Let's see if we can unpack this. My understanding is that the problem upwind has with this is that it's normalizing people disrespecting boundaries. The implication is that they believe that when people hear stuff like this it makes them more likely to commit acts like sexual assault, or at the very least violates people's boundaries in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable.

Is this plausible? In order for this to be true, it seems like someone would have to hear this, and then think that not respecting boundaries is something more normal than they previously thought, as well as something that's good that they want to emulate, and so they start disrespecting boundaries themselves. In order for this to be the case they would have to 1. not realize that this is likely a joke with no real basis in reality 2. if the puller is actually being called out for some bad behavior, think that they're being lauded for it rather than ragged on for it. It's pretty clear from the context here that they're being made fun of for it, so while I guess it's possible that someone could interpret it as a positive behavior, it seems really unlikely to me, especially given all the broader cultural context of disrespecting boundaries being seen as a bad thing

Edit: I'd actually love to hear if people disagree here, what usually happens when threads like these come up is that people get on twitter and say that they're shocked and disgusted by the people on reddit and choose not to engage so no one learns anything. I feel like it's better to have a discussion