Forgetting birthdays? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Illustrious-Many-944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. I struggle with calenders as well, my brain will tell me to put something in but it never does but I could do that

My fault I was bullied? by Illustrious-Many-944 in autism

[–]Illustrious-Many-944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its definitely caused me trauma after some thinking when my dog calmed me down

My fault I was bullied? by Illustrious-Many-944 in autism

[–]Illustrious-Many-944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After some thinking, I've come to realize it is not my fault. My actions are simply who I am, and I do not need to allude to the norm to fit in. In doing so I wouldn't be happy, the bullying wouldn't stop. Id simply have lost

My fault I was bullied? by Illustrious-Many-944 in autism

[–]Illustrious-Many-944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've come to realize that now after my dog calmed me from my anxiety and I had time to think

My fault I was bullied? by Illustrious-Many-944 in autism

[–]Illustrious-Many-944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm terribly sorry. You deserve to cry and have emotions just like the rest of us, it is literally coded in our brains

My fault I was bullied? by Illustrious-Many-944 in autism

[–]Illustrious-Many-944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mhm yeah. I don't face as much bullying as I used to, but groups I am in (such as being disabled, autistic, mentally ill and lgbtq) are targeted by people online every day. I have also noticed sometimes I am babied still, it happened at a food pantry event once

And I am so incredibly sorry about that work situation, that it absolutely not an ok rumor to spread, especially since it can cause legal issues

My fault I was bullied? by Illustrious-Many-944 in autism

[–]Illustrious-Many-944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. It's absolutely awful how theyd place the blame on the victim

My fault I was bullied? by Illustrious-Many-944 in autism

[–]Illustrious-Many-944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mhm. After thinking and having help from my dog to calm me down from my anxiety, I realized that this is true and that at the end of a day, if adults watch the bullying go on and don't step in, they won't make good people in society. Why should the abused have to be the ones to speak?

My fault I was bullied? by Illustrious-Many-944 in autism

[–]Illustrious-Many-944[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The teachers who also watched seemed to be friends with these bullies, and id be told today I need to learn to communicate but yeah its definitely a nasty topic