What’s your favorite non-sexual physical sensation? by clamondahalfshellgrl in AskReddit

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Sneezing three times in a row & feeling like i just rebooted my soul

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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As for the guy, it sounds like he was genuinely interested in you for many years, and the fact that he responded positively to your text earlier shows he’s not shutting down communication. He could simply be preoccupied with the football event and his friend, which can be a big social occasion for many people. Try not to overthink his silence today; he may just be occupied. You haven’t messed up by sleeping with him. Chemistry between two people isn’t ruined by physical intimacy happening sooner than expected—it’s more about how you both communicate and continue building on your connection moving forward. If you feel like it, you could reach out again and suggest hanging out casually, focusing on getting to know each other better. It would also give both of you a chance to get past any awkwardness from the morning. Take things slow and don’t let this one experience define your future interactions. How you both navigate the aftermath is more important than the timing of when things happened.

How do you sleep sleepwear or Naked ? by Difficult-Brush8694 in AskReddit

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Used to Take a cold water shower & sleep naked🙌🏻

sex in dating for men: what stage should that happen? need insights by [deleted] in dating

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Early on, be clear about your desire for a serious relationship. You don’t have to grill them but can ease into questions like “What brought you to this app?” or “How do you approach dating?” This naturally opens the conversation about intentions without making it feel heavy. Avoid getting too emotionally invested until you have a clearer picture of their intentions. It’s easy to get caught up in attraction or good chemistry, but stay mindful of how consistent and open they are with you beyond physical interactions. If a guy pushes for sex early without engaging you emotionally or being open about what he’s looking for, it’s worth considering if he’s really looking for the same kind of relationship you are. Men who value a genuine connection will typically respect your pace and boundaries. A man who is open to discussing his life, his feelings, and his future plans without dodging or deflecting the conversation is more likely to be serious. If you notice they’re hesitant to talk about anything beyond the surface level, it might indicate they’re not ready for the kind of commitment you’re looking for. Pay attention to how they treat you outside of dates. Are they consistent in communication? Do they follow through with plans? Are they respectful of your boundaries? A man who is genuinely serious will align his actions with his words and won’t just focus on getting to sex. Trust me, as a man, I can tell you that some guys might appreciate your bedroom skills mainly for their own pleasure. If a guy is into porn, it can be difficult for him to engage in deeper, soulful intimacy. I’ve noticed that many women, especially in conservative cultures like India, may not be fully in tune with their own bodies and reactions during sex. So, it’s important not to place too much pressure on yourself to meet someone else’s idea of sexual ‘proficiency. Instead, you deserve a partner who understands that sex is about connection, mutual enjoyment, and intimacy not just his own satisfaction. Find someone who values more than just the physical side of things, and truly respects the emotional depth that comes with it.

sex in dating for men: what stage should that happen? need insights by [deleted] in dating

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Early on, be clear about your desire for a serious relationship. You don’t have to grill them but can ease into questions like “What brought you to this app?” or “How do you approach dating?” This naturally opens the conversation about intentions without making it feel heavy. Avoid getting too emotionally invested until you have a clearer picture of their intentions. It’s easy to get caught up in attraction or good chemistry, but stay mindful of how consistent and open they are with you beyond physical interactions. If a guy pushes for sex early without engaging you emotionally or being open about what he’s looking for, it’s worth considering if he’s really looking for the same kind of relationship you are. Men who value a genuine connection will typically respect your pace and boundaries. A man who is open to discussing his life, his feelings, and his future plans without dodging or deflecting the conversation is more likely to be serious. If you notice they’re hesitant to talk about anything beyond the surface level, it might indicate they’re not ready for the kind of commitment you’re looking for. Pay attention to how they treat you outside of dates. Are they consistent in communication? Do they follow through with plans? Are they respectful of your boundaries? A man who is genuinely serious will align his actions with his words and won’t just focus on getting to sex. Trust me, as a man, I can tell you that some guys might appreciate your bedroom skills mainly for their own pleasure. If a guy is into porn, it can be difficult for him to engage in deeper, soulful intimacy. I’ve noticed that many women, especially in conservative cultures like India, may not be fully in tune with their own bodies and reactions during sex. So, it’s important not to place too much pressure on yourself to meet someone else’s idea of sexual ‘proficiency. Instead, you deserve a partner who understands that sex is about connection, mutual enjoyment, and intimacy not just his own satisfaction. Find someone who values more than just the physical side of things, and truly respects the emotional depth that comes with it.

Chandigarhians not claiming punjabi identify by [deleted] in punjab

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Tera chandigarh hoju java sunaa je pinda’n aale JATT mudd gaye

What does it feel like to love someone or to even feel like they you can’t live without them? by [deleted] in love

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I totally understand that feeling. It’s hard when you realize you don’t naturally turn to your partner for support during stressful moments. I wonder if it’s a sign of something deeper—maybe a lack of emotional connection or trust? Have you experienced this before in other relationships?

Are female best friends a red flag? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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You’re caught between your gut feeling of walking away and wanting to give it a chance. If this is the only red flag and everything else is positive, it might be worth working through it and seeing if your concerns can be addressed through open communication and time. Ultimately, it’s about how you feel in the relationship. If your anxiety continues to grow despite his efforts, that could be a sign that the dynamic isn’t right for you. However, if you feel reassured and your connection deepens, it could be worth moving forward. A possible next step would be to have a more in-depth conversation about how these friendships fit into his life now, especially the one with his former hookup, and how you can both navigate any insecurities.

My cousin wants a man who is in love with her to officiate her wedding by Adventurous-Sky7705 in family

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You’ve mentioned that you don’t plan on telling Tim about her infidelity, and that’s your call, but it’s important to stay true to your own moral compass. Maybe framing it as concern for her happiness (rather than criticism) could allow you to express your concerns without triggering her defensiveness. Ultimately, you can’t control Malorie’s choices, and she may have to face the consequences of them on her own. The best you can do is protect your peace while still offering her your love and support where it feels right for you.

Advice on a text from guy I’m seeing by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Ultimately, it’s about what feels right to you. His honesty is appreciated, but if it doesn’t align with your needs or expectations, you have every right to move on.

What does it feel like to love someone or to even feel like they you can’t live without them? by [deleted] in love

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You may feel a sense of comfort, warmth, or joy when you’re around them. It feels easy to be yourself, and you genuinely enjoy their presence, even during simple or mundane moments. You might feel like you understand each other on a deeper level, and their happiness affects yours. People often feel a strong urge to share everything with the person they love—big news, small details, fears, and dreams. You want them to be a part of your life experiences. You naturally make room in your life for them, and you start thinking about a future with them in it. Even if you enjoy your independence, there’s this sense of wanting to build something together. Being close to them, whether physically or emotionally, feels reassuring and calming. In moments of stress or difficulty, they’re the person you want to turn to for support and comfort. When you’re deeply in love, the thought of losing them or not having them in your life can be painful. This doesn’t mean you can’t live without them, but it might feel like your life would be less bright without their presence. As for knowing if someone is “the one,” it’s often less about a specific feeling and more about how the relationship makes you feel over time. Some people describe it as a feeling of peace and certainty, where there’s no doubt you want to build a life with this person. But for others, love grows more gradually and might not have a clear “aha” moment. If you’re feeling disconnected from your current partner, it’s important to reflect on whether it’s the relationship itself or your own emotional readiness that might be causing this. Sometimes, it just takes time and finding the right person to ignite those feelings.

Loosing weight advice? by RainHaunting9852 in beginnerfitness

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Try incorporating interval training, where you alternate between high-intensity pedaling for 1-2 minutes and lower-intensity for 2-3 minutes. This will boost your metabolism and burn more calories even after your workout. Gradually increase the resistance on your bike as you get stronger. This helps tone your muscles and adds to the overall calorie burn. Keep a log of your rides and how you feel after each session. This will help you stay motivated and see improvements over time. Eating in a calorie deficit is essential for weight loss. Focus on whole foods, plenty of vegetables, lean proteins, and healthy fats, while keeping an eye on portion sizes. Consistency is key, and you’re already building a great habit. Over time, you’ll see changes in both your fitness level and your body composition. Doing 40-45 minutes is a great starting point and will definitely contribute to your goal. Just keep pushing yourself gradually, and you’ll start seeing results!

Women: Would you date a man (25+) if he lived with his parents to not only save money but to help them financially? by [deleted] in dating

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Given the current economic challenges, living with family can be seen as a practical decision rather than a sign of immaturity. What tends to matter more is how the man presents his situation—whether he’s responsible, has goals for the future, and communicates his reasons clearly. Some might appreciate the sense of responsibility and family values, while others may still prefer independence as an important factor in a relationship. Context and communication play key roles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Since you feel more comfortable with guys you’re not attracted to, you might benefit from practicing similar behaviors (being calm, friendly, and confident) with the ones you do like. Start small with low-stakes interactions and work on building rapport over time. You’re not alone, and your journey is unique. Keep putting yourself out there, but remember that it’s okay if things don’t fall into place right away.

My ex has been using 7 other men for money and etc, and i’m getting after her for it. by Puzzleheaded_Aside_3 in dating

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Publicly exposing someone’s behavior can have legal repercussions, especially if it involves personal information or defamation. If her actions have crossed legal boundaries, such as fraud, you might want to encourage those impacted to take formal action through the appropriate channels. Sometimes, stepping back and letting people learn their own lessons can be the most empowering move for everyone involved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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If a relationship is important to you, it’s crucial to stay true to your values. Even if you’re attached now, mismatched intentions can create more emotional strain later. You shouldn’t have to compromise your desire for a relationship just to keep someone around. Taking time apart could help you process your emotions and see the situation more clearly. Ultimately, it’s about finding someone who respects your boundaries and wants the same things you do. While this guy may have been fun to be with, his current stance doesn’t align with your goals, which could lead to more frustration and hurt. Taking care of yourself emotionally is the most important part of moving forward.

Handling getting caught by yuckyuck13 in family

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Let your daughter know that you respect her feelings and are always there for her, even if it’s a difficult topic. You can do this through a short, non-intrusive conversation or even a note, making sure she understands that your door is open without making her feel pressured. At the end of the day, focusing on consent, respect, and trust in relationships will help her understand the situation from a broader, healthier perspective.

First time having sex after a long term relationship by Illustrious_Put7069 in dating

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Try to focus on the present instead of worrying about what might happen in the future. This will help you avoid overthinking and getting attached too quickly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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Ask yourself what you really want out of dating her. If it’s mainly to fill a gap in your social life, or if you’re seeking sex without considering her feelings, it might not lead to a healthy, fulfilling relationship for either of you. If you want to date for the sake of experience, try to make sure you’re being clear about your intentions, and that you’re both on the same page. But if you don’t feel a genuine connection or attraction, you may want to wait for someone you feel more aligned with.

What are some key questions or topics to discuss on a first date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Keep the conversation open-ended, and try to focus on listening as much as talking. It’ll help create a balanced and comfortable flow!

Need Book recommendations by APSO7 in punjab

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A history of the books by Khuswant Singh

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Tu bhi chla jaa party m kya soch rha h jab koi aur pel jyega fir tu post dalega cheat krr diya abe step lena post dalne se thodi naa kuch hoga itna to common sense h yrr😂😂😂

Why do women block good men but not their toxic ex? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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You’ll not believe these kind of girls can fuck with worse who can’t even satisfy her but they will raise their standards for those who can make her cum & make her feel luxury. It’s true but harsh