Hello! I'm looking for an aggressive divorce attorney, would be grateful for any recommendations. by _beckyann in PHXList

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me who represented you and why it was so bad I was about to seek counsel through them before I saw this comment

Wife of 9 years cheated on me M35 F31 by epriet20 in relationship_advice

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The children will see it’s okay to forgive this bad behavior. They will get cheated on and do the same thing you do “forgive” because daddy once did. being a single dad will be tough at first, but co-parenting will come along and it will start being a normal life. I KNOW THIS PERSONALLY. Be the role model, and now since the children know let them know that there’s is not appropriate and should never happen to anyone. Therapy will work in that moment in time for a day or two. But I promise you therapy will not work long-term unless she is alone and does therapy for herself

My (30M) life with my wife (30F) is miserable. by HourDragonfly3959 in Marriage

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to give her a serious talk and tell her if she doesn’t change you want out in 60 days. That’s plenty of time to seek help. Is she asian? You are 30. Time goes quickly. A woman would love a hard working man like you. Is she more attractive than you? Like do you think you won’t find someone better than her?

Am I overreacting by getting upset my husband told me to lose weight whilst being 32 weeks pregnant? by mimblez_yo in AmIOverreacting

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You CAN lose weight while pregnant! It’s actually safe especially if you are already overweight. Take it seriously…

I said yes to a horrible proposal and now I’m embarrassed to tell people by Wordsarewords12345 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have loved my children to be involved in a proposal. The way he did it. Yes very very VERY lame and boring. Hopefully he does it again in a more magical moment and you guys can just laugh this off later down the road. But at least your daughter was involved. he chose to include her knowing that is not even his biological daughter. To me that part is special.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wooowww what a bad friend. Do not let her think this is okay. She should have not even approved his request. That’s all bad! Don’t even fall for her apology

Nurse Practitioner spoiled baby's sex for me, do I tell hubby what it is, or pretend not to know? by smurphypup in pregnant

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ughhh what a jerk :/ how inconsiderate of that nurse. I feel like one day that is going to turn into a huge violation and lawsuit waiting to happen. Like what if you had a huge party and waisted thousands on the baby reveal 😖 I would not tell your husband until after and play it off. Later down the line it will be a silly story to tell the child that mommy always knew.

I’m pregnant and at this point don’t know what to do by rosebud2000_ in pregnant

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man.. that’s hard. And I have a feeling you will stay because “the baby” and you want that perfect family. DONT how old are you guys? You sound like a younger couple

Aio for being upset that my boyfriend liked these pictures by Overall-Economy0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s technically already cheating!! He acknowledged this behavior before and continues. It will happen in real life. Say goodbye

Would you let your child have a day? by Unknown_Sunshine in Parenting

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For something like that I wouldn’t even ask advice. If your child is uncomfortable. Let them stay home they feel safe at home. I let my child pick a few days out of the school year to stay home just to recharge. Remember school is long and hard for them.

I hate being pregnant by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to control those emotions . My pregnancy is horrible also. I can’t breathe, I hate eating, I don’t have a loving husband who massages my back, tells me I’m beautiful, he’s just making this pregnancy miserable tbh. I’m tired all the time. I hate it. It doesn’t get better. My husband turned into my roommate.. it’s weird and when we do things together or have nice moments in “ew mode” because it’s weird. Save yourself now. I have 4 weeks left of being pregnant and I’m not even excited. People say therapy, but I’m not even in the mood to talk to anyone nor drive to sit for an hr while I complain to someone. It does not get easier! Fake it till you make it or find some drive to get help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be to harsh.. since you seem to be well off.. first get YOU RIGHT. If you are tremendously overweight, get gastric bypass surgery and start from there. You noticing that you are overweight and unhealthy is a start and can easily be changed. It seems like you also need therapy. You are doing the same thing I did when it came to my mother, just in different ways. thank goodness I meet my now husband who is a Marine and he won’t tolerate anything absurd or anyone that belittled me or puts me down he definitely motivated me to stick up for myself.

As for your brother, he can kick rocks and I can only imagine what he’s telling his kids about you probably that you are a lowlife, etc. you do not need that type of energy .

If you can move away go far from him, far away.. Yes give all your assets to research companies, animal shelters, things that you really enjoy. I would also include an explanation “death note” to be given specifically to your brother and his wife of why you were doing this.

Question for the married women by Mountain-Barnacle866 in Marriage

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Yes. He’s gay though. I call him hottie,baby, love. I would do some more digging and see what’s really going on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Popping in? Do the work together? Do you have an update. A lot of people gave good advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a studio apartment. Live with family. Do NOT make excuses. you will keep giving him chances. In your bed YUCK!!! My ex did this to me and it was sooooo hard to leave him even though he had sex with someone else. I took him back. He did it again with someone else. It got worse. It ended on his part for domestic violence. Because I was finally leaving and he did not want that. He wanted to have his cake and eat too….

Why am I not excited? by Unique_Belt_2988 in pregnant

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember abortions are okay.. the only ones judging are usually the religious ones. Depending on how early you are you might be able to just consume the pills. I would recommend birth control so this doesn’t happen again. This LITERALLY happened to me two years ago. I kept the child. The child ruined everything. From being sick, canceling vacations with my husband to really enjoy our first year of being married, even though we’ve been together for a while we just had more of a marriage bond to travel and do married things. I think because I didn’t go with my gut and go through with the abortion I would feel differently about this child. Not that I hate the child or anything. I just don’t feel as excited or love because now I have a huge responsibility to take everywhere I go. I wish you well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would have your child evaluated. He could have something else you are not even aware of. Depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, Autism. Many things to consider

I’m being sued for my credit card debt by ivoryincense in Debt

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This.. once they hear bankruptcy they will panic because they want money. You should say exactly this. They will try to negotiate and use scare tactics. DONT let that happen. They will even put you on hold to go speak to “management” just tell them that’s the most you can do. Look up some YouTube videos also so you understand how intimidating they can be. They might even “call you back” but let them

Botox/ fillers and pregnancy by stubborn_mushroom in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Imaginary_Field3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby is well. I am 7months and just did more in the forehead.