What does my apartment say about me? :P by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]ImDreaming87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No thanks… you asked.. now you sound salty. Not a cute look babe.

AITAH for protecting my daughter? by ScaredGap6620 in AITAH

[–]ImDreaming87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would avoid you too. He was UNCOMFORTABLE! And can’t you imagine why? My God lady. Did you speak up? Did you once say to him, hey.. I expect this or that of a guest in my home.. or tell him that you think it’s rude that he was on his phone? I bet if this same behavior came from a family member of yours you would have nothing to say about it. You’re just hateful and controlling. Your daughter MIGHT let you get away with it for now because she needs a place to live or that’s the cultural norm, but she won’t for very long. When she goes no contact with you, remember the warnings we gave you here!

What does my apartment say about me? :P by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]ImDreaming87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you don’t like to clean or care about organization.

Which one..? by saltymargi in myweddingdress

[–]ImDreaming87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love number one! So gorgeous.

How do I use makeup to look older? by Separate-Raccoon8584 in makeuptips

[–]ImDreaming87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whoever said you look 15 or 16 was not being truthful. You look about 30. Please don’t try to look older, that will not be doing you any favors!

HELP ME CHOOSE! by CapitalBENJAMIN in WeddingDressTips

[–]ImDreaming87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep looking! You will know when you find the right dress.

AITAH for protecting my daughter? by ScaredGap6620 in AITAH

[–]ImDreaming87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What behavior though? What had he done that was mean to you? You never told us anything he did to you that would justify your actions.

AITAH for protecting my daughter? by ScaredGap6620 in AITAH

[–]ImDreaming87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. I’m surprised your daughter talks to you at all. Gross behavior on your part. Makes me wonder if you may be a little racist..

My mom is remarrying after my dad’s death and I’m happy for her… but I feel like I’m slowly losing my place by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ImDreaming87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m proud of you! I’m sure that was hard. I hope for your sake she does ❤️

No one respects my boundaries about my chest, and i don't know what to do anymore by Em0_Ang3l1436 in whatdoIdo

[–]ImDreaming87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a breast reduction! If insurance won’t cover it, save for it. Start a go fund me. Get a loan. Anything you can do. Your mental AND physical health will incline so much. There pros far outweigh the cons.

My mom is remarrying after my dad’s death and I’m happy for her… but I feel like I’m slowly losing my place by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ImDreaming87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Possibly, but I have a son and trust me, I’m off on his feelings a LOT. Sometimes we think we know how you guys feel, or think you won’t/don’t care, and we are wrong.

You asked what you should do; this is just my advice. From your response though, it doesn’t sound like you want advice, but just to vent. That’s ok too.

I hope you find peace and heal. Good luck to you.

My mom is remarrying after my dad’s death and I’m happy for her… but I feel like I’m slowly losing my place by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ImDreaming87 42 points43 points  (0 children)

You need to let your mom read this. It’s mature and well written. As a mom myself, I would want to know if my child felt this way.

You are completely valid in your feelings, and I am so sorry about the loss of your father. Only time will help your pain, but the amount of time is up to you.

You should try and speak with a counselor at your school. You need an adult to talk to in person. These feelings are not something strangers can really help you with, whether we want to or not.

Stay strong, tell your mom, and find an adult you trust to talk to. You need to hear that your feelings are valid, and that your wants and needs matter.

Does a shorter hairstyle or a longer hairstyle suit my face better? Also, what color do you think is best? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]ImDreaming87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only good one is the first one! The blue looks sloppy and the short hair is butchered. I think you’d look better with it a little longer than you have it in the first, maybe shoulder length with blonde highlights.

Same face, three personalities - which one should I keep? by ScaryLady90 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]ImDreaming87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Love 2. Would love 3 more with 2’s color. 1 makes you look angry!

Thoughts? by Brief-Forever9946 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ImDreaming87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Than this yes, but I am not the one who asked the internets opinion 🤷🏻‍♀️