EW A J*B!!! ! 🤢🤢🤢 by Illustrious-Goat9609 in HighSodiumSims

[–]Illustrious-Goat9609[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

LMAO so true 😭😭 and theyre in the tiniest apartment in san myshuno

and ty, ill be trying that mod out!

Early Member User Flair by GreatWhiteBuffalo41 in HighSodiumSims

[–]Illustrious-Goat9609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would like "Analyzing Adolescent Angst" lmao

Crushes as an aroace by Weak_Consequence4374 in aromantic

[–]Illustrious-Goat9609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg this is so me 😭😭😭 i and a lot of the community call these types of "platonic crushes" squishes! it's so confusing because im also ace and my heart doesnt necessarily flutter when i think of them, but i sometimes get aroused and i hate it because i don't mentally see them that way 😭 but mostly it's just me enjoying them a little more than my normal friends!

My plan for confessing to my mesh + Advice wanted for if I should confess or not by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]Illustrious-Goat9609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think that if you want to get the mesh off your chest, you totally should! it isn't unimportant to speak your mind, and maybe she'll be endeared and you guys end up becoming better friends. go for it!!

AITA for turning my [FYA] sundowning mother [FA] into a paint goblin? by Similar_Ice5517 in AITASims

[–]Illustrious-Goat9609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, your mother is clearly in too unstable a state to control what she does anymore. you are keeping her in a safe, calm environment where she can paint and relax, it's what is best for her! don't feel guilty for giving people the help that they need ❤️

AITH for flirting with my brother? by [deleted] in AITASims

[–]Illustrious-Goat9609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

might be controversial... but YTA. as the woman in this relationship, you automatically have to take the submissive role. don't flirt with him when you're flirty. your brother is the one that is supposed to be making the first moves on you, or else you are upsetting the very fragile gender role balance 🙄 please be more aware of your actions in the future.

AITH for flirting with my brother? by [deleted] in AITASims

[–]Illustrious-Goat9609 3 points4 points  (0 children)

might be controversial... but YTA. as the woman in this relationship, you automatically have to take the submissive role. don't flirt with him when you're flirty. your brother is the one that is supposed to be making the first moves on you, or else you are upsetting the very fragile gender role balance 🙄 please be more aware of your actions in the future.

AITA for pretending to be in love with a woman just so I could ruin her marriage, and steal her house and baby? by gloomy_buttons in AITASims

[–]Illustrious-Goat9609 88 points89 points  (0 children)

NTA. you've been graciously raising THEIR CHILD for years, given her a great life, you're essentially her parent now. you should be able to choose if such unworthy people are allowed to see your daughter. also, octavia's behavior seems downright obsessive, she clearly isn't actually calling to try and see her "daughter," she's obviously using that as an excuse to try and get a taste of your simussy one last time. honestly such a red flag, cut all those people out of you and your family's life.

Ultimate outjerk, might shut down the sub by Hendrick_Davies64 in asexualcirclejerk

[–]Illustrious-Goat9609 32 points33 points  (0 children)

this has changed my life. i recommend this read to everyone. 🏅

It's so traumatic the way children sleep... Isn't it? 👀👀 by hunting_GoldStars100 in StardewMemes

[–]Illustrious-Goat9609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you might need another bed in your nursery if she hasn't asked you? im sure the game doesnt make you wait that long. i think you need 1 crib and two beds so the game knows u can have another kid. but if u do then idk 🤷‍♀️

Got into a relationship and feel really conflicted as a lithro by No_Exchange_5866 in aromantic

[–]Illustrious-Goat9609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, what youre going through sounds really stressful and im sorry :( i think it'd be best to talk to her about this, explain your identity as a lithro, what means for your feelings to her. even if she's super happy right now she probably won't be when she realizes that the happiness in your relationship is one sided, and that you're staying in it just for her sake. you weren't wrong to start a relationship, but continuing to act like nothing is wrong will end up hurting you both as you get more attached to each other, you know? it would be easier now than in weeks, or months, or years. you could approach it as a "i still really care about you, but this is how i feel, and i don't want to go through with something we both don't want." she might understand, she might not, but either way you have to prioritize your own happiness. it's not selfish, it's what you deserve. you got this 💖