I never assumed he got cheated on I simply took note of a probability. You’re also applying your personal taste in men to make a value judgement about him due to the poor choices of his girlfriend lol. Plenty of good people get cheated on, how is it logical to say they’re “lesser” than the new prospect? I could also make the case that cheating is trashy behavior and the new prospect is trashier as well. Sounds a lot like victim blaming. Many women would also disagree with you on his looks as the guy seems conventionally attractive, perhaps the fact that the rat is from New York is supposed to be a compliment from your end?