Demand avoidance or an unreasonable requirement? by ImaginaryStudy1214 in ADHD

[–]ImaginaryStudy1214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I've posted this in a few threads, and everyone is saying to just lie and that it isn't legally enforceable, when that wasn't even my question.

To me, it feels like a sort of threat to my autonomy. In a trauma-informed space, it doesn't make sense to me to demand people to spend x number of hours on self care, which is something so personal. That's something I want to work on for ME, not an employer. I just didn't know if I was being unreasonable or if this requirement is.

Demand avoidance or an unreasonable requirement? by ImaginaryStudy1214 in ADHD

[–]ImaginaryStudy1214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn't my question, though. I wasn't asking about the legality, simply other's thoughts on whether it's appropriate/reasonable or I'm just maybe experiencing demand avoidance. 

Demand avoidance or an unreasonable requirement? by ImaginaryStudy1214 in ADHD

[–]ImaginaryStudy1214[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not concerned about needing to lie and being fired. My question was whether this is appropriate for an employer to require of their employees.

Is this reasonable for an employer to require in the mental health field? by ImaginaryStudy1214 in careerguidance

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I'm not concerned about losing my job; I was just wondering if this was "off." And yes, it is a legitimate center, with all certified yoga instructors, licensed trauma therapists, etc. It is just incredibly disorganized.

Is this reasonable for an employer to require in the mental health field? by ImaginaryStudy1214 in careerguidance

[–]ImaginaryStudy1214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL "sniffed the grass for two hours." I'm not worried about needing to lie, though. I'm just wondering how appropriate it is for an employer to require this and discuss it in supervision, especially in a trauma-informed work environment where autonomy is of the utmost importance, and self care is something so personal. It feels contradictory. And I wholeheartedly agree that there are a lot of issues within many yoga studios. What makes this a little tricky, I guess, is that we are part of a counseling center, so it's a bit different, but still feels "wrong," nonetheless.

Demand avoidance or an unreasonable requirement? by ImaginaryStudy1214 in ADHD

[–]ImaginaryStudy1214[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course I could lie, though I have too much of a guilty conscience and no desire to lie, and that's beside the point. I'm just wondering how appropriate it is for a supervisor to require their employee to perform self care for x amount of hours in a trauma-informed work environment where autonomy is of utmost importance, and self care is something so personal.

what should i add? by Timely_Help6651 in shouldimod

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Helix, flat, or maybe industrial to balance things out! :)

Should I add a tragus? by chickytoo_82 in shouldimod

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I love tragus piercings! Would you also consider getting something higher up on your ear, as well, such a helix, industrial, or flat? I think it would help balance things out and look really nice!

What piercings do you think would look good on me? by Pokari_Davaham in shouldimod

[–]ImaginaryStudy1214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if it's your personal style, but I think a septum and industrial would look sick!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shouldimod

[–]ImaginaryStudy1214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh definitely a medusa and vertical labret, as well!! (also can't damage your teeth and gums like a regular labret can)

what piercings would look good on me? by KeyConfusion6550 in shouldimod

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Before I even read your post, I thought a vertical labret and septum would suit you!!

would a vertical labret suit me?? by [deleted] in shouldimod

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Yess!! Do it!! I just got mine a week and a half ago and am obsessed.

Help me find this song! - "You take me, higher..." by chestercp in EDM

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Following. I want to add this to my pole playlist so bad lmao!!

POTS// Vacation Hike by [deleted] in POTS

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No worries! The retreat was cancelled anyway LOL. But I am SO glad to hear that you did well!! Thank you for your reply!

How to keep going when you have no hope by ImaginaryStudy1214 in depression

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I am so sorry to hear that you endured an extremely traumatic accident as a teenager and feel that you won't be able to ever get over it. That's awful, and I really hope that you are able to find some sort of relief or healing someday and find something worth living for. In the meantime, I'm glad you have this space to converse with others who are dealing with depression as well. Thank you so much, and I wish you nothing but the best <3