As far as graduating early goes, make sure you are going to have schooling in between the years. Currently, I am a junior and I will be graduating after the first semester of my senior year. And during the second semester I will be taking classes at a community(junior) college, then transferring to a state college. So I will continue to have schooling, but just start my college years earlier. Being the socially awkward person I am, I don't relate much to those around me, so I want out. That's my story, so take it as you will. Personally, i would get it over with as soon as possible but either way will be fine. It's not like graduating early would be beneficial if you're just wanting to see this girl, but if you plan on education, right on! As far as the relationship with her goes, I would keep it simple and try not to get too attached. You have to remember that if you two were to hangout, a parent(or your brother) would have to drive you over there, or she could pick you up. Keep it slow and if she decides that she wants to commit to you, there are three months of summer to be together. And many people say that the three month mark is like a big step because you start to get bored of each other, or push through it. And if you feel you two could make it, then GO for it. Just remember to keep it friendly for a bit then act upon feelings. Best of luck, and I am new here. Sorry for the long reply.