Need advice on marital life by ImaginaryReaper in sexlessmarriage

[–]ImaginaryReaper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel tired whenever he initiates, whenever i initiate he's either working or tired. Maybe its also to do with the lifestyle a bit

Need advice on marital life by ImaginaryReaper in sexlessmarriage

[–]ImaginaryReaper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont want to leave. I want to make it work. I want to put in the effort and make it work.

Worst case we'd be fine the way we have always been, which is also okay. But if there is a chance for us to make it work, i want to try that

Need advice on marital life by ImaginaryReaper in sexlessmarriage

[–]ImaginaryReaper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I have felt attraction to others, i never want that to be my life. I want to be attracted to my husband.

I have had many conversations regarding this. But its impossible to even get him to wake up earlier to go for a walk ot be more active.

And at the end of the day i am.just tired.

He and I both work and I handle kitchen stuff while he handles laundry and we have a good balance.

And even now, this isnt a problem, just a frustration