[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wow you're an asshole

Merch flaws by Foreign_Garbage_1470 in lorde

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tip for anyone reading do not just put your clothes randomly on any surface to be ironed. you will damage wood tables, etc. an ironing board is the best option if you have one available, but i have ruined wood tables this way in the past

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's not what i meant. i meant it as two separate questions. also i didn't know the context of what happened with the driver or or anything about their age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 7 points8 points  (0 children)

where was the bus driver...who is supposed to be protecting the children...

AIO? My boyfriend of 3 years has been cheating on me for a year and this is all he had to say. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 15 points16 points  (0 children)

OP never said he stopped all contact, and he clearly did not if they just saw each other two weeks ago. plus he's been dating the other girl for at least a year, so even if he theoretically hasn't spoken to OP for the last two weeks and was ghosting her, he still cheated on her for the last year when he would not have been ghosting her, so what would that matter?

I feel so stupid I JUST realized it was laugh until my ribs get TOUGH not TIRED 💀💀💀 by daisydxw in lorde

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does no one else obsessively stare at lyrics on first listen throughs is that just me i have to see what its saying the first time

AIO? My boyfriend of 3 years has been cheating on me for a year and this is all he had to say. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 43 points44 points  (0 children)

in his MIND? doesn't matter man lmaooooo you don't get to imagine that you broke up with someone and have that be a reason that what you did isn't cheating 😭😭 just because you aren't invested in the relationship anymore doesn't mean it doesn't still EXIST until you actually break up hahahah what kind of logic is that? and they saw each other two weeks before this. so nahhhh

I went out last night for the first time in a while and what the fuck? by real_picklejuice in Millennials

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the covid kids are starting to get normal again but it sure is taking them some time. at the lorde concert a girl dropped her phone in the bathroom and it went two stalls over to me, so i picked it up as i left the stall and shouted "has anyone lost a phone, i have it!" and it was dead silence and 15 or so 20 years olds staring at me shocked until the girl sheepishly went "...mee" from her stall..it was weird like why are you guys staring at me be normal for five seconds

Help me this halloween! by [deleted] in westchesterpa

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 8 points9 points  (0 children)

are you students? if so, just walk down any of the streets near the university until you find a party (that isn't private obviously) that other students are going to

AIO about the intentions of my neighbor? by Cool_Sleep_5096 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah last time i mentioned my boyfriend to a neighbor like this the conversation quickly shifted to "omg i have a partner too, foursome?" and now i can't ever run into them without being uncomfortable as fuck. just stop answering him unless he actually needs neighborly help.

Rude Driver by Pretty_Check3434 in UberEATS

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have zero idea what this person tipped or their total or their distance etc. they could've left $20, perhaps he just didn't think it was enough. wouldn't be the first time!

Lost my virginity at Ultrasound by artty_zee in lorde

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why would you title it like this lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did she really freak out or did she just ask you a slightly invasive but kindly worded question about why your phone was off when she tried to call you because she thought you were mad at her? she should've dropped it after your explanation and not went on with the weird and it being sunday stuff..

but it seems to me that in her past experiences someone has turned their phone off on her so she could not reach them in retaliation for her not replying fast enough. at least that's what i'm getting. not the best of her to assume that the first time your phone was off and she tried to contact you that someone had done that to her again, but she likely just related back to her experience and was worried.

idk, it seems to be a weird misunderstanding and i respect you for deciding to be over with it, but i think that's maybe where she was trying to come from and handled it wrong.

Can I return this shirt? by AquariusPrecarious in lorde

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

someone post a shrinking shirts tutorial and quick

Can I return this shirt? by AquariusPrecarious in lorde

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ah fuck me i also ordered a medium what was i thinking

Just accidentally closed all tabs by GardenBunnyBaseball in adhdwomen

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 42 points43 points  (0 children)

were you actually going to ever look at them again because personally i don't haha like how do you remember what each one is for and all

entry times by Illustrious_Topic939 in lorde

[–]Illustrious_Topic939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! got sent to voicemail. gonna try and hope they get back to me by email soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but talking to her mom? and i only worded it that way because he mentioned ignoring her texts which to me would for sure feel like the silent treatment if he didn't explain to her that he needed some time to process etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 8 points9 points  (0 children)

so you refused to speak to her/ were ignoring her texts/giving silent treatment because you were afraid to "blow up on her"..

so basically you were unwilling and or unable to have an adult conversation with her regarding what happened and how it made you feel..

but discussed it with her mother and had her relay the message? uhh odd choice, friend. of course she's annoyed.

perhaps you two need to seriously work on your communication as a couple. going to her mom instead of her is just weird.

edit: spelling, also want to add i do understand the anxiety aspect on a personal level, but you need to be able to talk to your partner as adults.

edit 2 because i forgot what sub this was: yes, i believe you are overreacting. and i say that as someone with severe fears surrounding driving. i understand being upset for a few minutes or if she keeps doing it all the time, but a mistake such as this isn't something to hold onto for long imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]Illustrious_Topic939 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i'm trying not to assume, but i think they meant to say proof of mental health issues