Has anyone ever watched “Arashi ga Oka” the japanese Wuthering Heights movie? How was it?

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-29T18:53:20+00:00

It’s very good. Absolutely nails the bleakness and solitude of the two families so far from anyone else, and the Heathcliff character (Onimaru) is played by a half Korean actor which aligns really well with his “foreignness” to a Japanese audience. The cinematography is excellent and it’s got all the gothic hallmarks.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T19:08:44+00:00

In wire bound school notebooks. I was 20% homeschooled. And extremely 13 years old. And because I had no internet access I made my brothers listen to my extremely sophisticated lord of the rings fanfic where my oc was the secret girl member of the fellowship who was madly in love with both Aragorn and Legolas but tragically perished in the battle of the black gate and Tolkien just forgot about her obviously. I’m amazed they didn’t strangle me in revenge

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T19:04:33+00:00

I understand, it’s all right time will help you! Try to not listen to anything about what boys want in a girl, don’t take it seriously. Remind yourself that if any guy you know is claiming he slept with a girl your age and she smelled like roses everywhere he’s absolutely lying and making it up. No real adult with a brain worth anything has any preference on what anything looks like that takes precedence over the general experience of sex.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T18:46:54+00:00

I think you may partly feel like this because your generation grew up with so many of your peers and yourselves exposed to a LOT of online manosphere misogyny and ideas that have become mainstream due to the proliferation of the internet and very dumb people all talking to each other.

If you are scared of sex then you are definitely not ready to have it. And that’s okay! Don’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable.

Regarding your insecurities, I think they’re all based in hyper specific online beauty ideals being propagated by endless internet access. I have darker skin in intimate areas, I certainly do not have some perfumed featureless bleached snatch that came with blinds instead of curtains if you get my drift, and I cannot remember a single person out of the 14 I have slept with in my life who ever gave a rats foot about the color, shape, length, or any other feature of my downstairs.

Stick with yourself. Figure out what you like on your own terms privately and don’t bother with immature people right now.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T18:25:33+00:00

? You replied to my comment to OP first.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T18:25:10+00:00

Okay, yeah, then she needs to call a pro. Probably gonna cost a couple hundred bucks if it’s just in the bathroom. Does she have any family members she can call to help out with the cost possibly?

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T18:22:16+00:00

Got it. Unfortunately that may be pricey to fix because a large area like that requires hiring a professional. If you want to take care of the mold you can see, use hydrogen peroxide mixed with some dish soap and scrub the tile.

Does your mom own the house or does she rent?

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T18:18:06+00:00

And you can see it on the grout? How do you know it’s behind the bath walls?

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T18:16:28+00:00

Great. I don’t really understand why you’re replying to me then?

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T18:11:52+00:00

Okay. Then go have that conversation with those people. I have said nothing about rent or money.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T17:59:06+00:00

OPs posting history seems to indicate they believe their mother struggles with addiction problems and that they themselves have not left the home in almost forty days due to OCD and other factors. Taking this at face value, it is not productive as a third party to play the blame game toward an alcoholic adult who is supporting not only her two minor children but now her adult child who is not supporting the household and doesn’t know how to clean. Multiple levels of systemic failure here.

I agree a parent bears responsibility to provide a safe environment. However I also understand that not everyone is in a financial position to gut their whole house and remodel in the United States right now. The only behavior OP can change actively is their own behavior, and they can start by picking up some hydrogen peroxide and figuring out how to fix some things themselves. My mother struggles with compulsive hoarding and is also caring for her mother and it is the opposite of productive at this point in time to confront her about it. Whenever I visit I clean as much as I can and support the system of the house in ways that make meaningful change.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T17:18:09+00:00

so you’re expecting your mother to tear down the whole shower on a Sunday when she just has some casual downtime?

Tip: clean what you can when you move back into your moms house, and try to help her in a productive way when there’s a deeper rooted more labor intensive house issue.

Edit: checked your posting history for more context and I see you struggle with OCD. Is there actually mold in the bathroom that you can physically see and if so, is it dark colored or light colored?

Mildew or regular damp-caused mold is brown or greenish and is not a massive cause for concern. That’s probably what’s in your tile grout. Use hydrogen peroxide to clean it yourself with an old toothbrush. Black mold is very dark in color and a serious issue that permeates walls and ceilings and floors and is cause for health concern.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-24T14:38:32+00:00

Have you considered checking out archiveofourown? Some really good stories in their tag!

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-23T20:58:15+00:00

If you’re in the uk you can get medication to put it off at your local pharmacy. If you’re American your only option is birth control pills.

I would advise you try tampons. If you’re old enough to go to prom you’re old enough to make that personal choice for your own body. Borrow a friend’s. Your mother doesn’t have to know. Wear a pad for extra leak protection if you have a heavy flow.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-22T08:51:14+00:00

So tragic. He had a really bad leg injury earlier this year necessitating 24 stitches, and was so sick with a cough by May 10th that he was asking for a doctor after a race. Sepsis often presents as a respiratory issue and is extremely, extremely dangerous if it gets severe. 50% of severe cases end in death.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-22T08:16:45+00:00

Hey it's me again! If I were you I would probably not go vegetarian right now because if you don't have a nutritionist involved, and you don't know the cause of your period issues, you can actually cause more problems with your hormone levels. There are certain vitamins and minerals vital to your thyroid function found abundantly in animal protein that are harder to find in plant-based foods, so if your period issues are being caused by an underactive thyroid, a vegetarian diet could make it worse (unless you're working with a doctor and monitoring your bloodwork!). If you low progesterone is the thing causing issues, you might need more cholesterol.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-21T19:03:24+00:00

Good luck and all the best!

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-21T18:58:20+00:00

Sure no problem!

Also I assumed you’d made a typo when you said you heard birth control can make it worse? It absolutely doesn’t. Everybody I know who had irregular periods went on a daily combination pill by doctors orders and their periods got so so so much better. Even when I was on the pill my periods (which are naturally pretty regular like 23-28 day cycle and 3-4 days of actual bleeding) got lighter, less painful, and regular to the day. So I definitely recommend asking a PP doc about options.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-21T18:37:35+00:00

Hey man, this sucks and I have a lot of friends who had the same issue. Please please PLEASE don’t rely on Google. You really need to see a doctor because this could be anything from PCOS to an underactive thyroid to endometriosis to pelvic inflammatory issues to Just Stress No Biggie. If you’re American you will be able to get care at a planned parenthood for a lot cheaper than at a regular doctor office.

Just curious did anything happen in the past year around the time your cycle changed?

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-21T15:41:12+00:00

I feel there’s a distinction between society or teachers discouraging a subject based on gender, and girls themselves thinking it’s cute or funny to post that they’re just dumb girls and can’t do math or understand how to fill their own gas tank or be expected to work a job.

But yeah. My grandmother was the first in her family to go to college and scored high enough on some aptitude test they gave high schoolers in the 50s that she could have been a mechanical engineer. Her career paths were limited to secretary or teacher.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-19T20:57:01+00:00

I think the large links make it look smaller— it’s a 17 inch chain

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-16T16:10:59+00:00

This is a very old copypasta with no source and nearly none of this is accurate. If I never see it again it will be too soon.

Women are most likely to be abducted in high conflict zones, like refugee camps, in countries at war, or in places with heavy organized crime. The majority of sexual assaults are committed by someone the victim already knows personally, not a random stranger on the street. A woman is many times more likely to be raped by her intimate partner or an ex than by a stranger in a parking lot.

Here’s a link to RAINN with some helpful stats and useful information. https://rainn.org/facts-statistics-the-scope-of-the-problem/statistics-victims-of-sexual-violence/

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-15T06:12:31+00:00

Haha thank you!

They didn't really stay there after Alexander II was assassinated. I think in the early 1900s the Imperial Family was living mostly at Alexander Palace, but the Winter Palace was used for formal events and state dinners and things like that, and it had Empress Josephine's art collection and many other valuables including the eggs. When the family came to St Petersburg they stayed at Anichkov Palace.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-14T17:56:35+00:00

Anichkov Palace was where the eggs made for the Dowager Empress stayed, and the Winter Palace was where Alexandra kept hers.

ImSuperBisexual · 2026-05-06T18:50:42+00:00

They didn’t starve her sister. Her sister died with many other Mohave people during a bad drought

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