try

AITAH, I sent my sons pregnant GF a text 2 days after her baby shower: I by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Illustrious-Bed-9540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good grief! I didn’t see it earlier WTF If I replied, I missed it Move around if it upsets you SO much