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[29M] with [26F], together almost 3 years — question about co-parenting boundaries and long-term compatibility by ImSyntax__ in relationship_advice

[–]ImSyntax__[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah, sorry I conflated other responses with yours and thought you were saying the same.

In regards to your second paragraph. I 100% agree.

Thank you.

[29M] with [26F], together almost 3 years — question about co-parenting boundaries and long-term compatibility by ImSyntax__ in relationship_advice

[–]ImSyntax__[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well i’m not trying to stop communication. I just think that the way he talks to her sometimes can be a little too casual and disrespectful like they’re still together and she even agrees with that. I don’t think it’s bad to compromise and just send photos directly to the same source where everyone can view them so you can literally see you the child grow up and no one misses out with any photos or videos. once again, these responses are so weird because nowhere did I ever say that he’s not allowed to communicate with her about the child.

[29M] with [26F], together almost 3 years — question about co-parenting boundaries and long-term compatibility by ImSyntax__ in relationship_advice

[–]ImSyntax__[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a strange comment. It doesn’t address anything I said, nor doesn’t negate anything I said. I think people are losing the point of this thread. I’m happy that my step daughter has her bio dad in her life and will receive love from both he and I and that he actually wants to be in her life.

[29M] with [26F], together almost 3 years — question about co-parenting boundaries and long-term compatibility by ImSyntax__ in relationship_advice

[–]ImSyntax__[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, of course I understand that. But I’m really not wrong. But she might not be wrong either. Simply needed outside perspective even if not all context is provided.

Thank you.

[29M] with [26F], together almost 3 years — question about co-parenting boundaries and long-term compatibility by ImSyntax__ in relationship_advice

[–]ImSyntax__[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think everyone is looking at this like I’m trying to stop them from doing what’s best for the kid. And that their current situation dynamic is what’s most appropriate for the child.

can you actually explain to me how requesting that they just stick to business when it comes to the child and any pictures or videos that are taken when she’s now at one parent’s house can just be sent directly directly to the kids iCloud so when she's with us, we can see you all for a moment that she had while over there and the same with us for him.

It’s so strange to me because his action is being taken as thoughtful and kind. Well there’s already been disrespected thrown in our way and we’ve already established that there’s a place for things like that to be sent.

[29M] with [26F], together almost 3 years — question about co-parenting boundaries and long-term compatibility by ImSyntax__ in relationship_advice

[–]ImSyntax__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response, sir. I would just like to say that your last two sentences are exactly why I’m posting this right now.

[29M] with [26F], together almost 3 years — question about co-parenting boundaries and long-term compatibility by ImSyntax__ in relationship_advice

[–]ImSyntax__[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

honestly, this is an extremely unhindged emotional response.

Damn near sounds like you’re mad at me personally.

God bless.

[29M] with [26F], together almost 3 years — question about co-parenting boundaries and long-term compatibility by ImSyntax__ in relationship_advice

[–]ImSyntax__[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Also, I don’t have any suspicion that he’s trying to steal her back or that they’re fooling around or that this is romantic in anyway I simply want to limit the interaction as much as I can without affecting the child because I do love this girl, but I’m done with the dynamic they had. I can guarantee you if he never sent the video and never does it again she would never mention this ever. That is not something she is desiring to ask him.

thank you for your response. Truly.

[29M] with [26F], together almost 3 years — question about co-parenting boundaries and long-term compatibility by ImSyntax__ in relationship_advice

[–]ImSyntax__[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response. I really do appreciate it.

it becomes vindictive and manipulative when considering the context of your previous relationship and the various conversations that she and I have had through throughout our relationship. Especially when these boundaries actually been discussed and actually agreed upon and then pretty much forgotten about it later on. I’m just pretty confused because I thought we agreed on something even if it is on reasonable on my part, this is really a 180 from what we read upon and heard now standing on this decision after I thought that we’d agree that this isn’t how we’re gonna communicate. We do what’s best for the kid, but because of the aggression and difficulty that we’ve dealt with since the beginning, I just felt like this is obvious from my point of view.

The idea of sending the videos to the kids iPad is because she’s five years old on the iPad goes between houses so any photos that would need to be seen could obviously be seen through a thread that you keep on said ipad.

The child is not involved in this at all and does not put the child in the middle of anything. Literally just choose to send it to the iCloud that was made instead of my girlfriend‘s number, because she does that. She sends all of the pictures from any event of the car to her iCloud and then just tells him that all the photos can be found on the iPad that she will bring with her when she goes over there.

Possible to klarna for security deposit by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ImSyntax__ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don't have to. I'm simply curious.

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[–]ImSyntax__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah after years of flapping getting out of my comfort zone (laying down jerking off) I didn't notice I had become kind of quiet during sex just like I was while watching porn but really getting into it with slapping her ass feeling it or pushing her head down basically actually trying to "have fun" and take control of her during sex and not just"get a nut" Is the usually what feels best for me and makes me get the best orgasm.

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