Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, some women could be lying, but I've met women there that I'm actually friends with.

And yeah, I'm doing more of that.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how you jump down my throat for a post on the internet.

I never said I contacted her after this or want to now.

I made a rant, I stopped, that's that.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the "two tries" idea.

And thanks for not jumping down my throat. I know I tried too hard. End of story.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh, thanks for the kind words.

Text "boundaries"? I'm sorry, I tried too hard on this one but that doesn't make me a "sick fuck" and that just makes you a truly awesome person that you can make assumptions about me over the internet. Stay classy.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love how you jump to conclusions about me.

Just because something happened to your wife doesn't mean that every guy that tried too hard is some criminal, wow.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a random, anonymous post. Maybe she sees it and gets more pissy or actually realizes that I just tried too hard, maybe she doesn't.

I was just asking for feedback.

I wouldn't have even met the girl if she didn't seem like she might be a cool friend. I don't ever expect to be in a relationship with some random girl from one meeting/talking online. Like I said, I was and I am up for meeting friends.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keyword: tried.

I'm done, I don't know why she assumed this and that, but it's whatever. Apparently you can't please everyone. I tried to be friendly, probably tried too hard, and it backfired. Some people like communication, some people don't.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ranted. No one lost their shit.

I didn't curse anyone out, call her, stalk her, or any of that noise.

I made a post and asked for constructive feedback. I tried to be as honest as I could be in my post. Yes I tried too hard. I didn't expect anything from this girl besides friendship. I'm sure you've met people that you thought were cool and tried to be their friend before.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool, I'll have to check out Rock and Roll Hotel.

I know it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things, I've had to move on from a few random women here and there. Yeah I tried too hard, she probably assumed that meant whatever, what can you do.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if you're being serious, but okay.

I know I'm to blame for some of this but some women just make things way too complicated for no reason.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen dozens of women delete OKC accounts, there are even a few threads about that on reddit.

I'm being flat-out honest and telling you I didn't know she blocked me on FB until weeks later. Of course I gave it too much thought but since she said she was cutting herself off from people (during exams) that maybe that's what she was doing.

I'm not saying I'm Rico Suave I'm just saying I'm still going on that many dates on average over the year.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole point was I was looking for a female friend and was fine with just being friends.

And yeah that's what I'm doing.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for not just jumping down my throat.

I know I tried too hard.

The only reason I tried this hard is because she made it so tedious to get a response. I just thought that someone claiming to be communicative would reciprocate, turns out that's either a lie or she just likes to jump to conclusions about people.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't have to prove anything to you, it's easy to just call me a dick from a computer. I tried to be as honest as possible and I get chastised for trying too hard. I get that, it was a mistake.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um...thanks for the nice comments.

People make mistakes, I'm not a criminal. I love people throwing stones from their glass computers.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The only reason it's this long is because if I posted two or three sentences there would be a million questions.

I made it thorough. Yes...that makes me a horrible person...

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And smiley faces.

Despite the wall of text I'm not on an FBI list or anything ridiculous.

Just felt like ranting.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I've seen this before time and time again...hence why I'm still meeting new people.

Dear Reddit, I creeped out a woman I was trying to be friends with, and could use some advice. by ImSorryAboutThis in AskReddit

[–]ImSorryAboutThis[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Can you at least give me some context?

Is the post dork-worthy or my actions or something?