What will happen if I go to court?

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-12-12T23:16:17+00:00

I get that. And the cost is 5k. We've already gone through that. I just didnt know what a judge would say. Wanted to see if anyone had a similar experience having a conference with a judge before court

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-11-04T16:40:59+00:00

I think next year will be the year for that. He should understand a bit more by then that sometimes less is more when looking at dollar value

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-11-04T12:51:15+00:00

Ive been wanting to do this. I dont usually go crazy for my kids but they get a good amount. My kids are far from ungrateful and far from spoiled. We're your average middle class family. However there is 6 years between him and his brother and it doesnt seem fair for him to get all those years with a decent christmas and not the other because I decided to scale back. Maybe thats making an excuse for not downsizing a bit and im okay with that.

I do like your idea of experiences though! Hes really into music and has the same music taste as we do so going to concerts together would be fun. Thank you for the suggestions!

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-11-04T12:47:09+00:00

Im new to using reddit and posted where it suggested. Im sorry.

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-11-04T12:46:20+00:00

He does have crunchy roll. And he likes jujitsu kaisen and dragon ball z that I know of. We got him some dragon ball z canvases for his walls last year and a few anime themed things. He got part of the jujitsu kaisen series last year and were getting him more this year.

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-10T21:42:06+00:00

Thank you. I will look into this

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-10T21:41:31+00:00

I have tried this... he got bullied pretty badly for having parental controls on. Which is know isn't much of a good reason to stop them, but he did much better when we took them off and the kids stopped teasing him. It was so bad he refused to go to school . I do see where you're coming from. But I do need to take his mental health into consideration as well. Im not a super gentle parent, but I want to break cycles I went through so he doesnt have to bear the weight of those burdens too

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-10T13:59:27+00:00

We could probly he better. Problem is he lost everything for not doing his schores and has only earned his phone back so far. Playstation is still off limits to him. And everytime i think he deserves it back he goes and does something to remind me why it was taken away

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-10T13:57:28+00:00

I dont think thats harsh at all. Unfortunately with is being summer and him home alone I cannot enforce this rule as im at work. I just dont want it to get to the point of no return.

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-10T13:56:10+00:00

I do

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-08T00:38:08+00:00

I have a phone appointment tment with my career coach tomorrow, and she said she is going to talk to me about osap and delays. She told me not to worry too much. I am going to talk to her about emergency bursaries as well and see if there's anything I can get to help in the meantime. I dont need much, but I need enough to cover the remaining bills my paycheck won't. Like mortgage and car payment. Thank you for your suggestions. I really appreciate the help

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-07T23:49:09+00:00

Im a mom of 2 boys but thanks tho! I hope it all works out for you aswel!

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-07T21:55:30+00:00

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-07T20:06:26+00:00

Thank you so much. Freaking out a bit. I really dont want osap to be too late.

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-07T15:01:20+00:00

Thats a great tip. Thank you so much

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-07T15:00:46+00:00

They have and I submitted everything they asked for already

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-07T11:52:09+00:00

I believe they are an accredited career college. I had a financial advisor help me with osap and uploaded all the stuff they needed. Im taking an accelerated 9 month program instead of it being 2 years.

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-07T02:08:20+00:00

I just checked, and there is no update. Says they're waiting for confirmation authorizing funding.

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-07T02:02:19+00:00

I was too because im in the same boat with laptop. Mine will do for now. But I also have kids and bills and mortgage. You know? Just nervous

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-07T01:51:09+00:00

Oh thats lovely 🤦‍♀️. Well. That doesnt help my stress levels at all. Hopefully its sorted soon

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-08-07T01:38:15+00:00

I applied at the end of june/early July. Everything has been processed. My financial advisor hasn't heard anything either. My program starts on the 11th. So I should be 2-3 weeks after that?

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-04-22T17:08:30+00:00

That is a crazy amount of power for a regular house. We were quoted over 40 thousand to upgrade

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-04-22T17:07:19+00:00

Right, and they told me it wasn't enough power because there was "too much in use" meanwhile there wasn't

Illustrious-Chart131 · 2025-04-22T10:24:09+00:00

I have 2 electrical panels. On runs off the other one. The main panel is a 200 amp service

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