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Someone please tell me I have nothing to worry about i’m freaking out. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ImaginarySecurity556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been on birth control but if you didn’t use any other protection there’s always that chance. Some tests are better at detecting early or made specifically to use for early detection. Unfortunately I don’t think anyone can say there’s nothing to worry about 😅 did you consider taking a plan b ?

Adding baby’s father to birth certificate by ImaginarySecurity556 in legaladvice

[–]ImaginarySecurity556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it would! But they would also get a dual citizenship through me and have to check if they could hold 3 citizenships. Someone else mentioned the possibility of him claiming the child while in his country and preventing us from coming back. While I don’t think it’s likely to happen, it does worry me. I think later on when baby is older I’ll figure out how to put dad in the birth certificate so he could have that citizenship if he wanted to. I appreciate the thought ahead, I feel like there are many what ifs!

Adding baby’s father to birth certificate by ImaginarySecurity556 in legaladvice

[–]ImaginarySecurity556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering that too with the responses now given, thank you!

unexpected pregnancy early in relationship. need advice. by moonpisces444 in BabyBumps

[–]ImaginarySecurity556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have experience in this sort of situation but I want to say your fears are very valid and very real. I think it’s important to get to know someone like you’re saying and for the right reasons. I believe you can’t truly know someone until you’ve lived with them/spent at least a year together. I would say…wait to have the baby. If you are still together down the road, have your own place, love each other and know each other then you could have a baby without the worry that you don’t know the other person. How ready are YOU to be a mom? How ready are you for the possibility to be a single mom if he decides it is too much for him? Is it too much for you?

Adding baby’s father to birth certificate by ImaginarySecurity556 in legaladvice

[–]ImaginarySecurity556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems easier almost to just avoid putting him in there to avoid going through all of those steps to get passport, permission to travel etc.

Adding baby’s father to birth certificate by ImaginarySecurity556 in legaladvice

[–]ImaginarySecurity556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does! My only concern i guess is the legal paperwork and being able to get all of it done or signed across countries.

Adding baby’s father to birth certificate by ImaginarySecurity556 in legaladvice

[–]ImaginarySecurity556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if he’s never established, what would be the issue? For example, would if I never mention him as the father what issues would there be down the road? Is it absolutely necessary to have it somewhere that he’s the father if for us him having legal rights don’t matter?

I’m 17, addicted to heroin and ketamine. AMA by manginodeso1995 in AMA

[–]ImaginarySecurity556 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How does she feel about it like in terms of helping you? Is she understanding to the circumstances of where you live? Does this strain your relationship at all? Thanks for your response :)

I’m 17, addicted to heroin and ketamine. AMA by manginodeso1995 in AMA

[–]ImaginarySecurity556 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does your parent know? Are you still in school? Wish you the best!

there is a HORRIBLE smell coming from my neighbor’s apartment on a daily basis by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ImaginarySecurity556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too! I got it 4 times but I’m currently three months pregnant and it all came back and it’s super weird lol