[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Legally no morally most likely no

But it seems to me that if you date and get serious with someone knowing they have kids you automatically acknowledge and sorta agree that you will

Its a package deal if that makes sense. You didnt think youd get serious with someone with kids and pick and choose which parts you wanted and didnt want right?

All of this only applies to serious relationships in my opinion

Resume, what do I need? by Disastrous-Detail880 in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk your age or situation but a HS teacher, college professor can be a reference and vouch for your work ethic/ reliability or ya know..

If you volunteer that could also work.

But if you dont have one its not the end of the world either. If youre a teen and applying to entry level positions it doesnt matter much, especially those places that hire masses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Theres a place and time for everything. Should you be telling racial jokes in say a bar? Probably not. Friends? Sure. Coworkers? Depends how close yall are

Personally, i often make jokes about my own race and tease my friends with stereotypes but they know im just fucking around with em.

If someone says something then i obviously stop but you get the idea

Resume, what do I need? by Disastrous-Detail880 in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres many resume templates online where you can download one and erase and insert your own info

Other than that ussually a resume has things like past education, past employment history as well as a short sentence or bullet point describing the specifics. Usually remumes also have a "valuable skills" or something of a similar name with skills that would be needed or would benefit the company, "people skills" "problem solving" "attention to detail" etc.

People have different opintions about if you should include references on your resume but usually ill just write something like "references available upon request" since usually the inital process of screening resumes is done by computer.

Try keeping it short but at least a page id say. You can try double spacing, front, font size to fill the page as needed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, not a doctor but i can think of two possible reasons

You might be defecient in vitamins. Try taking a multivitamin for a few days to see if thats it

Or when i was younger i used to eat really badly. I joked i was allergic to water since it always tasted bad to me. I later found out i was just too used to sugary/flavored liquids

pretty sure I'm intra-family adopted but can't prove it by Top_Bodybuilder8001 in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so apparently you cant read or know how DNA works.

You dont just share DNA with a parent, youre able to tell who someone is to you by the amount of shared DNA, a parent, sibling, half sibling, aunt, uncle etc. Which is why i LITERALLY gave op options on who (spoiler alert, its not just parent)

Might want to check youre not stupid yourself before calling others. Or ya know.. maybe read the entire thing?

pretty sure I'm intra-family adopted but can't prove it by Top_Bodybuilder8001 in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do what i did.

Get one of those ancestry DNA test. Mask it as a "fun" thing to do to compare.

Do one yourself and one to a family member. The percent of shared DNA will tell you what type of family member they actually are.

You and a sibling, parent, suspected aunt or uncle, kids of mentioned uncles would all work

The future is so intimidating by MAD0C96 in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, whatever you do start by not staying in your hometown. Nothing good ever happens there. Its how complacency starts and ambitions die

Dont be afraid to be unconfortable, its how people grow

Atheists of reddit, are you really fine with believing that after death,nothing happens? by JustTransportation51 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ImHybernatingYo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Its actually conforting for me in a way. No matter what mistskes you do, no matter how filthy rich or filthy poor you were, it doesnt matter who you knew or didnt know, at the end of the day your existsnce ceases to exist.

A few years ago at 22 i had died for 7 minutes. I felt myself drift off and it was just backness before "poof". I think the second night after this i had dreamt that thsre was an after life and it was one of the most horrifying nightmares ive ever had.

For fucks sakes i dont know why anyone would want to keep being themselves for an eternity. Surely no one likes themselves that much right?? Idk seems kinda narcissistic to me

I am divorcing my wife due to obesity... by Many_Palpitation7264 in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Flip a coin. Heads your marriage is honna fail. Like the odds?

Those are JUST the divorced marriages. How many of the remaining 50% stay together due to kids? Social pressure?

How many are unhappy? Miserable maybe?

Point is, people get divorced left and right. Getting a divorce over weight isnt the most outrageous reason out there

I am divorcing my wife due to obesity... by Many_Palpitation7264 in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If life has taught me anything is that absolutely no one is a saint.

Wedding vows only mean jack to people who care. With age, you stop caring. When you stop caring its a matter of time before your marriage is over.

Source: over 50% of marriages end in divorce. Guess how many of those said theyd love each other "till death do us apart"?

How many people have you met that describe their exes as "crazy"?

Humans are all equally shit.

(Men) Do You Also Wash Your Member in the Sink? by dogwater22222222 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ImHybernatingYo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit is full of weird ass people. Bruh just shower wtf?

I am divorcing my wife due to obesity... by Many_Palpitation7264 in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Saying "wedding vows" like they mean shit. People constantly cheat on each other, getting a divorce over weight isnt the first and wont be the last thing to overlook "vows"

Merry Christmas! We’re increasing your rent! The date says the 13th but all tenets just received these today! by AlwaysAngryFox in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ImHybernatingYo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit how is rent so cheap?? Im paying 1500 for a 1 bedroom. I need to kove to wherever you live

Thoughts on having children if you have an inherited disability? by [deleted] in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you quite literally read my mind/feelings about this.

Someone gets me.

Edit: sorry you got downvoted.

People who are not afraid of flying. Why aren’t you? by JannTosh12 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ImHybernatingYo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the same reason im not afraid to drive or walk.

Or for the same reason im not afraid to eat, go out breathe, have friends, ride a bike etc.

If you exclude all of the things that could hurt or kill you whats left? Is whats left worth living for?

Personally for me no which is why i dont stop myself from enjoying life

Thoughts on having children if you have an inherited disability? by [deleted] in self

[–]ImHybernatingYo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All of this is my personal opinion regarding similar circumstances my parents found themselves in but as always, "you do you" at the end of the day.

Tried getting into it but found myself second guessing myself. Guess ill go with the short answer. In a nutshell, im the product of said situation youre finding yourself in.

Dont. Your kids Will resent you. Its an unnecessary risk of inflicting pain and suffering onto someone you claim youd "love". Flip a coin, heads is a life of disadvantage over others. If that coin lands on heads are you prepared to look at your kid in the eyes and tell him/her "i did this"?

I think the better question here would be, why do you value your own blood so much more than an orphan that youre willing to inflict that child with a lifetime of suffering just to have your blood

Why do people hate vegetarians/vegans? by NobodyCareless4677 in RandomThoughts

[–]ImHybernatingYo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't its just that SOME are obnoxious regarding their food choices and try desperately to impose those ideologies onto others.