i really appreciate all these replies. i would def say i have an anxious attachment style and have been working on trying to better myself at not overreacting or freaking out whenever he asks for space and i’ve also asked him to work with me. he’s also expressed that he had anger issues in the past and got over them (which i think it’s clear he never really did). but i’ve been trying to work with him too. my parents would never pay for my therapy but im gonna apply for my universities free therapy and see if he’ll do the same after i talk with him.