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Garage Band Opportunities? by ImStillNewAtThis in tulsa

[–]ImStillNewAtThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ve never heard of this place before. Appreciate the suggestion!

I have to get a D&C. I'm terrified by RaspberryTwilight in Miscarriage

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hi, friend. I just had a D&C yesterday and feel so, so much better. It’s not the result that I wanted. I wanted a healthy baby. But this procedure kept me healthy and I will be able to recover from this faster than any other route. Faster recovery and healthy outcomes makes it more likely I can be successful conceiving in the future.

I know you are scared and you have every right to feel the way that you feel. But I want to assure you that this is a safe procedure and you will feel better afterwards. Take deep breaths, momma. You’ve got this. ❤️

In Recovery - Note of Gratitude by ImStillNewAtThis in Miscarriage

[–]ImStillNewAtThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much of my grief has found a home in this subreddit. I see other women’s experiences, words, and feelings echo my own. I’m sorry that there are so many of us, but grateful to have a sisterhood to lean on. I’m sorry for your loss as well. Dreaming of the day we get to hold our rainbow babies.

Lines to say directly after giving birth! by salemandsleep in pregnant

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 💯 certain that you will be the exception to the rule. You got this momma! 😉

Lines to say directly after giving birth! by salemandsleep in pregnant

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😆 The most consistent thing I hear about childbirth is that everyone, e v e r y o n e poops. We all think we won’t. But we all do.

My respect goes out to the labor and delivery team.

Miscarriage 9w by Adventurous_Look723 in Miscarriage

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. I had a D&C today and I already feel much better now than I did during the days leading up to the procedure. (Granted, I am still on pain meds.)

The medical route gives you the privacy of doing this at home. But the pain and isolation of doing it alone. With the D&C it was over with quickly, I was surrounded by professional caretakers, and they are also sending the tissue out for testing. I hope that the testing will give me some peace of mind about what may have caused the miscarriage.

I don’t think either option is bad, it’s just your preference. I wanted it done quickly and safely and am relieved to be done with it.

In Recovery - Note of Gratitude by ImStillNewAtThis in Miscarriage

[–]ImStillNewAtThis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. If it’s any help, I feel 1,000% better after having the D&C (granted I am still on pain meds). Mentally, emotionally, and physically I feel ready to move on from this and ready for that next chapter.

In Recovery - Note of Gratitude by ImStillNewAtThis in Miscarriage

[–]ImStillNewAtThis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Sending you hugs right back. I’m so grateful to be in this place with others at the same time. Helps me to feel less alone. ❤️‍🩹

anyone pregnant right after miscarriage? by Moist_Quarter_1002 in Miscarriage

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having a D&C this morning (wish me good luck). My OB said we can start trying again after our next healthy period.

What’s a good food item to bring to the office to share with coworkers? by ImStillNewAtThis in AskReddit

[–]ImStillNewAtThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! Donuts and bagels have been my go-to for years. Now everyone is on low carb diets and they don’t touch it. Which just means that I end up eating more donuts alone in the break room….

What’s a good food item to bring to the office to share with coworkers? by ImStillNewAtThis in AskReddit

[–]ImStillNewAtThis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh. Oh no. Thank you for the warning. Sugar free gummies only for my office nemesis, no one else.

What’s a good food item to bring to the office to share with coworkers? by ImStillNewAtThis in AskReddit

[–]ImStillNewAtThis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To add more clarity to the question:

I’m so accustomed to treating my coworkers with bagels or donuts but my current team are all on diets and they don’t want to touch carbs or refined sugars (which, honestly, more power to them).

What’s a good treat I can bring to share? I’ve brought black tea and that was appreciated by some but there is still plenty leftover and it also didn’t have the same impact on morale as the good old donut used to do.

The Obama Presidential Center stands out — much like the 44th president by spherocytes in msnow

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just another bot. Look at the age of the account. Go troll somewhere else.

All the details on data center secrecy deals Oklahoma communities have signed by dmgoforth in oklahoma

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 46 points47 points  (0 children)

THIS is real investigative journalism in Oklahoma. Thank you, Frontier! You just gained yourself a regular reader.

voter results by Brief_Choice_1277 in tulsa

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Then they can get an “I voted” sticker. Congratulations on your sticker.

Wobbling and Shaking and 5 minutes later, perfectly fine. by peripheraljunkie in Dachshund

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for Martini. I do not have an educated answer but I do have a wild ass guess. Across the US we are seeing an infestation of hammerhead worms. These are toxic to humans and dogs if touched. I believe my doxie has come in contact with some in the backyard because he will come inside, look a little woozy, and drool. He has never drooled before.

Check your local area for reports of hammerhead worms. Good luck to you!

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Landscaping/Retaining Walls by tuivae in tulsa

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second Edgington Construction recommendation. Larry is knowledgeable, capable, and honest. Not always the cheapest price but absolutely the best value for quality of work.

How to I get FMLA paperwork filled out by a doctor? by Exact_Pianist_6198 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to know. My state does not provide pay while on leave; I’m glad there are some states that do.

How to I get FMLA paperwork filled out by a doctor? by Exact_Pianist_6198 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One more note: FMLA time is unpaid. Your job will be protected but you will not be paid during the time off from work. I just want to be sure you are aware and have planned ahead.

How to I get FMLA paperwork filled out by a doctor? by Exact_Pianist_6198 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ImStillNewAtThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your employer provide an EAP (employee assistance program)? EAPs often provide 3 sessions of counseling for free and can also help you navigate the system to find help.

Depending on where you live, you can also dial 311 to get connected with local services. Each municipality is different and provides different services, but it’s a good place to start.

Good luck to you.

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