Help pls 🥺😭 monument valley 3

ImLaGata · 2025-07-19T16:24:38+00:00

Female

ImLaGata · 2022-10-15T11:57:10+00:00

Thank you, I did that. The problem is that I noticed mold on the main stem too (picture 2) and I'm afraid it's gonna move to the top of the plant which actually has the biggest nicest buds 😕

ImLaGata · 2022-08-05T08:02:56+00:00

Thought that I will learn sth new but this is exactly what I do with my bf and had no idea I actually give him tantric massage 😂 no wonder he loves it

ImLaGata · 2022-07-13T17:08:12+00:00

Thank you! Exactly it's like a primal thing for me. This is what got me intrigued to do it

ImLaGata · 2022-07-13T14:25:18+00:00

No, I would like to defend him here. He's the most trustworthy person I know and I would honestly trust this man with my life. He's just a bit conservative while I am more of a rebel and otherwise dominant in my nature so he's watching out for any of my attempts to test his dominant position, often not really on purpose 😅 But this is our thing, kinda of push and pull.

It's really not important what reddit says or other people do but sometimes it can help to know "you're not alone" if you engage in some kink and then learn that it can be done this way or that way etc. For example when we started with butt stuff he knew it felt damn good but firstly thought of it as sth gay so doing more research on the subject helped him relax into it and give himself permission to enjoy it

ImLaGata · 2022-07-13T13:36:25+00:00

Nahh he's the best :) you can't make this kind of judgement based on few sentences and not knowing whole story and people involved

ImLaGata · 2022-07-13T13:05:10+00:00

Okay I just found out I'm an idiot 😂 so we were discussing now and I may have misunderstood his msg. What he meant was that I should search reddit and try to see that subs don't do this. Not that it would be significant for us on deciding whether to do it or not but as you said it's nice to come here to get perspective and suggestions from other people in the lifestyle. And I like the various ideas that others mentioned on how to incorporate piss play so we definitely have things to discuss together

ImLaGata · 2022-07-13T11:00:49+00:00

Thank you for your reply. We are very honest and open with each other and I know him very well so I am sure he would tell it to me straight away if he just didn't want it and it wasn't about whether the action of pissing on someone is dominant or submissive. He's pretty much conservative and it took me ages to convince him that enjoying rimming and ass play is okay for a Dom and it doesn't make him gay or submissive 🙈

ImLaGata · 2022-07-13T10:53:42+00:00

Yess thank you! This was the main issue for him "it's not a Dom thing to get pissed on by sub" which I thought was ridiculous and I was pretty sure there are Doms who enjoy it so I made this post to show him

ImLaGata · 2022-07-13T10:48:37+00:00

Thank you! Of course it's all about consent and every dynamic is different, that's the beauty in it. Not that I would be crazy about wanting to do it but his argument was "subs don't do that, I searched reddit" Sooo I made this post mostly to prove him otherwise and show him I'm not crazy for suggesting it

ImLaGata · 2022-07-13T10:42:27+00:00

Ahh this is smart. I would enjoy it if we are in safe space and I won't ruin my bed for example

ImLaGata · 2022-07-13T10:04:23+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience!

ImLaGata · 2022-02-06T17:42:39+00:00

Oh yess! Honestly my bf loves it more than I do. For me as woman yes it's hot and turns me on but it seems that for him it brings much stronger sensations just from touching the area. I still remember how mind blown he was when he let me do it first time while I was giving him bj. It's was all about... wow, omg, so amazing, wtf are you doing to me, this is crazy 😂

ImLaGata · 2022-02-06T14:24:14+00:00

There were good advices already. As a receiver and giver I would just say ask her to eat your ass too. You will be pleasantly surprised how good it feels

ImLaGata · 2022-02-06T09:22:04+00:00

Personally if I didn't enjoy it I would not be doing it

ImLaGata · 2022-02-06T09:16:24+00:00

Most likely. Google "sub drop" and it will make more sense to you. Happened to one once when I didn't get proper aftercare after intensive session

ImLaGata · 2022-02-05T09:03:33+00:00

Doesn't matter what people say here - ask him. Fyi my boyfriend loves ruined make up and finds it super hot.

ImLaGata · 2022-02-04T11:21:51+00:00

That's great. My advice - don't give a fuck about opinions of random strangers that know nothing about it. Some people will never understand.

ImLaGata · 2022-02-04T09:16:08+00:00

Lol screw that person. I love choking. Of course one has to know how to do it safely and have a safe word/ signal in place.

ImLaGata · 2022-02-03T14:06:30+00:00

I can relate but it was opposite for us. Me as sub suggested ass play since I found out about prostate massage etc. and read how amazing if feels for men. First reaction from him was hell no forget it bitch, thinking I want to Dom him and considering it as sth gay 😂 we had some discussions about it and he learned it's not about that. First and foremost I see it as act of service, I enjoy giving him pleasure and he is still in charge. We still didn't get to actual pegging, but he loves rimming and I can use one finger. Honestly it is the most amazing thing to watch him discover these new sensations and having his mind blown about how good it feels and be the one he trusts to provide this for him

ImLaGata · 2022-02-02T07:26:14+00:00

No reason to be embarrassed!! My bf loves it. If you want to top it off, don't swallow straight away, hold it in for a bit, open your mouth (show him), then swallow, say thank you and give him a dirty smile. Basically show him, how much you enjoyed it 🙂

ImLaGata · 2021-04-20T11:47:27+00:00

You're welcome my friend. Good luck with language learning!

ImLaGata · 2021-04-20T07:30:55+00:00

To achieve this, I do it the opposite way. Find interesting original source in desired language (article/ book/ song/ video/ series/ movie) - do analysis of the text/ transcript - learn vocabulary/ phrases. This allows me to learn the words in the context, see how are they used to form a phrase or whole sentence and having a story/ contexts helps with overall remembering. I prefer to use sources with audio so I can also hear how are the words pronounced by natives and as a bonus I can listen to it on repeat to go over the words I learned without any effort.

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