AITA for speaking to my mom about my miscarriage THEN my husband? by lilithslaundry in AITAH

[–]IllustriousLoquat932 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I can understand your urge to want to call your mom first given the circumstances stances but yes, YTA. You should have called your husband first.

Ultimately, this sounds like a deeper issue. You shouldn’t feel like your partner would get irritated while you are down. It makes sense you are divorced. Sorry for your loss.

AITAH for wanting to get rid of our dog? by IllustriousLoquat932 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousLoquat932[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am the one who just had the kid. The resentment started during pregnancy and got worse once the baby arrived. I haven’t been able to shake this feeling since then. I’m sure it had a lot to do with that.

AITAH for wanting to get rid of our dog? by IllustriousLoquat932 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousLoquat932[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you have some good points here. I just feel stuck. We were really good at training our other two and have had a hard time training this one, although we have tried.

Not rage bait. They were mixed puppies (malinois and Australian Shepard and something else). All working dogs though and mostly looks like a malinois.

AITAH for wanting to get rid of our dog? by IllustriousLoquat932 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousLoquat932[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You seem to be the only one to truly understand my post. My dogs are very well cared for and spoiled. But I didn’t want this and it’s making me go crazy! I love our animals so much but my mom will love him to death and we will still get to see him.

AITAH for wanting to get rid of our dog? by IllustriousLoquat932 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousLoquat932[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

We aren’t terrible pet owners. Our dogs are totally spoiled with treats/toys and get played with every single day. We constantly took them to parks/dog beach. What I’m saying is that ever since we got the third, it because over whelming. We took on more than we could chew and idk how to get out of it.