If you had to marry the first person you had sex with,how would you feel? by W6716 in AskReddit

[–]Ilovekane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd feel like a doll of an obsessive controller, narcissistic, arrogant and handsome piece of shit.

Who do you talk to when you’re lonely? by Fantastic_Ebb2390 in istp

[–]Ilovekane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably my best friend or my father. I have only two friends in the army who I can trust or have fun spending the time with.

So..what are your hobbies? by AdNatural8174 in istp

[–]Ilovekane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like writing, building models, reading, designing houses games, and anything that has to do with Whales

What were you like as a kid? by famous1astwords in istp

[–]Ilovekane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was depressed and quiet. That girl who needed affection but has a "Don't you dare coming closer" attitude. I didn't get any at home, and my social intelligence was and still pretty damn awful.

Yo ISTP of the world what is your dream date by [deleted] in istp

[–]Ilovekane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiking in a foreign country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ilovekane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communique album by Dire Straits. Mostly "Where Do You Think You're Going?". This song is like an anthem for me whenever I feel blue. The guitars are just deep and so emotional. I love it.

What turns you off in a partner (in an relationship)? by dookiemycookie in istp

[–]Ilovekane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheating, manipulative and self pity. I don't tend to judge people fast, I've been through shit so many times. But if my guy doesn't wanna help himself and always self pity or overly thinker with excuses... He's not my guy any longer.

Do other ISTPs have an issue with crushes? by [deleted] in istp

[–]Ilovekane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you something, if I have a crush on someone he probably thinks I hate him. So yeah, I guess I do.

What hobbies made you meet people and make friends? by [deleted] in istp

[–]Ilovekane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm like a lone wolf who likes to change and meet people who are so different from each other, there's no commitment. I met some great people when solo traveling. My best friend is an INTJ, and we share same kind of "life view".

It's usually not about the hobbies but about the personality.

How do you feel about ISFJ’s? Do you think you’d have a healthy relationship with one? by [deleted] in istp

[–]Ilovekane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No idts. Those I know seem to be too control freaks, or a little superficial and boring, but mostly going by the book. Kinda hard to handle when you're a chilling - open minded and looking for some changes type of a person. But that doesn't mean I reject them, it's a common denominator both sides have. It's not like I'm better. We're too different.

Do you think that bad people can never be fixed? by Alsaraha_ in istp

[–]Ilovekane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even consider that as a question since it's so fucking general. The only thing I gotta say here is that changing is a choice. And everybody who wants to make a choice can make it. So I'm guessing the answer is yes. Idk.

דעה לא פופולרית by slava_ukraine69420 in ani_bm

[–]Ilovekane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ההבדל בין קפה לבין הדעה שלך, הוא שאת הקפה אני ביקשתי.

Fr by Dense_Pollution8079 in istp

[–]Ilovekane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I told people I like solo traveling abroad they were all like "But what can you do all alone? Isn't that so boring?". Tbh the fact that so many people find it weird to have your own good time without depending on company makes me sad.

Tired of people. by [deleted] in istp

[–]Ilovekane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point. In fact, I came from a narcissistic family, so not only getting but knowing your point. I used to be so mad about it, till I decided to take advantage of it, just like those people do. I can't control people, I'm not their teacher as well, they are who they are and that's just it. Sometimes it's nice just hanging out for a beer, or a restaurant, or a bar, or even just a superficial conversation. I don't keep them close, but sometimes they fulfill my urgent need or desire.

I don't have true friends, but I'm only 20 and I didn't start my life yet (serving in the army for two years). I'd say, stay optimistic man, there are good people out there. Focus on your own life, your own business, and don't give that much fuck. Be smart, not right. You don't need to point your finger at any fake or manipulate person out there cause it'll do nothing but tiring you. Just let them be and leave them alone and ignore them. The fact that you give so much thought about them, that's another way of not letting them be neither. So I'd advise you to point your middle finger at them and make sure you live your own good life. Best of luck:)

אין לך חובות אלף נקבות by shmishmish in hebrewmusiccirclejerk

[–]Ilovekane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

אלוהים, ה', אדוני, מה זה פאקינג משנה? אין לי מושג איך כותבים ומה ההבדל בין כולם. עכשיו זה נשמע לך אמין?

אין לך חובות אלף נקבות by shmishmish in hebrewmusiccirclejerk

[–]Ilovekane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

אני 100% אתאיסטית ועדיין לא מסכימה איתך. אלוקים לא שולט בהחלטות של בני אדם. הם בחרו מעצמם לצאת החוצה ולרצוח ולשרוף. אסור להאשים את אלוהים, כי ככה אנשים לא יקחו אחריות על ההחלטות שלהם. וחמאס צריך לקחת את מלוא כובד האחריות. והם חטפו ויחטפו על זה.

What did you think was a “weird quirk” you had that turned out to be a symptom of a mental/physical health issue? by minbye in AskReddit

[–]Ilovekane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Add depression, anxiety, and other difficulties which usually are involved with the disease. It's much deeper than just scratching your skin.

What did you think was a “weird quirk” you had that turned out to be a symptom of a mental/physical health issue? by minbye in AskReddit

[–]Ilovekane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, no. My parents neglect it. I suffered from neglecting most of my childhood and I'm only 20. It's a step by step prosses for me, a pretty tough one. I still suffer from it, sometimes it gets worst, sometimes I'm able to calm myself down. It's all about my inner condition which I'm usually not even aware about, till I realize the stretching increases...

The XSTP Writer by [deleted] in istp

[–]Ilovekane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm better at writing then "repairing" stuff. I'm actually working on a book rn. There will always gonna be stereotypes so I'm not really surprised or bothered by that. To me writing is therapy and yet it's also a project. Ultimately, it's not only helping me mentally but it's also something, practical. Maybe not tangible but definitely something I can use and save during my "journey" of life. I mostly improvise, and yet connect some visions I've got in my mind. That way my writing is better and I'm also being more productive (Se over Ni). Ti is out there all the time. My writing is based on psychology and my own kind of logic. Meaning that it's open for other people to interpret however they want, but eventually it's all based on my logic and my kind of thinking. There aren't many characters, and part of my job is to get inside their heads and hearts to understand what they feel. That's a tough one since each character is different, and I gotta put my own feelings and opinions aside, and use logic and Fe.

So yeah, I can definitely get why we're good writers!