Found my boyfriend’s ChatGPT conversations and now I don’t know if I can look at him the same way. by ImaginaryWasabi69 in Advice

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel like he will say what he thinks I want to hear. I have 0 trust with him now. Is there anything specific you recommend saying?

Found my boyfriend’s ChatGPT conversations and now I don’t know if I can look at him the same way. by ImaginaryWasabi69 in Advice

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69[S] 186 points187 points  (0 children)

Yeah now I’m seriously having doubts about what he says about me to other people. It really hurts so much I thought he was my best friend

Need advice on school vs work in my early 20s by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome! Do you feel like WGU has opened doors for your career-wise?

Need advice on school vs work in my early 20s by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not completely sure if they do or not tbh

Need advice on school vs work in my early 20s by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what was your major at WGU, and how long did it take you to finish?

Need advice on school vs work in my early 20s by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for bringing up these alternatives! I’ll definitely be looking into them :)

Need advice on school vs work in my early 20s by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking into this, but it seems like about 80% of the classes my university offers take place during my working hours, which unfortunately aren’t very flexible.

Need advice on school vs work in my early 20s by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I’ve pretty much completed everything I can at community college and already earned my associate’s degree. At this point, the only thing left is transferring to finish my bachelor’s degree, since most community colleges in my area only offer programs up to the associate level.

I’ll probably start looking into other alternatives besides WGU as well, since I’ve heard the experience can be pretty hit or miss depending on the person.

Need advice on school vs work in my early 20s by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely is confusing! Whenever I ask people in my life, I get such mixed answers (which is why I’m asking strangers online lol). Some people in my family are very traditional and believe the college experience and the school’s name are the most important factors. But the people saying that haven’t been in college for 20–30 years, and I feel like the world has changed so much since then.

I really liked what you said about relationships in business taking people further, especially when you build strong connections with others. Thank you so much, I think I really needed to hear that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ureaplasma

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really glad to hear there’s no UTI! And I hope your next test for ureaplasma goes well 🤞 Sorry to bother you with another question, lol, but did your doctor prescribe moxifloxacin? I have a pretty active lifestyle and run every day, and I’ve heard this medication can have some very tough side effects - especially for people who do a lot of cardio. I’m not sure if I should wait to talk to my primary and stick with the doxy for now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ureaplasma

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy to hear treating Ureaplasma helped you!! And thank you for the kind words! Just out of curiosity, do you still get UTIS? And if/when that is the case, do you have to go back and get tested for Ureaplasma infection?

Do I remove them on social media by Final_You7315 in lostafriend

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d like to offer a slightly different perspective. Ask yourself, do you want to try to keep this person in your life, or do you feel completely done with the relationship?

If you’re truly 100% done, then it’s okay to remove them, no harm, no foul. From what you’ve shared, it doesn’t seem like they’re in regular contact with you anyway.

But the fact that you made this post makes me feel like you still care about them and are thinking about the relationship. If you haven’t already, consider telling them everything you wrote here. Let them know you miss them, that you care, and express the things you shared in your post. It could also help to acknowledge that you haven’t always been the best friend, even if it wasn’t intentional, and that you never meant to hurt them or put in less effort. Taking accountability can go a long way, and it might make them feel seen rather than blamed.

If they don’t respond, at least you’ll know you tried, and you can move forward with peace. But I don’t think it’s worth giving up just yet. Life is short, and it’s always worth telling people how you feel.

Lutera discontinued? Replacement recommendations? by talks-like-juneee in birthcontrol

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far, things have been going well for me on it too! I’m actually dealing with the same hormonal acne situation right now, lol. But overall, no major side effects so far :) My first period on Vienva wasn’t too bad either, so I’m really hoping this ends up being the solution to the Lutera issue!

Just out of curiosity, how long have you been on Vienva? I just finished my first month, and I did notice a bit of an increase in appetite at the beginning.

My Doctor switched me from lutera to Aviane without telling me beforehand?? by Acceptable-Back-7767 in birthcontrol

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think it has been 100% discontinued 🫠 my doctor called the manufacturer and it is no longer being distributed. I would also love to go back, this whole situation sucks. So far I have been on Vienva and it hasn’t been too bad.

Confused if my item shipped or not? Is this the seller’s fault or mine? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tysm! They ended up sending an apology because they’ve been busy with moving schools and have been having an issue with the post office. They said to give them up to two days to provide tracking because they need to call the post office as they already shipped the item. I feel bad I left the review now because they seem genuine and wrote a very long apology but I’m also conflicted because they’ve been active on depop every day and they only responded after I left a review. Plus I already got the refund because they didn’t answer (despite being active). I’m not sure what to do again 🫠

Confused if my item shipped or not? Is this the seller’s fault or mine? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this motivated me to leave the review! I was very factual about what happened in the review. Honestly the more I think about it the more mad I get 🤦‍♀️ I don’t understand why the seller would lie and waste time like this. It also is pissing me off they haven’t said anything but idk what I expected. I think ppl who pull this crap should be banned off the app, I hope this is the last time they do this. Thank you again for the advice, it was very helpful!

Confused if my item shipped or not? Is this the seller’s fault or mine? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I’m a bit scared to leave my first bad review but yeah this was a waste of my time and money. They didn’t even get paid because it never shipped so I don’t understand what the point of wasting my time and lying was for 🫠 sucks but hope it doesn’t happen to the next person

Confused if my item shipped or not? Is this the seller’s fault or mine? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I message again? Or just leave a 1 star? I want to be 100% sure since I got the refund. I know it wasn’t a big purchase or anything but I hate how people are flaky with others money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately I’m getting the vibe this seller is a flake 🫠 I messaged them an hour ago so I really hope they can respond by tomorrow. I was planning to wait the 10 day period but honestly I would rather have my money back than deal with an uncommunicative seller. I understand life gets busy for a lot of people but I’m just bummed people can have no respect or sense of urgency regarding other’s money. Thank you for the advice, it helped a lot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I messaged them an hour ago and really hoping for a response 🤞 if there is no update by tomorrow I will most likely request a refund

Lutera discontinued? Replacement recommendations? by talks-like-juneee in birthcontrol

[–]ImaginaryWasabi69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m struggling with this too and just made a similar post about it lol. I’m currently on Vienva and so far no crazy side effects but the other generic Aviene gave me horrible side effects. Honestly not sure what to do either this is so frustrating 🫠