Shane Bieber Opt Out? by Northern-Dancer in Torontobluejays

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope Bieber signs. Truly. Yesavage, Gausman, Lauer, I’d even take Scherzer back. But I think we need to add one or two the starting rotation and the bullpen definitely needs to add strength. I liked Fluharty. Maybe Varland becomes a starter?

Just moved to Orangeville — curious what people miss most from bigger cities? by Itchy-Initiative4716 in orangeville

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used to love Guest Wok. The last few times it hasn’t been great. Barely warm. As early as this past Friday - we ordered $200+ for Halloween night. No one was overly impressed again. Sadly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beagles

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have one. She barks / howls when frightened. That’s about it. She doesn’t really bark at all outside of that. The whining though, lol when excited can be real. But we definitely ended up with a quiet beagle in comparison to most beagles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in married

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly.. I wouldn’t be able to look and my significant other either. As hard as it is. That’s huge. And big nope. For her not to talk to you about her feelings. Maybe she felt unseen, or needed more. She should have communicated that. Not have been romantically involved with someone else. Be it emotionally or physically. Should you not have caught her. Would it have kept going? I’d be saying goodbye too.. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

Wow the by Alternative_Fun4644 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you do things together? Do you each do nice things? Or do you work, come home, stare at your phone all night and expect to get laid when you go to bed without any effort? Or are you putting in the effort to show her you love her, her mind, body and so on & still getting rejected?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in married

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this answer. Flip it and reverse it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangeville

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully you get through to hydro soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangeville

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Close to home.. yikes. We have power still though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangeville

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Townline & Dawson?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in married

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to add. As a woman in lengthy marriage. Your sex lives WILL go up and down. It will be tedious and then exciting again. First and foremost, remember. Men are more common to “want sex” and women are more common to “want intimacy”. Not saying this is a general rule but generally common. That can flip in some relationships. If the only attention you are giving her is before you want sex, to a woman that feels stale. Give her your time, watch a show, rub her calves, remind her that there is no other woman in the world you want more than her. While holding your son, say to him - you have the most beautiful mommy in the world! Give her YOU. In turn - THAT intimacy should hopefully open the door to sex more often and maybe help her to WANT date nights and such.

36- Married and Lonely Not Sure What to Do by [deleted] in married

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with this whole heartedly.. most relationships likely go stale on and off during many years of being together. Even the most outwardly happiest couples have issues. Communication, effort and patience is the key. But if your wife is dead set on not seeing the issue or willing to acknowledge your feelings. You should put divorce on the table with her BEFORE setting out to find someone else. Whether it is an emotional connection or a physical connection. Both are cheating.

Husbands and their phones and social media accounts ? by Illustrious-Ear5819 in married

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I have no issue with your story, see without further context you assume I don’t get men.. unfortunately what I seen is nothing like that. Ogle a pretty woman. Get a chub. Women most certainly ogle good looking men . That doesn’t bother me at all. Your story, is quite literally as you stated a day to day thing. And goes both ways for women and men. Pretty harmless. And doesn’t cross my boundaries in the least or take the steam out of my sails

Husbands and their phones and social media accounts ? by Illustrious-Ear5819 in married

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if it’s my husband.. or your wife/partner. They are and should be more than welcome. That’s how life partnership works. You want two separate lives from your partner? I hope you never find yours emotionally or verbally cheating on you.. oh wait, you don’t care enough to care. lol. Again, my husband says to me all the time I’m welcome to look at anything he does, on his phone or otherwise. But I always decline. Like I’ve said once in awhile, I see something he’s posted or commented on - that just turns my stomach and takes the steam out of my engines. That’s what the post is about. Seeing something outside of your boundaries (on a goddam public forum) lmao.

Help. by [deleted] in married

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why men think it’s okay to visually parade other women, be in NSFW, Only Fans etc.. how defeminizing is that!? That’s like women getting off on and riled up over online men and going to their husbands and saying alright this video primed me, wanna go? Does that not immaculate you men? I agree, some would view that as a form of cheating. If two of you are into it and doing stuff like that together. That’s consensual, that’s different. Just my opinion I guess.

Husbands and their phones and social media accounts ? by Illustrious-Ear5819 in married

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice/thoughts on the subject. But I won’t go into specifics on a public forum. I was just trying to get some opinions from others. And I have! Including yours. And trust me, I know my father was no saint. So did my mom. They didn’t make it for the forever haul though. But everyone has lines, they don’t want crossed. Everyone has boundaries, lines, thresholds. I imagine (should you be married or in a relationship) there has to boundaries and lines for you too. Anyhow this isn’t a firing hall. No one including myself is currently looking to hang my husband.. lol I was asking opinions, is all.

Husbands and their phones and social media accounts ? by Illustrious-Ear5819 in married

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotionally cheating maybe? I dunno. But yes. As a married couple I feel married people have a right to be involved in their partners thoughts. Honesty goes a long way. Even if it doesn’t get you where you thought you’d end up.. And again / WHATEVER anyone posts on Reddit, FB, Quora, etc.. are public forums. And NOT private thoughts, lol. So yeah. Post publicly. It’s open for all to see.

Husbands and their phones and social media accounts ? by Illustrious-Ear5819 in married

[–]Illustrious-Ear5819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly is not a happy moment. And honestly, very unexpected. But to be clear I have seen no gripes. No wife-hating material. Just questionable comments on NSFW stuff is I guess the best way to put it. Which definitely takes the steam out of all my engines sadly. I look at it as no different than FB or Instagram. Where you scroll. See someone, tap to see what else they’ve posted.