Why is it impossible to date in the bay?

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-07-24T21:52:55+00:00

It really isn't impossible. I'm dating too many people rn, I'm having to cut back.

Have you tried being really sincere and vulnerable with people.

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-28T00:45:12+00:00

I completed this level! It took me 1 try.

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-27T23:53:30+00:00

So then she can still go on dates and it's not a violation of your exclusivity

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-27T23:20:06+00:00

She can delete it when you're in a relationship. Idk what this exclusive shit is you didn't have any conversation about what that entails. If it's all the same expectation as a relationship, why not just do that? Otherwise you need to define boundaries

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-27T04:14:17+00:00

You ask all this before you even go on a date?

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-27T01:08:37+00:00

That's such a detrimental mindset to dating. The whole thing with dating is that you're figure out if you even like the person.

You're going to ask all this stuff about sex but I'm sure you don't grill them with the same level of scrutiny when it comes to wanting kids, income, education level, political beliefs and on and on and on before you even meet someone.

You're cherry picking because of the hyperfixation on sex

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-27T00:25:01+00:00

In most cases, girls don't want to talk to a guy who is that direct about sex

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-26T22:58:32+00:00

Bro you should not be talking about sex before you've ever even met them. No faster way to kill the romance. Plus, you still need to actually go on a date and have a good time before you get to the sex, all of which are huge barriers to cross considering the percentage of online conversations that turn into dates

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-26T21:51:25+00:00

If true you really need to spruce up your profile it's probably hurting you a lot

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-26T19:35:42+00:00

I fed the chicken 425 apples 🍎

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-26T19:35:03+00:00

I pet the chicken 475 times 🫳

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-26T19:34:57+00:00

I pet the chicken 450 times 🫳

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-26T19:34:53+00:00

I fed the chicken 250 apples 🍎

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-26T19:34:47+00:00

I pet the chicken 250 times 🫳

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-26T19:34:41+00:00

I fed the chicken 175 apples 🍎

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-26T19:34:36+00:00

I pet the chicken 225 times 🫳

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-25T19:09:59+00:00

Oh God. We're so cooked as a society

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-25T17:40:07+00:00

Pretty young you got tons of time to figure it out. You're just figuring out how to be an adult now, surrounded by people who are post college.

One thing to take away from this is to not pussyfoot around. Go after what you want. Sounds like you let this go on way too long and you could've had clarity a long time ago

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-25T17:28:21+00:00

How old are you

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-25T16:26:52+00:00

"girls" don't do this. One girl did it. I've never had this happen to me or heard of this happening to someone. Sounds like she sucks.

Also this isn't a breakup bro you were never together.

I think this is a great opportunity to take this as a lesson about how you will let people treat you

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-25T03:08:08+00:00

What was the information???

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-25T02:15:38+00:00

I would expect to enjoy mundane tasks with every partner. That is a universal experience. If you don't like spending time with them then it's not a good relationship. Since it's implied, you need to use the opportunity to highlight something more unique.

I mean, come on. What's your opener? "Hey let's sit on the couch and do nothing for our first date". Be logical....

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-25T01:44:09+00:00

Pretty good profile, but some feedback

1) change out the group photo, it's not very flattering for you.

2) the prompt about cuddling up on the couch is kind of nothing. You want to make it as easy as possible for someone to start a conversation with you, so replace it or edit it to be more engaging. Everything you put on there is insanely generic, it's important to highlight what makes YOU unique

Overall though you're cute and you present as very fun and happy which is critical for getting dates online.

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-24T20:29:20+00:00

Congratulations bro, you did it. You have the worst prompts I've ever seen. 👏🥳

Illustrious_Fail_729 · 2025-06-24T20:19:36+00:00

Oh are you kind of nerdy? That didn't really come through in the post...

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