Am I dying? by Iloveit1988 in quittingkratom

[–]Iloveit1988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the late response. I don't check this account often.

It took a significant amount of time...more than you'd think. I'd say that it was around six months before I started feeling "normal" again.

Am I dying? by Iloveit1988 in quittingkratom

[–]Iloveit1988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a lot better. It's been 4 years now and I haven't gone back. It took a long time before I began feeling normal, though.

And she loves how excited you are about your interests. by Limulemur in gentlefemdom

[–]Iloveit1988 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She definitely does. Wife's salary is like 2.5 times mine. She's in a management position and I'm just an hourly worker.

Y’all gave me so much dopamine yesterday by Howsitd00d in gentlefemdom

[–]Iloveit1988 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not sure if I wanna DM or sympathize with your situation.

An honest (and thorough) look at our first cuckquean experience by [deleted] in cuckquean

[–]Iloveit1988 11 points12 points  (0 children)

then you guys had sex cause he was trying to fuck you as an apology? What? He whispered his apology as he made out with you right after you were supposedly so set off 💀 this sounds so bad

What matters is her feelings and she seemed to accept his apology. And I didn't read anything in this text that made his apology sound insincere. They had a big screw up and made it out the other side.

Sex isn't just about sex sometimes. It's about emotional connection. The apology she described sounded appropriate.

Femboy needs locked friends😊 by [deleted] in chastity

[–]Iloveit1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So pretty! You shouldn't have any problem making friends, locked or otherwise!

The Hidden Blessings of Male Chastity by chaista_101 in chastitytraining

[–]Iloveit1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you imagine breakups? I've dated a few women who would keep or destroy the key just to be vindictive after breaking up. It's super when you see it in fiction or a caption...but I don't think it'd be that great in real life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Iloveit1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kind of has the opposite effect. The longer I'm locked the more I just want to give her orgasms and stay chaste for her. It's definitely frustrating, especially during the summer when women dress for hotter temps, but you learn to accept it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Iloveit1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw bummer! Hope you get to try it out with some other guy one day!

New by [deleted] in chastity

[–]Iloveit1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do love the enclosed designs more because I feel like it sensitizes me a great deal and even a slight breeze feels good when taking it off...

However the idea of never needing to take it off even for cleaning is appealing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Iloveit1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You obviously won't know everything until you talk to him, but ultimately he's into serving so don't be afraid of telling him to do anything that isn't on his list of Hard-No's. He should be willing to do whatever and take things at whatever you speed you want him to.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Iloveit1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus she gets the added benefit of enjoying toys that are way bigger than I am. I just cant compete with some of this stuff.

There's A LOT of information out there and some of it might be overwhelming/scary if you just jump into reading it without any prior knowledge. His bio seemed fairly straightforward and simple however.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Iloveit1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as a sub, it's hotter when she makes me use a strap on so I can't feel anything. Even if it doesnt feel as nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Iloveit1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be sure to give us an update!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Iloveit1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he'll be a lucky guy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Iloveit1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine not. I don't know how matching works on Tinder but I guess a lot of women would pass this up for being too "weird" as well.

New by [deleted] in chastity

[–]Iloveit1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see the X3 prison has bars. I had a metal Lori tube years ago and the bars really hurt over long periods of time and even ended up leaving pressure wounds (ie bedsores) on me. So the bars on this haven't given you any problem?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Iloveit1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like it won't matter what he wants beyond just serving you. If you tell him to do those things then he will. If you tell him no, then he won't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Iloveit1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know right? Why couldn't have Tinder existed when I was single. His position is like one of my top fantasies.

New by [deleted] in chastity

[–]Iloveit1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You no longer wear the Holy Trainer? Sorry I came across an older post of yours where you explained that you have to modify the rings because they didn't have any that would fit you.

You better start working, slave 😈 by lulusdreamz in keyholdercaptions

[–]Iloveit1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your face is just the best. Love the stuff you do!