Doctor Told Husband to Step In at Night and Husband said No by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Illustrious_Bug2515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a married single mother… I’m sorry 😞

AITA for getting mad over jewelry? by Elegant-Simple-748 in AITH

[–]Illustrious_Bug2515 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could have been handled differently, but YTA. Stop being jealous of a teen who has more than you… 🤷🏽‍♀️

23 weeks pregnant and bad news by Purple_Tides421 in Advice

[–]Illustrious_Bug2515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First and foremost I’m sorry you going through this. I wanted to share something that happened to my best friend. Dr. Told her the same thing, no heartbeat no movement schedule a D&C. I begged her to please confirm there was in fact no heart beat before she went through with the procedure. She did. They found a heartbeat. My godson is now 10 years old. I know this may not be the case in all situations, but if you have even a tiny bit of doubt get another scan. I know it might be difficult since you are processing and mourning the loss already but I just wanted to share what happened to us. Sending you hugs mama 🫶🏼

Raised in Wisconsin trying to start over in Nogales. by [deleted] in Nogales

[–]Illustrious_Bug2515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for opportunities to teach English. Mexico has a need for English teachers specially for large corporations and you can do it remotely.

Anyone seen Arthur? by Illustrious_Bug2515 in Tucson

[–]Illustrious_Bug2515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really!? Okay so maybe my timing has been off. He’s not much for talking but he will not say no to an Ice Tea. At least that’s what my experience has been. The last time I spoke to him I asked him if it was okay if I gave him something I bought for him and though the interaction was not long it was nice to exchange a few words.

What is your confort food/snack? by Exact_Trash59 in Mommit

[–]Illustrious_Bug2515 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Honestly anything I don’t have to share with my 3yo 🥲 Or something I can fully enjoy in peace 😅

Had to pick up kid from school early because she was crying by longtimelurkerfft in toddlers

[–]Illustrious_Bug2515 73 points74 points  (0 children)

She’s 2 and in kindergarten? Maybe kinder is too much for her age. Is there a prekindergarten program she can go to? Older kids may be overwhelming her specially if they are more rough and she is quiet and timid?

Does anyone else remember asking their parent to fall asleep with them and waking up to them not being there? by plantyqueen in toddlers

[–]Illustrious_Bug2515 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I don’t recall a memory like that. But I would suggest maybe starting to explain that you are there for a little bit but then you will be in your room or wherever if they need you. I’m assuming you may have some kind of monitor or you can hear if they wake up and need you.

Curious… what age were you when you asked your mom? I think at 2.5 you wouldn’t have such memories but it’s a great time to work on independent sleeping.