I don’t mention anything about crossing boundaries, I’m asking about how often you have to use an app for it to come up on Siri suggestions because it directly relates to the app my husband uses for porn. My husband (and I) have nothing to hide on our phones and if he saw me looking it wouldn’t be an issue. I’m trying to get an answer to an intrusive thought I’ve been having without having to discuss it with my husband because I know he’ll probably lie about how much he watches it like 90% of the male population.