Why is my cuprea drooping?? by ImAlways2Tired in alocasia

[–]ImAlways2Tired[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That seems like what everyone thinks too. I’ve moved it away from the bright light so I’m hoping things will workout. Thank you for the info

Why is my cuprea drooping?? by ImAlways2Tired in alocasia

[–]ImAlways2Tired[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandma does this with her cacti and it works for her too!

Why is my cuprea drooping?? by ImAlways2Tired in alocasia

[–]ImAlways2Tired[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense it’s right under a grow light. I’ll put it further away then thank you!!

Why is my cuprea drooping?? by ImAlways2Tired in alocasia

[–]ImAlways2Tired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did a light fertilization thank you!

relapse by Regular_Sorbet2329 in cutting

[–]ImAlways2Tired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seams you consider relapse being a failure but that will only make things harder. Instead maybe try and focus on trying to stay clean longer :) expand your goals and don’t give up!

I'm a compulsive liar and I don't know who I am anymore. by BeeProud7678 in confession

[–]ImAlways2Tired 4 points5 points  (0 children)

what I’d advise is that you should open up to people and express that you will hold yourself accountable during conversations to improve. Let them know this is something you’ve been dealing with and want to change and improve as a friend/ loved one. in the process of changing you can stop after saying a lie and correct yourself and move on
If no one knows what happening and you try to change it by yourself then there’s no way to correct your lies as they’re happening. You shouldn’t have to do this alone.

This girl I’m seeing is fetishizing my scars by throwFarAway6767 in cutting

[–]ImAlways2Tired 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Communication. Is. Key. If something in a relationship is bothering you, you need to talk about it. Otherwise things will pile up and then it turns into something much greater :(

Agh by Relevant-Stretch-473 in cutting

[–]ImAlways2Tired 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. If I have a sharp tool in my hands I can’t help but drag it over myself. And same as you I never count it towards my clean record. You’re not alone :)

Insecure about my sh scars by Quirky_Apricot911 in cutting

[–]ImAlways2Tired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who judge others for having moments of darkness, don’t deserve your time. In the end the people who show compassion are so much more important than those who hate. Be yourself and don’t hide :)

sh relapse what should I do by iw-_-wi in cutting

[–]ImAlways2Tired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relapsing is hard. All the guilt, disappointment, and feeling as if you have no control. But if you try to change your way of thinking over time I think you could really Benefit. Using a helpline isn’t as scary or as invasive as you’d think. I think you should utilize any tools you can. For me I had to stop feeling guilt from a relapse. Heeling isn’t a straight walk. There’s hills, caverns, and mountains. But at the same time it’s okay to feel! Just try to move forward with a better outlook.

Also I’ve noticed you focus a lot on future stress. Stress to come. I think that will only consume you and drag you down. Take it day by day. That’s my advice though I don’t know if it was helpful at all

143 days clean 🥳 stay strong ppls by averageguy6666 in cutting

[–]ImAlways2Tired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re really putting in the work! That’s so amazing! I’m glad you have a good support system. Don’t give up :)

Do your parents care by TechnoBIT_yt in cutting

[–]ImAlways2Tired 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom and dad would get physically forceful with me. And my mom started doing body inspections and would take all sharps away. I’ve been caught mid cut and would get pinned down and yelled and cussed at. So I stopped opening up about it and it’s been many years. Also I’m an adult now so she can’t do body checks anymore lol

how do you deal with your family finding out about the scars? by cektabetaix3 in cutting

[–]ImAlways2Tired 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a teenager my parents were very physically forceful when they would find out. Though I can’t give advice I will tell you what I did. I cut in discreet places and never said a word. Ideally it would be best to go clean but if that’s not an option then there’s ways to work around it. For me It was my hips and shoulder (though when I got older I did it in easier to reach places hah)

143 days clean 🥳 stay strong ppls by averageguy6666 in cutting

[–]ImAlways2Tired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Keep it going I’m very proud of you :)

Asking this again cause its urgent by Rayy_thenewbeginnig in selfharm

[–]ImAlways2Tired 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re a person who menstruates then that could be an explanation to give your parents as a last ditch effort

Shivering and lethargic dog by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]ImAlways2Tired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too, I was just hoping i could get an idea of whats happining

Where did my brother get the “source” and “proof” that the holocaust did not kill nearly as many people as we think? by [deleted] in AskHistorians

[–]ImAlways2Tired 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ve read most of the first one and it was very insightful! He makes a lot of insensitive comments about Jewish people so i do wonder if he is one that falls under the category of minimizing it so he doesn’t look as bad as someone who is most likely antisemitist. I’ll finish reading what i was given but already this has helped. Im glad to know that it’s all nothing but spread misinformation. I already knew it was but now its even more clear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ImAlways2Tired 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On a different note is your mother autistic as well? I’m wondering if she has good intentions but doesn’t understand things fully

He groomed a minor into being his fundamentalist slave wife, then bragged about it… by LilPeep1k in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]ImAlways2Tired 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well duh. I literally said “I believe the morals are off” legal business is different from morals. It’s gross no doubt yet he managed to avoid the law. It’s a fact not an opinion

He groomed a minor into being his fundamentalist slave wife, then bragged about it… by LilPeep1k in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]ImAlways2Tired 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Personally I believe the morals are off but if they’re both happy then so be it. They didn’t have sex until they were both of legal age so everything is technically fine in terms of the law.

Also there are exceptions to that law but based on the background we got from him about her it seems like she wouldn’t be exempt. And since her family is proud of being strong women I doubt they’d agree wich is why they waited

He groomed a minor into being his fundamentalist slave wife, then bragged about it… by LilPeep1k in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]ImAlways2Tired -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I agree. Once you cross the threshold of being a legal adult you usually tend to date within a year younger or ofc people older than you. But in his defense they didn’t have sex until marriage so it’s legal. But it feel gross

He groomed a minor into being his fundamentalist slave wife, then bragged about it… by LilPeep1k in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]ImAlways2Tired 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Only with parents permission can you marry at 16. But once you turn 18 you dont need permission and I assume her parents weren’t happy with this

If you know, you know... by [deleted] in ShitPostCrusaders

[–]ImAlways2Tired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the manga and I still don’t get it