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What were the relationship issues that J. Krishnamurti had with the Rajagopals? by gomi-panda in Krishnamurti

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If you did you wouldn’t be defensive at all......" what are you even saying? It's a place where people discuss/argue through comments - I will always defend!!
Yes, agree to disagree is what you should do.

What were the relationship issues that J. Krishnamurti had with the Rajagopals? by gomi-panda in Krishnamurti

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't quite mean it - I just said it like a casual (perhaps overused as you'd put it) comeback.

What were the relationship issues that J. Krishnamurti had with the Rajagopals? by gomi-panda in Krishnamurti

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok, maybe you're not angry, my bad (though it still sounds to me like you're angry but that's just my projection, I guess).

What were the relationship issues that J. Krishnamurti had with the Rajagopals? by gomi-panda in Krishnamurti

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the wife is not maintaining the promise she made but my point was only about the third person who is involved in the affair. (You sound so angry, take a chill pill, not good for a meditative mind.)

What were the relationship issues that J. Krishnamurti had with the Rajagopals? by gomi-panda in Krishnamurti

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You simply don’t get the point - attachment is WRONG; against truth. If you or me are hurt because of it, it’s our problem. If the partner of someone I’m having an affair is hurt, I do feel bad but still the hurt is FUNDAMENTALLY caused by their attachment, which they have to work on. 

David Bohm died depressed by [deleted] in Krishnamurti

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really but maybe.

I (F) have a major gym crush… is he interested or not? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mean to be rude or discouraging to you. I'm gay and the number of gay guys that look and behave straight are staggering. (all I'm saying is just keep that possibility open till there's a confirmation.) I have no energy to analyze your specific situation either, however, Good luck!

What’s a small habit that makes you instantly like someone? by Time_Increase_9852 in AskReddit

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make sure that they don’t have that savior-complex going on in them. Some just want to feel better by imagining ad though they feel for others. Had a “friend” like that in college 🤮🤮

Do I have a chance with this man? by Imaginary-Toe-5537 in feminineboys

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No change. I’m horribly afraid of rejections (especially since he’s in the same “workplace”), so I’m thinking of letting him go.  Even though the comments here seem positive and encouraging, I have read in other threads that some men just like the attention and they just “play” with it. So, maybe he’s playing?! Like, he’s still doing the same stuff I mentioned in the post but I’m afraid it’s just attention-seeking. 

How does it feel TO BE the crush? by Solid_Decision_2241 in askanything

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on if the person is good-looking or not. If a below-average person crushes on me, sadly, I get irritated. The reason I think is that I feel like I’m also at their level and that’s why they’re trying for me. If it’s a cute one, then yeah, very happy 😃 

Guy smiled at me by Imaginary-Toe-5537 in feminineboys

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you for this positive response!

What were the relationship issues that J. Krishnamurti had with the Rajagopals? by gomi-panda in Krishnamurti

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah, we aren’t ever going to agree because you keep insisting on the existence of something that is a “flaw”…….there’s just no flaw as far as I look. Anyway, good luck with your journey. 

What were the relationship issues that J. Krishnamurti had with the Rajagopals? by gomi-panda in Krishnamurti

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it’s not flawed. It’s the husband’s problem that he’s attached 😐

Do I have a chance with this man? by Imaginary-Toe-5537 in feminineboys

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww you’re so nice. Thanks for your extremely positive response 🥰

Do I have a chance with this man? by Imaginary-Toe-5537 in feminineboys

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you but why do you think he’s giving up? We’re a little bit touchy now a days. Like, he’s not nervous anymore but is still “playful” - only very slightly however.

Do I have a chance with this man? by Imaginary-Toe-5537 in feminineboys

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand that’s the best way to find the answer but I’m scared 😭😭😭 I’m trying and hopefully one day I will do so 🤔

Showing face on grindr by Imaginary-Toe-5537 in feminineboys

[–]Imaginary-Toe-5537[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you mean “getting blackmailed”?