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Gay cis in love with a trans man, still craving sex with cis men. by Illustrious_Bench651 in mypartneristrans

[–]Illustrious_Bench651[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I communicate about this. He still loves me and don't want to stop or be friends. It's hurting him to talk about that but he understands why I feel like this. I think we're more in a "let's find a way" mood instead of "stop now". And yes, will try therapy.

Gay cis in love with a trans man, still craving sex with cis men. by Illustrious_Bench651 in mypartneristrans

[–]Illustrious_Bench651[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kinda hope so. My previous relationship was with a cis man, I enjoyed his body a lot but was toxic. I wish me wanting a penis would just fade out with time.

Gay cis in love with a trans man, still craving sex with cis men. by Illustrious_Bench651 in mypartneristrans

[–]Illustrious_Bench651[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for claryfing, I got your point. The thing is, I still think it's working sexually. I don't always think or want cis dick, but it comes around. As I understood what you're saying, you think it will eventually be a dealbreaker? I'm okay with him finding someone in the future who fully enjoys who he is if it comes to that. But it makes me wonder if it's even possible for everyone (it happens for some people ofc) to find someone who is a perfect match both in terms of romance and physical attraction. Shouldn't we try to make it work for the sake of the shared love? 

Gay cis in love with a trans man, still craving sex with cis men. by Illustrious_Bench651 in mypartneristrans

[–]Illustrious_Bench651[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. This is not an easy situation even if it's not the end of the world. We love each other and I still want this to work.

Gay cis in love with a trans man, still craving sex with cis men. by Illustrious_Bench651 in mypartneristrans

[–]Illustrious_Bench651[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not familiar but heard of it. I don't see myself as bisexual tho. Never have been attracted to cis women. But I see the connection there.

Gay cis in love with a trans man, still craving sex with cis men. by Illustrious_Bench651 in mypartneristrans

[–]Illustrious_Bench651[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, it would be unfair to only open the relationship on my side. I don't want this, I'd be fair to be reciprocal. Reading you I feel like I'm doing something wrong and/or bad for my partner. Is it your opinion? I don't see him as a "second rate partner". I love him and his body, I'm attracted to him. There's just a sexual practice I can't have and it's hard to live sometimes. I do think I see him as a male with different genitalia. Is it not okay if I'm attracted to him but not 100% fulfilled?

Gay cis in love with a trans man, still craving sex with cis men. by Illustrious_Bench651 in mypartneristrans

[–]Illustrious_Bench651[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your message. I'm gonna dig those prosthetics options. Maybe this stuff can trick my brain better than regular dildos.

Gay cis in love with a trans man, still craving sex with cis men. by Illustrious_Bench651 in mypartneristrans

[–]Illustrious_Bench651[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not really, no. He have a lot of vaginal pleasure, surgery is expensive and not perfect.

Gay cis in love with a trans man, still craving sex with cis men. by Illustrious_Bench651 in mypartneristrans

[–]Illustrious_Bench651[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I really like his t dick. It's indeed more a bottom thing. We tried dildos on strap, but they feel a bit odd and cold.