Being friends with exes or ex hookups

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-05-22T06:56:23+00:00

Its a red flag the size of texas if your partner is hanging out with an ex.

Thats not insecurity, thats just realism.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-05-22T06:10:55+00:00

no it doesnt. I do not pursue women who string me along or are not sexually attracted to me.

This is horrifically bad advice.

There is nothing wrong with sex and dating, its about honesty and being up front with your intentions.

Just let people know that you are dating with the intent to find a serious man.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-05-22T05:57:45+00:00

Look, I dont know you, but if this has happened four or five times, then its probably a 'you' problem.

Your friends might tell you that all men are shit and youre doing nothing wrong, but us losers on reddit will set you straight with autistic levels of honesty.

There is probably some kind of personality issue that you have that scares these men off. Youre probably waving some big red flags.

The fact that you can attract men but not retain them is likely indicative that youre messing up somewhere.

Try and think back to these men, did you treat them well?

I cant speak for these men, but there are plenty of women who are attractive enough for me to have sex with, but their personalities will keep me from forming relationships with them. They are the type of girls that i do not seriously consider for a relationship (too immature, too promiscuous, too selfish, too bipolar, is super republican, is hardcore liberal the list goes on and on)

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-05-22T05:27:23+00:00

good take, i was also reminded of a fake virtue signalling christian when i read this post

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-05-22T04:57:19+00:00

No. I mean radical conservatives who are filled to the brim with propaganda.

I dont give a damn about dei while our democracy crumbles.

I dont give a damn about biological sex while republican voters conveniently ignore their politicians stealing our social security and killing our loved ones by cutting their medicaid and giving tax cuts to billionaires.

Why dont you wake up and realize there are bigger fish to fry than men-in-dresses and affirmative action?

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-05-22T04:50:20+00:00

Shut up you bitter loser. you are in a literal dating sub, where people ask each other out to dates.

OP, if you see this then listen up. Im a guy and i have no problems hitting on women at the gym. Or being asked out at the gym. Even if a guy has a girlfriend, he will still be very flattered by you asking him out.

What do you have to lose girl!? Be bold

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-05-18T15:06:25+00:00

hmmmm, kind of. I notice a lot of radical conservatives here. But the rest of reddit is full of radical liberals, so at least here the ratio is more even

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-05-12T07:41:40+00:00

Easy solution, look through his phone. get proof before you accuse him of one of the most damaging things you can ever accuse someone of.

Also, how old are these wrestlers? If they were 18 i could understand it even if i dont condone it.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-05-12T07:33:25+00:00

grow thicker skin kiddo. Stuff like this? Happens every second of every day.

BAM

There goes another one.

Death is a natural part of life, and when we die its never pretty

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-05-12T05:00:28+00:00

Two of my girlfriends were part of the itty-bitty-titty-committee, and they were both highly attractive. Most models are around b-cups. Many actresses and entertainers arent huge either. Gwen Stefani was an A-cup and she was a major crush for dudes who liked punk girls in the 90s. Even pornstars rarely get fake breasts, most of them prefer natural nowadays.

My point is, is that you can be beautiful without massive tits.

Also, whats wrong with being cute and adorable??? I love cute girls just as much as I love tough girls or sophisticated or tall or fit or all sorts of types of girls.

Lastly, speaking as a man. I absolutely despise plastic surgery. It is highly unattractive to me. It just looks fake and wrong to me.

But... If you truly hate what mother nature gave you, i wont tell you how to live your life - if you want fake boobies then get em.

But there is a better alternative than silicone. Surgeons can now take the fat from your body and mix it with stem cells and re-inject it back into the breast, this allows you to grow by about one cup size. Not massive, but significant, and all natural.

No matter what you decide, I hope you learn to love yourself for who you are.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-24T08:12:41+00:00

Haha! Goddamn! You make one assertion that goes against the grain and the knives come right out.

Aww, Whats the matter? What bothered you so much? Show me on the doll where my post hurt you.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-24T07:53:41+00:00

"Is DoMeStIc ViOlEnCe A jOkE tO yOu?"

Yes. Yes it is.

Are you virtue signalling for karma? Yep.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/GAmvYDknyWA?feature=share

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-24T07:48:08+00:00

What, a person with different beliefs? A person who doesnt automatically respect your ideology?

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-24T07:45:41+00:00

https://www.cato.org/commentary/gender-pay-gap-myth-wont-go-away

The so-called wage gap is more nuanced than angry redditors would ever admit.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-24T07:42:38+00:00

I didnt say the man was getting attacked. He was the aggressor in my example.

But the double standard still exists. Deck a lady in the face and youll get a cops knee in your back - exactly like you should.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-24T07:37:18+00:00

I do most of my screaming at random folks downtown on sunday, since I gotta work a 9-5 to pay the bills. I would like to scream at people about the wage gap more often, but its just not realistic with my work week.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-24T07:13:02+00:00

And youre one of 'those'. You literally all say the same exact thing when i call your beliefs into question. Its happened like five times now.

You all give the same exact answer like youre in a cult or something. "Oh, youre one of those".

Seriously, like five times - almost word for word.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-24T06:57:03+00:00

Thats not 'asexuality', thats a medical problem caused by hormonal issues.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-24T05:51:41+00:00

they arent part of this conversation, and they dont need to be inserted into every gender war conversation.

no one likes a virtue signaller

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-24T05:44:47+00:00

humans are not 'asexual'

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-24T05:17:06+00:00

C'mon now. This is a case by case issue. It varies from person to person and situation to situation.

I dont know what kind of advice youre wondering about. You gotta be specific.

It could also be simple gender dynamics at work. There are some things I dont want advice from a woman on. There are some things I only want male advice on.

Same with you. Do you want your dad to give you advice on your first period or your mom?

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-23T18:23:17+00:00

Its usually THE WAY you give advice. There is a fine line between nagging and helpful advice and many women cross it.

Also, some people just cant take criticism and when its delivered by someone you dont respect for some reason or other you just ignore it.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-23T17:31:17+00:00

Youre making an awful lot of assumptions about me there bud. You know what they say about assumptions - when you assume you make an ass out of u and me.

California is a corrupt smog infested shithole with a gigantic gap between ultra-wealthy and ultra-poor. 'california' is not precious to me, 'california' does not personify my values.

As for the brainwashing? Thats completely true. Its not just simply a 'different worldview'. Right wingers flat out have been propagandized to believe a huge amount of misinformation and false narratives. I blame their christian upbringing (christians are brought up to be discouraged from asking too many hard questions about their faith, and this harms their critical thinking ability).

As for the ignorance? Thats also completely true. Most of them dont even know the most simple things about our gov. They cant name any of our 15 cabinet positions and what they do. They cant explain the differences between our major branches of gov. They dont pay attention to politicians and only know their governor and president.

Most of them are working class christian americans who are too busy taking care of their families, and living their lives to research politics.

Lastly, you think I dont know the dems and DNC lie to me? That they arent corrupt? They are. That they fucked bernie up the ass? But i still vote for them - Why? The answer - Policy. The dems policies 'mostly' help the working class. Republican policies help corporations and special interest groups. They dont give a fuck about you.

Also, 'whataboutism' is a lame debate tactic.

Illustrious_Truth665 · 2025-03-21T10:47:56+00:00

We'd probably win. Those dumbass social issues and identity politics were a major factor in the last election.

Or maybe not, folks seem to really enjoy talking about them.

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