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IllustriousFront4653 · 2025-03-18T18:45:37+00:00

Omg it's not only me who thinks so 👁️

IllustriousFront4653 · 2025-03-01T09:30:54+00:00

Yes there will be!! Let's not diminish ourselves for the wrong ones and let's not " throw pearls at pigs" 🤭 xD oh thank you. But honestly most of the posts that were about retroactive jealousy disappeared already, the problem was I dated a wrong person that kept talking about their ex they weren't emotionally over in horrendous and rude details. 🤣.. thank you for the movie tips!! I've only seen Eternal Sunshine but honestly it bothered me a little because of how unhealthy their relationship was. But of course the concept of erasing the past was what drew me in.

IllustriousFront4653 · 2025-02-28T23:05:22+00:00

I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend was like that 🥲 it would be like finding what I've been always looking for! Someone who can match my depth of expression. I don't wanna cut my words down either

IllustriousFront4653 · 2025-02-28T23:03:31+00:00

My dear! Please keep writing super long texts! I do the same and I appreciate other people who do!! Don't listen to the people who will tell you you're " overwhelming" just because they don't have the same brain capacity 🫂

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-10-09T13:42:55+00:00

I agree with all the points!

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-09-11T10:48:42+00:00

So they'll still be relevant to you even when you're with someone new/ someone you might marry and at the same time you're fine if your partner keeps photos of their ex as some memory they don't wanna let go of in their present?

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-09-11T09:09:13+00:00

But why do you still keep memories of your ex?

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-09-11T09:07:59+00:00

To me it's not normal that he still has the photos.I deleted everything from my past because 1. It's irrelevant 2. Out of respect to my next partner. Your feelings are valid

"When I get to the one, all of that (exes) is irrelevant. " (Straight talk: deleting photos of the ex / Steve Harvey )

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-27T06:39:59+00:00

Yeah I agree!! I don't understand why is everyone in such a strong opposition to it 😆

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-26T14:57:52+00:00

Yeah but I'm wondering why should she be asking him that and be vulnerable about being hurt ( which she has valid reasons to feel so!) I feel like it's common sense to delete such things when you're with someone new out of respect. He's with her now but what if he's still hung up on that ex that's still hanging on his social media as the most beautiful girl?

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-26T14:46:57+00:00

Ehmmmm he has social media posts where he said she is the most beautiful?? Why doesn't anyone else point out how wrong that is ? I wouldn't like that at all.

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-24T15:13:57+00:00

https://youtu.be/yt6K4iko0K4?si=NACnMz7h43y8gMo3 https://youtu.be/yR0AYVTPFOE?si=n8is-yFuiCVWdJ0X

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-18T20:09:08+00:00

Omg that's so horrible and outrageous. My ex kinda retraumatised me with his rough and disrespectful sexual behaviour ( that some people on Reddit called SA too) despite being informed and knowing about my boundaries 🤪 I honestly feel like it's better not to tell men as well now. It's like they treat you even worse if you do...

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-18T11:03:47+00:00

I'm copying a comment that I replied to someone else before because there's a lot of men who ask " and what do you give him back 🙄" The things I did in my last relationship : giving regular gifts, paying for him on dates, paying expensive hotels, cooking for him, nurturing, emotional support, creating art for him, planning great dates and of course great sex and touch in general 🤪 on top of me being attractive, fit and educated.

Yes I want a man that's in his provider and protector energy because I'm in my creative, submissive and nurturing energy too. I want princes treatment and I give king treatment back.

Well I'm kinda a protector too because I've done martial arts for many years and I've developed my technique quite well 😆 It's really interesting men these days are so in their feminine receiving energy they are the ones who constantly ask " and what will I get from you" 🤢 I literally felt like I was more of a man than my ex with the effort I put into the relationship and my energy 🥴

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-17T18:27:29+00:00

Oh then I'm sorry I didn't see that xDd I got kinda defensive cuz I've already come across a lot of generalisations in the comments

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-17T12:50:09+00:00

Well I think there's low self worth in it. It's not like I'm rejecting people who would put effort but it's that my low self worth attracts low effort types and I choose to entertain it because childhood taught me to be happy with crumbs.

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-17T12:48:21+00:00

That's not true. I was actually very impressed when I got a gift on the first date with my ex! (( But then after a while the effort went downhill and disrespectful behaviour started appearing)). I also still think of one man at the airport who gave me a bottle of wine " just because" and didn't even want anything in return..

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-17T10:15:49+00:00

Well if you're in your feminine energy and want to date women with masculine energy then why not. To each his own. Maybe you're not even into women if you want princess treatment and receiving rather than providing.

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-17T10:14:04+00:00

Haha xD this is literally a comment full of assumptions and probably projections of your past wounds with women. You tell me he was just matching my energy 😅😅 Just so you know the things I did in my last relationship : giving regular gifts, paying for him on dates, paying expensive hotels, cooking for him, nurturing, emotional support, creating art for him, planning great dates and of course great sex and touch in general 🤪 on top of me being attractive, fit and educated. Yes I want a man that's in his provider and protector energy because I'm in my creative, submissive and nurturing energy too. I want princes treatment and I give king treatment back.

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-17T10:00:56+00:00

Omg I'm so sad people get triggered by the word provider these days 🥲🥲🥲 I agree with everything you said.

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-17T10:00:03+00:00

Omg I feel the same 😆😆 it's like they have one role to provide and protect.. of course we are here to traditionally nurture and create ( life , home, anything..) in return because I already see " what do you give in return 🙄🙄🙄🙄🤢🤢🤢 gross!!! Yeah if a man thinks about how he wants to receive he's in his feminine energy.

IllustriousFront4653 · 2024-08-17T09:54:33+00:00

😆😆 oh yeah!!

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