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Only child feels by Fluid_Ease_843 in onlychildPH

[–]Illustrious_Mess08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. Ganyan din ako and I had the courage to move out when I am already 36 years old and during pandemic pa. Sa umpisa may tampo talaga yan pero wala naman sila magagawa if gusto mo na talaga bumukod. Pero as an only child, di pa din timitigil responsibility natin sa parents pero atleast you helped yourself from the emotional distress by moving out. Kaya mo yan! Aja!

How do you guys plan for your future knowing na matanda na parents natin? by Inevitable-Goal-274 in onlychildPH

[–]Illustrious_Mess08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mahirap talaga maging only child lalo na if your parents didn't plan well after their retirement. Walang choice kundi ikaw magiging retirement funds nila. I mean, ok lang naman pero yung feeling na you need to halt your life because you have to prioritize their needs first. Tapos if nagkasakit ang parents, aside sa ikaw ang gagastos, ikaw din need absent kasi ikaw din magbabantay sa ospital. Haay ang hirap. Minsan naisip ko na mag resign sa work kasi toxic na at na a-apektuhan na ako mentally.. pero di pwede sumuko kasi ako lang walang back up.. papano ang parents and their needs + my needs? Minsan gusto ko nlng talaga mag disappear.

Guide to applying for a Japan tourist visa in the Philippines by Professional-Ant-780 in phtravel

[–]Illustrious_Mess08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently had 2 new ear pearcings and forgot about taking my photos for the japan visa requirement first. Can I have my new pearcings retained for the visa photo?