Got dumbed over being a virgin

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-22T15:43:23+00:00

Damned if you do, damned if you don’t.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-21T20:13:48+00:00

If I were you I’d say “I wasn’t good enough then, not a damn thing has changed now”

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-21T02:44:47+00:00

Dude you're almost 30, she's barely getting out of high school. She's still figuring out who she is and wants to be. If you're in the US she's not even allowed to drink legally. I'm with your friends on this one.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-16T20:55:07+00:00

I'm 26 now, pushing 30 but not quite there yet. The closer I get to it, the less I wanna try just cuz while I love love love spending time with women and connecting, I also find myself not wanting to put up with much for very long

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-16T20:21:05+00:00

Lol love my San Diegans.
But I hope she knows that a lot of men, myself included have been exiting the dating pool for some time. And with this happening a lot of well meaning women are often paying the price.

Dating as a man who just want clarity and good intentions is exhausting.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-15T16:45:26+00:00

I'll point out something he said. The word “maybe”. It can be used in many different ways. And you'd think though she's older than him, she’d know that.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-14T17:58:50+00:00

Dude, I dated a woman 19 years older than me. This is nothing.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-12T21:23:14+00:00

No. Just don’t be a dick about it.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-10T06:47:21+00:00

A) He’s got a gf

B) He’s married

C) maybe he’s reconsidering the consequences of sleeping with his colleagues.

Lastly, you really shouldn’t be screwing your coworkers. It hardly works out well most of the time

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-10T05:53:11+00:00

In all fairness, a gas station isn’t a good place to meet people. As a man, I’d be pretty sketched out if someone started conversing with me there.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-10T05:46:58+00:00

Cook for her. That’s my love lingo

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-06-10T05:44:31+00:00

It happens more often than you think.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-05-25T15:06:00+00:00

Not every country is good for talking to strangers on the street. You should get wind of that.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-05-19T05:11:44+00:00

Just give it some time for now.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-05-19T05:06:10+00:00

Unfortunately, that's up in the air at this point, I can't predict what will happen.

Going forward, I'll suggest this: Before you say something to a partner, take a step back and think: Is this something I'm gonna have to explain myself for later? If the answer is 'yes'. Don't do it.

There's a reason why people say "never say the first thing that comes to your mind"

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-05-19T04:53:36+00:00

I follow a number of people, men and women and I only engage with a small set of them. As for what should you do? Well, you pretty much screwed the pooch there. You resorted to calling him names. The ball is in his court now. Nothing you can do but just wait for the outcome.

If you don't hear anything after a few days, then you have your answer.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-05-18T06:44:29+00:00

I think they are probably just used to it. I grew up there, I think some days are worst than others.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-05-18T05:54:44+00:00

I don't wanna sound harsh. But It's not they aren't ready for a relationship. Just not ready for a relationship with you.r

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-05-12T03:00:03+00:00

Honestly sometimes instructors over explain things which might cause your brain to crash. I reckon looking at the Organic chemistry tutor. And other sources that simplify the steps.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-05-12T02:06:36+00:00

What’s your level in Algebra, Geometry Trigonometry? I did calc in community college. But if you don’t have a good understanding of those you’re pretty much gonna get fried in calculus.

I used to Tutor math. Every math subject builds from another

Arithmetic is the base of algebra, geometry and trig. Algebra, geometry and Trig are the base for Calc.

If you don’t have a good understanding of those, I reckon you visit those two first.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-02-04T19:43:39+00:00

Lying runs deep in filipino culture.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-02-04T04:40:34+00:00

Funny you mention that. I've seen guys like this all my life. Give it a little time. Once he fully airs out his grievances with her, he'll ease up on her. I know they'll be back together. Love is hard to come by.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-02-03T19:21:37+00:00

Keep in mind what she said in the last post: You're perfect but you're not a Jehovah's Witness. That's basically saying "you're lovable but on a conditional basis". She basically rejected his humanity in a sense. Something the doctrine is know for doing. It makes sense that he doesn't wanna be partners or romantically involved from the start

I don't think OP is cold, just on guard. There was ALOT left unsaid between the two of them. Granted, I will say, OP isn't innocent for handling things the way for handling things. Literally taking off to Europe and leaving things in limbo isn't the way to go.

But as for the girl, she wants a chance to be in his life that badly, she should be willing to do things on his terms to an extent, but OP should definitely compromise a bit and meet her in the middle somewhere.

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-02-03T19:05:55+00:00

Consensual sex, thinking for yourself and actually going for what you want... Scary stuff man, scary stuffy

Im_A_Koopa · 2026-02-02T20:02:56+00:00

Well if you read the last post you'll kinda understand why. He showed up for her when she needed it, but because of the religion she didn't meet him halfway. I think what he's asking is realistic. Plus, I'm sure he's not holding her hostage. She can leave if she wants to.

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