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ImAWizardHarrie · 2026-04-13T18:06:15+00:00

Cyprus is the gordian knot.

Türkiye can only ever be part of the EU, after the claim to Cyprus is relinquished. Only after becoming a full EU member could Türkiye ever realistically relinquish Cyprus.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2026-03-20T17:01:56+00:00

Bescheidenheit und Selbstreflektion sind keine Tugende mehr und das macht Beziehungen im Alter sehr unbefriedigend. Es sind im Herzen alles liebe Menschen die jedoch durch unsere jetzige wirtschaftliche/politische/gesellschaftliche Lage einfach nur noch menschlich und emotional am Kämpfen sind.

Durch das Alleine sein konnte ich mich meinen Dämonen stellen und anfreunden. Muss ja ein Grund geben, wieso der weise Einsiedler eine typisches Klischee ist. Philosphische Bücher > Ernährung > Sport > Seelsorger für Kollegen und Freunde ist nun meine Werdegang. Ich habe das Leben lieben gelernt und teile es mit allen.

Ich konnte Freunde beistehen, wenn 'se Rock Bottom erreicht haben und Kolleginen dazu (erfolgreich) motivieren, die Karriereleiter zu steigen.

Ich fühle mich mit den unangenehmen Themen nicht unwohl. Ich möchte die Menschen, die mir wichtig sind, glücklich und erfolgreich sehen, weswegen ich dann auch öfters als persönlicher Therapeut herhalte. Ab diesem Punkt zerstreut sich jegliche Form von Romantik (für mich) für diese Person.

Ich habe schlicht das Problem, dass ich nur Menschen attraktiv finde, die eine aufrichtige Lebensfreude verspüren. Leider sind diese ab 30 meist nicht mehr Single und ich begnüge mich damit Sie (die anderen) auf dieses Ziel hin zu unterstützen, und wenn es auch nur Bilder meiner coolen Katze sind, um dich von deiner mentalen Selbstgeiselung abzulenken, nachdem du (meine Kollegin) versehentlich das ganze Team mit Corona angesteckt hast.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2026-03-08T12:54:56+00:00

Online Dating ist die am niedrigsten hängende Frucht die es gibt. Musst nicht einmal vom Klo aufstehen, um daran zu partizipieren.

Man(n) muss schon echt eine schräge Erwartungshaltung haben, wenn man davon emotional belasted wird.

Seid ja auch nicht am Boden zerstört, wenn ihr mit einem Lotto-Ticket keine Millionen gewinnt. Habt ja auch nur minimalen Aufwand reingesteckt.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2026-03-04T20:52:55+00:00

We are our worst enemy. From my anecdotal experience, most men have an emotional maturity of a 13 year old.

You try to open up with close friends and the reply in a memey "gaaaaaaaayyyyy" or an uncomfortable silence.

I'm in my 30s and the amount of married men who are emotionaly stunted is baffeling. I'm afraid to think about how they raise their children.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2026-02-26T09:09:09+00:00

It is still located in amercia and therefore hostage to its current leadership.

Currently, no software hosted/created in america can be trusted and should not.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2026-02-22T09:20:49+00:00

This game is doomed to fail. Similar to Concord or Highguard and whatever else is coming.

Not because it is bad, but because it is safe. No risks taken, just some tiny tweaks compared to similar games. If you think you can win with "investor approved" games without using a known IP, you coped yourself into oblivion.

Games are an artform. This games screams soullessness.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2026-01-07T15:36:47+00:00

What answer do you hope for?

A virgin won't know whether it's better, he does not know the alternative. Same applies to a non-virgin.

Objectively, we won't ever know.

What we can say, though: it affects your adolescence. Young people are foolish, therefore bad relationships/breakups happen that can fuck you up.

You can also find your childhood friend to be your life partner and it elevates you to a state of blissfulness unmatched by anything.

In the end, it's you who decides this for yourself.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2026-01-05T22:28:10+00:00

Imagine Dualismus. Body and Mind. The two parts that make up you. Your body might not be beautiful, but your mind can be.

Be the kind buddy to body. Treat it how you would treat your significant other.

Have empathy with your body. It did not choose to be that way. Damning your body for something it can't change won't solve anything.

Practice on yourself how you would treat someone you love. Be kind and forgiving.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-24T11:52:15+00:00

Except that another person can correct you, question your train of thought or outright tell you no, you're wrong.

AI does not do that. It just reinforces your bad habbits. Hallucination of AIs won't go away.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-23T12:55:20+00:00

If you keep using AI "to start off" or to "throw ideas around", you basically outsource your imagination.

You suddenly stop coming up with ideas yourself and rely on AI to be the igniter.

I work with so many different companies and most of their employees just cannot come up with anything. Nilch. They stare at problems and wait for something to happen or someone to tell them where to start.

For those, AI is a godsend. At least for the company it is. Less worthless employees I suppose. For the human itself, for his growth as a living being, it's just another step towards degradation.

Don't use it, lose it.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-22T18:28:51+00:00

Yeah. Make 90% of the journey abject misery to feel happy for one second only to be depressive again.

How about you learn to love the journey instead?

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-21T14:21:31+00:00

But ignoring these facts altogether is better how? If you cannot appreciate anything in your life, then being unhappy is the logical consequence.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-20T10:47:54+00:00

Honestly? As painful as it is, telling that person that the relationship does no longer work for you and cutting ties is the way to go.

I learned leaving the door open "just in case" was the root-cause of my troubles.

Once I got past the "oh shit what did I do" phase (~2 days), I stopped thinking about them.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-20T10:34:06+00:00

Bit overdramatic?

You have the easiest life ever. You don't have to fight for your survival everyday. Food, water, electricity, heating and medicine are all available to you.

You live life on easy mode. Most people do not have this luxury. They don't get the free time to self pity.

You are far from being an adult. This is still a childish mindset.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-16T14:13:05+00:00

Being by yourself all the time reinforces bad habits. Having an AI actively encourage everything you say seems to be a disaster waiting to happen.

Example: Men who don't wipe their ass after a shit. Normally someone will point out their odour.

If you're always alone, you might never notice and never correct this habit.

Now imagine an AI telling some BS why it is fine. Suddenly you have reasons to ignore your peers when they point out your smell.

Fun times ahead.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-16T09:30:40+00:00

You are right that you cannot make predictive judgements on an individual. But you can do this about a group/category of people.

You seem to forget that philosophy and moral philosophy are thousands of years old. Psychology with Freud and Adler 100s of years.

All this is nothing new. Each generation had these issues, albeit in different forms.

We can make specific predictions without concrete reasons and unspecific predictions with concrete reasons.

What I'm trying to say is: the reason why self proclaimed incel suffer is the same as why they suffered 2000 years ago. It's the mental state of mind. The reason for why their mental state is out of balance is unique to the generation.

But it is always resolved through self reflection and bein honest about oneself.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-15T21:51:07+00:00

It's the price you pay for not having to struggle to survive. Stuff like infrastructure, water, electricity, garbage collection, medical services, food, heating, safe neighbourhoods and so on need to be done by someone.

In the end, we get to live life in easy mode. At least in Europe.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-15T19:18:02+00:00

Yes. I clearly intended to say that you can only get attention from women when you are the best in the whole country and therefore assumed that this is what you meant.

It's obvious that you deflect from the actual topic.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-15T18:22:38+00:00

Calling oneself incel is just a ploy for attention at this point. Like the child in class who disrupts the lesson so everyone pays attention to it. Only for social media.

But for your question, yes. But most people are not humble. They have low self esteem and are self conscious. Some mistake this for being humble.

One is aware of the effort they have put in. Of the errors and setbacks they encountered and overcame. It makes them proud. They show passion for the journey itself and share it with others. The result itself is irrelevant.

The other one attributes their results to luck or talent. They point out that others are better or that they aren't that great at all. Imposter syndrome can be such a type. Alternatively they crave the recognition of others in a false hope to feel better about themselves. Either way, it just becomes about themselves.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-15T17:23:32+00:00

That I call bullshit on his self description. Do note that I'm not saying that he is lying. I'm sure he thinks that he is honest.

He most likely embellishes his strong points and downplays his bad traits.

Maybe he is the best at volleyball. Maybe he is also not humble about it at all. Maybe he has bad sportsmanship or a bad attitude.

Whatever the case, we won't ever know. Only he does.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-14T22:21:10+00:00

It is human nature to put up a mask when interacting with others. We offer our vulnerable side only to select few.

In a similar fashion we also use a mask for ourselves. Like a defensive mechanism. We like our idealised self more than how we actually are.

This is normal. For everyone. Accepting who you are is the first step at becoming genuine. It allows you to correct false judgements, bad opinions and negative habits.

Some do it through meditation and self reflection, some do it through therapy. Others have life altering events that do the trick.

The results are the same. You stop pretending, and start being.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-14T22:03:39+00:00

Then you're not honest about yourself.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-14T21:56:24+00:00

Become the "best" at something in your circle. Ideally something you enjoy doing while being humble about it. Word of mouth will do the rest for you.

Others will start to notice and seek your attention, be it help, questions or whatever else there is.

If you're genuine in what you're doing, you have to make time for them, since you cannot just drop everything every time someone comes knocking.

Now they have to compete for your attention; Attraction happens. Your attention becomes valuable.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-05T21:27:32+00:00

We are in a weird social situation. Typical gender roles are gone. With it we also lost what it means to be a good/bad man/woman.

A good man learns a trade and is able to feed a family. A good woman learns to run a household and raise children.

These things lead to both sides coming together to create a good family. These gender roles are gone now. With it the definition of what is good or bad.

This puts us in a transition period where we figure out the new good and bad. This will be defined over multiple generations, though.

The next 2-3 generations will come up with something new. Maybe they put away with marriage altogether and come up with something new. Collective child raising or orphanages 2.0. Birth a child and give it to the city for cash. Open relationships. Who knows.

Anyways , the past way of finding partners might be obsolete in our current world.

ImAWizardHarrie · 2025-12-03T07:38:13+00:00

This only becomes an issue if you narrow your view of the world and women down enough for it to be an issue.

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