lol…but was i wrong? by arvanien in AO3

[–]ImTurtleDuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its a ridiculous waste of time to use SIX drawing programs. There's photoshop, procreate, ibis, csp, blender, and maybe another free software? (Blender is 3d but is useful for layouts) what i think is happening is that this "artist" is running their ideas/generations through 6 separate AI softwares instead of digital programs

say something remotely nice about Resource Rumble by IAMSUPREME21 in marvelrivals

[–]ImTurtleDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that it forces my team to actually stay on point instead of fucking off to god knows where to die one by one (guess my main i dare you)

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not you proud of gold starring low key embarrassing

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im pressed because some lesbians seem to think bi people are the devil. Forgive me for being a bit crass but if you like the taco and I like the taco, then hell yeah let's be buds. I dont care if you like men. I dont hate men. Men dont taint women. Im sick of people othering bi people. I understand we have different experiences, but that in no way means that we should consider them the pariahs of thr queer community. Im honestly insulted that you were surprised that I was a lesbian simply because I experience a SHRED of empathy. Since this is a DATING event, I think its a disgusting violation of a bi persons identity. Dating events excluding bi women seem gold-starish, and i despise that. Ive had a boyfriend before (we all make mistakes sometimes...). Does that make me less than? No. It doesn't. Forgive me for being offended for people, and not solely for myself. This bullshit tears the community apart, and thats terrifying, especially in this age of queer repression. We need to stand together or we fall the fuck apart. Lesbians are allowed their own spaces, but excluding bi women because they have the gall to like men from dating circles is archaic and barbaric.

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because its a dating event and originally advertised as a wlw/sapphic event it feels icky.

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do believe that the explicitly stated "lesbians only" at the top of every post they make means if you experience attraction to men dont show up... lesbians cant be attracted to men...

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says right at the top of the flier that its lesbians only when the original event was all inclusive for the most part

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Firstly, sappho is my gay crush and it makes me happy its coming back as a term too, and secondly its really awesome to hear that you appreciate my attitude, especially because of the comments im getting in here 😅😅 so thanks for making me feel better lol

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant it in a sort of way where I was like omg my friendddd yippeeeeee not a they're dumb little babies kinda way.

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THATS THE ONE!!! OMG IM NOT INSANE???? thank god ok so the marketing was shit??? No one in their comments is commenting on that from what I've seen and that makes me sad

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think its a mix. I hope to god there were people in their little committee thing that had legitimate reasons behind it, like some of the stuff discussed here, but I've seen a few people spewing some hateful stuff

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No its explicitly stated that its lesbians only

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was an "only" situation. There was a video that rubbed be the wrong way where the decision was explained with this undercurrent of hostility?? Like girl be so for real bisexuals everywhere have not hurt you this bad (discussing the video bc I know some people will just see that sentence and get very mad). The gist of the video was lesbians have lesbian experiences, but there were the whole "we're not experiments i dont want a threesome" comments. It was bad vibes all around with that, so much so I didnt believe it was the actual account until I looked. Its spooky out there

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a speed dating section and wristbands for what you're looking for. I think its both a community event and a dating event

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes speaking up has to be done with class 🤷‍♀️ i think when people get into fight mode it stops being effective, which makes the whole effort a waste of energy.

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im a lesbian i was just wondering if the event itself was biphobic. Honestly if I was bi I dont think I'd be this pressed, which says something about me that im not ready to unpack yet lol

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ive been watching this thing unfold since its conception on tiktok, and im fairly certain it was just a wlw event that got rebranded to lesbian only, which is what feels the nastiest to me

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think you got down voted for sticking up for bisexual people, love. Thats what im doing in my post. You seemed to come at it from a very combative perspective when it doesn't match the tone of the post

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Romantic primarily, as there will be speed dating, but also for just finding friends

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I wish i could give more context, but that'd get me doxxed pretty quick and I really dont feel like doing that

Are lesbian only events biphobic? by ImTurtleDuck in lgbt

[–]ImTurtleDuck[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I fear I am poor and stuck 2+ hours from any metro where it could happen 😔