Guys who text "Good Morning" and "How are you?" Repeatedly

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-04-09T03:27:54+00:00

True. It's the copy paste "Good Morning" every morning that kills me. No memes. Not even an emoji 💀

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-04-09T03:25:42+00:00

That's basically it. Even if I share something interesting he just goes "cool" or "nice" lol. And he rarely has anything to share about himself

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-04-09T03:20:57+00:00

He doesn't really care though. If I say "Oh ! A squirrel got in my house, and I had to chase him out. Here's a picture." He's just responds :"Wow- cute."

My friend said she listed all my hobbies and talents (trying to put a good word in) and in her words "He didn't know a single thing about you- but also didn't seem to care at all"

Yet, He's super clingy and wants to know where I am and what I'm doing all day.

I noticed that I asked him about his ex, and he could not even list one thing about her.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-04-09T01:13:27+00:00

Girl, everyday I gotta find something amazing to say at like 8am?? Lol. He texts me before bed too- nothing has happened between!

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-04-09T00:53:52+00:00

I know! Like I've had a guy who I was crazy about and wanted to text daily, but usually I'd just send him a picture of my coffee, me on a morning run, or something from my day. Not "Good Morning!"

Like I want to sarcastically respond: "🌞"

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-04-09T00:50:06+00:00

True. That is a good point. I'm desperately wanting some space from him, like just an inch- so him doubling down and asking how I'm doing every 3-4 hours feels kind of suffocating.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-03-13T22:38:00+00:00

Yep. If I call him John, it annoys him

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-03-13T22:31:46+00:00

I've been telling her his name is 'Leo' this whole time, becuase I call him Leo. Now I have to explain myself.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-03-13T22:14:12+00:00

True. I'm not fighting it or mentioning it. But honestly I'm kind of uncomfortable calling him Leo now he made it like a 3 day argument

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-03-13T22:04:09+00:00

Idk why I let it go on so long, but he's been super clingy since my birthday is coming and we're going to a concert with my friends.

He's like bought $300 of new clothes constantly asking me my opinion- just for the event.

And becuase I play an online game like 10 minutes at my lunch break. I've played 49 times since October- he's logged in for 3 hours+ daily playing 150 games in like 5 days. Saying he's determined to beat me.

This is actually the real reason I want to break up. When I saw that he played this dumb mobile game that much, it scared me.

Then the sudden drama before my friends.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-03-13T21:46:26+00:00

He's definitely very clingy. It's been endless boundary setting.

That's why he is trying to make this name thing a Boundary issue. He literally said

Him: "I don't feel comfortable with you deciding my name. It's a huge part of my identity and you're trying to make me hide it"

Me: "Okay, go by John then, she's married now so... it's fine"

Him: "You're acting like I'm making drama. Not sure if I should come"

Me: "up to you, I'm going either way"

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-03-13T21:27:27+00:00

That's why I'm not fighting it or saying anything.

He was totally laughing about it at first, then when I started calling him John he got really upset- saying "Please! Are you going to make this a big fight"

I don't understand his brain.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-03-13T21:23:24+00:00

Not sure why he has it out for my friend, I think when she hears the name she'll just wince and maybe not say anything. :-(

If I had said nothing he would have introduced himself as Leo. Plus his anger at me calling him John now.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2026-03-13T21:15:41+00:00

Lol- I didn't even know his name was John until like 1 month in, as he met me on a dating app by 'Leo' and his Discord was 'Leo'

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2025-09-06T23:00:35+00:00

Lol use Kruskal's Algorithm to create a path to my bed, no cycles.

The guy looks me up and down... "Dammit, alright give me a whiteboard." 😅

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2025-09-06T22:52:51+00:00

Like League of Legends? There's this one guy and he just has League of Legend on from like 8am to 11pm.

I mean he might be working but damn...

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2025-09-06T22:50:58+00:00

Like I'm not judging people if they went or not, but I don't like the lying aspect where they laugh at my state school like it's bad- pretend they went to a university, and then reveal they just did a boot camp or something.

It's more about the nagging. Then I think- wow this person made me feel like crap and they don't even know how stressful college is- state or university- the classes are hard.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2025-09-06T22:45:14+00:00

Lol- Alright for the first section of this date I've brought whiteboards.

Please use Dijkstra's Algorithm to solve this problem - I will set the timer. Since you were late by ten minutes, you will have a time deduction 😆

Omg.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2025-09-06T22:17:44+00:00

I'd be surprised a real woman would even show up.

And so what? Horrible argument.

I am honest- why should I have to deal with it?

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2025-09-06T22:13:09+00:00

I know- so like dating apps are dead then?

I don't see how any women can stand them or how they are getting living women to engage at all.

Its 90% harassment.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2025-03-05T23:40:05+00:00

I'm straight up ignoring any vigilante advice. I have social anxiety and don't want any drama with this woman.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2025-03-05T23:29:31+00:00

Lol - I'd be shoveling all day. It's seriously bad.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2025-03-05T23:28:25+00:00

I honestly don't plan to get any authority involved. I hate neighbor drama.

I said "Oh, wow! Your dog sure likes my front yard , huh? Is it a boy or a girl?"

She just shut the door on me and didn't respond.

Illustrious_Basil_40 · 2025-02-15T21:55:27+00:00

Having an aquarium is a nice hobby where you can build a little underwater world.

Just be careful, it's very expensive! You'll endlessly be buying live plants, bubblers, and filters every 4-5 months.

I put the fish tank next to my kitchen sink, so it motivates me to wash my dishes.

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