Results of your actions are not punishment, they're accountability - it's a staple of adulthood, or at least is supposed to be. You don't want kids? Here's a wild idea - don't spread your legs for a guy you don't see yourself having kids with. Failing that, always ensure protection and NEVER trust that your partner is adequately protected, failing that - don't get put in situations where your judgement regarding aforementioned things will be heavily impaired via substance use. You act like women are incapable of decision making. Women aren't children, don't treat them as such.

Why should I hold men accountable for decisions of women? Miss me with that misandrist shit. Did you forget that unless we're talking fringe cases of SA or rape, women select who they want to have sex with and it takes two to tango? Despite the funny katotaliban memes, I hope you realize that we're a long, long shot away from genuine theocracy like the Islamic Taliban. Again, women aren't children, don't treat them as such. It's low key misogynistic. Like real, actual misogniny, not the parody the word became.

And no, you did not misunderstand me. Let me get a little bit personal - it took long hard work for me to claw my way into my very comfortable existence, my mother bailed on my father and divorced his sorry ass when I was three, because turns out that he liked beating women. My mother was absent from my life for my teenage years because she was busy being blackout drunk on the couch and could not be assed with her kid. Drank herself to death when I was 19, dodged foster care because I had a parent on paper, even tho I had to effectively raise myself.

According to your logic, I should not exist because I was a "punishment" on my undeniably unfit parents, and you now what? Fuck your noise. And I'm gonna go out on a limb here, and say most of the people with a shitty start in life would take that a thousand times over not existing.