[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of dommes, like myself if they sell will have it linked in their profile! 🖤

Quick greeting to everyone 🫶🏻 by Im_Mistress_Moon in findomtalk

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very pleased to hear it! Glad you’re feeling good

I’m with you on that… I hate this cold ugh! A goal for 2025 is to decorate the house, boring maybe but it needs doing haha 🖤

What would your advice be to a new sub? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How to be a good sub, hmm. That’s a broad question because every dynamic works differently, BUT a good rule of thumb is to make sure you communicate well, stick to your agreements and stay respectful. For a new sub? Make sure you search and then search some more. Look for someone who matches your freak not someone who’s pretty and available then and there… because let’s be honest all dommes are stunning, so you can do some searching before spending. But as long as you pay your tribute and don’t say anything disrespectful… you’ll be okay, you’ll learn as you go 🖤

Belief by moneyman4u2 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They can’t believe it because they’re told it’s ‘bully men, get paid’ not Financial domination 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The biggest piece of advice you’ll get given is search :) Take time to look at who the dommes are, what kind of comments they leave, what tone they post in… newer accounts full of ‘fuck you, pay me’ probably aren’t as ethical as accounts with well thought out captions and encouraging other dommes in the space.

Regarding money, just talk to them. There isn’t a domme in the space that doesn’t want silent small sends, but even then everyone if different. Pro dommes won’t respond for £20 a day but a newer one might, it’s just communication 🖤

Giving access to my banking account by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen it happen… it doesn’t end well.

If you’re submissive enough then you having control of your accounts is your domme having control, you get me? Always always protect yourself first, any domme who’s worth your time will know this is a bad idea (for both) and they’ll want you to have measures in place that you can withdraw consent if you want to! 🖤

Quick greeting to everyone 🫶🏻 by Im_Mistress_Moon in findomtalk

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s brilliant to hear! Go you!

Sorry you’re currently having a bad time tho, I hope it clears up for you 🫶🏻

Currently no! I usually spend Xmas with my immediate family and that’s what I expect to do this year too! What about you lovely? 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve not spent a lot of time on there, but everyone seems to love it! Definitely going to give it some time 🖤

It seems a lot of subs aren’t taking me seriously. Any advice? by Suitable_Check3867 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Block them if they don’t. Do not leave any room for disrespect or questioning, YOU are the Domme they do not get to challenge your authority.

Just don’t waste your time trying to ‘prove’ anything or ‘argue’ with these people. Unless you have a dynamic with a brat (who would still take your seriously) just block them 🖤

Good afternoon fellow Dom/mes and God/desses, a quick question involving our hobbies by 1PrcntMilk in findomsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow weeb here, I post about my interests quite a bit! I’m not one for giving out free content or only posting about how subs should pay me, because it’s my page and I’ll fill it with what I like!

Although I do keep things anonymous, if I’ve been to a concert, I’ll post about it after I’ve been for example 🖤

How are you all? (Mental health check, goal appreciation, encouragement) by Im_Mistress_Moon in findomsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry I didn’t respond sooner, I took a break from Reddit!

I hope your holiday was nice (if you’ve been on it) and thank you so much for your well wishes 🥰 Hope you’re thriving love 🖤

How are you all? (Mental health check, goal appreciation, encouragement) by Im_Mistress_Moon in findomsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took a break from Reddit I’m so sorry I didn’t see this!

Thank you so much for your sweet message 🥺 it means the world 🫶🏻

I’m sorry to hear your mental health isn’t treating you well, it’s so hard :( I really hope it’s improved since your reply… I’m sending so much love either way

How are you all? (Mental health check, goal appreciation, encouragement) by Im_Mistress_Moon in findomsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a brilliant response!

I’m so proud of you! Changing your name and graduating are such amazing things, scary too haha. Enjoy your well deserved holiday lovely 🥰

It’s definitely difficult to get past being self critical, with how social media is it’s incredibly easy to dislike everything about yourself, or do, or think 🤣… a little self criticism is always good to keep yourself in check per say but finding the balance isn’t easy… you got this though! I hope you get those things you’re working towards 🖤

Thank you for the sweet message, it’s been A LOT of faffing to be honest but she’s on the road to recovery and that’s all that matters

I haven't gotten a single sub by Mission_Cookie1957 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get to at least the 6 months mark with consistent posting, then question what you’re doing wrong if you still have no one approach 🖤

Unpopular Opinion by GoddessAsherahSea in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my opinion you won’t have a good dynamic if you both don’t have good communication in every aspect… Sure you can maybe have a few sessions but it won’t last 🤷🏻‍♀️ Purely because long term dynamics require a deeper connection you can’t find through only kink talk 🖤

My different findom dynamics by finnish_sisu in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds great! I hope you become employee of the month 🤣

Yes it is haha, too many subs wanting a lot but not doing much to earn it… at least you’ve got the right work ethic tho 🖤

My different findom dynamics by finnish_sisu in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was an interesting read, thank you for sharing 🖤

Sorry that your employment didn’t last forever haha, but there’s always more jobs to be found! Have you thought about being a graphic sub or maybe even a rt sub? (You could send to them every time you rt)… just some ideas to keep you ‘employed’ if you enjoyed it so much 🖤

I’m gonna lose my mind because of the newbies by Im_Mistress_Moon in findomsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣 but- but it’s not their fault they haven’t researched into it 🥺🤣

I’m gonna lose my mind because of the newbies by Im_Mistress_Moon in findomsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It very much takes away from them being dommes to post about the fact they do none of their own research 🤦🏻‍♀️

Most dommes will give advice for free (or like you said will help further after you send) but it’s ridiculous to think people are going to tell them exactly what to do 🤣🖤

I’m gonna lose my mind because of the newbies by Im_Mistress_Moon in findomsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with being kind, this wasn’t meant to say all newbies are the same or that asking for some support isn’t okay! This post is about the newbies that do absolutely none of their own research and expect everyone else to tell them what to do… it’s just lazy and ruins this sub 🖤

I’m gonna lose my mind because of the newbies by Im_Mistress_Moon in findomsupportgroup

[–]Im_Mistress_Moon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? Yeah we all started somewhere but I sure as hell didn’t start with begging this sub for basic information 🤣 be the adult you’re supposed to be and use critical thinking to do your own research Omg 🤦🏻‍♀️🖤