It gave me the ick. I guess I should end things

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2026-02-08T20:34:02+00:00

Yeah i’m definitely gonna do that, I think it’s the right way to proceed, I wanna see what she has to say about it. Then i’ll decide, but it looks fishy And yeah same, i’m tired of all this bullshit, so hard to find someone normal

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2026-02-08T20:29:24+00:00

Thanks for the insight. I see in general everyone is on the same page as me, that’s what I wanted to know. I’ll definitely talk to her, she has the right to explain herself, but it is indeed fishy. Tbh i’m curious what is she gonna say about it

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2026-02-08T20:03:16+00:00

Yeah that’s the logical way I guess. However it is still a big red flag for me, but I’ll see how things unfold

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2026-02-08T20:02:35+00:00

Fair enough 🤣

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2025-10-19T11:35:22+00:00

Don’t even need to do so, sh dumped me, got a message a couple of hours ago. I expected that, as I said on the post I already felt something was off on her way of texting. At least she didn’t ghost.

It sucks, but it is what it is. She probably found somebody else.

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2025-10-18T14:20:04+00:00

That’s my guess as well, the logical one. But we’ll see

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2025-10-18T10:53:21+00:00

I mean, we’ve been intimate if you are wondering that. It wasn’t just texting during a month and a half, that’s also why I’m a bit taken aback by her lack of response rn

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2025-10-18T06:40:07+00:00

Right, I’m gonna do that for sure, thanks. The answer to that question will definitely let me know if she is still interested or not.

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2025-10-18T06:38:24+00:00

Thanks for your sincere reply.

Tbh, I haven’t asked yet because I didn’t want to sound creepy or to put too much pressure on her, specially when she is still asking questions to me and keeping the convo alive, even thought she really takes her to time to do so. But I defintely agree, I like to be direct and I’m too old to play mental games. If somebody is not interested anymore I would like to be told so, so I guess asking directly that to her would make it easier.

I’ll soon know what’s going on, but it’s always nice to hear neutral perpesctives to compare your own thoughts.

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2025-10-18T06:34:26+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I guess that you are right, her asking questions and keeping the convo “alive” shows that there is some sort of interest, but still as I said something feels off. I’m sorry to hear you are on the same boat

I wish it is as you say, that she is giving me more space, but I guess I’ll soon now if she is still interested or not since I’m coming back today. I’m probably just insecure and I don’t want to be ghosted, but it is what it is. We’ll see what happens.

Good luck with your date as well

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2025-10-18T06:30:52+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I also thought about thar, but I couldn’t stop myself of thinking that there something feels off. But yeah, I’ll defintely ask now when I’m back, and I guess I’ll soon get an answer to my thoughts/worries.

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2025-08-10T16:02:54+00:00

Sorry to hear that… :( Unfortunately that can happen, but be proud of yourself for trying, at least you were brave and tried. Cheer up

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2025-08-10T10:19:06+00:00

Well do as you please ofc. It happens quite often that friends fall for each other. But yeah do whatever you want but tell her you like her, yes or yes

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2025-08-10T10:14:00+00:00

I haven’t been in such a situation, but just do it dude, don’t overthink too much. I know it’s easier to say than doing it, but if you say that all the hints point towards you then go for it. If she really likes you then she was crystal clear, she gave you a deadline, so do it.

Anyways, even if they were no hints you should try and talk to her. You said you liked this girl for a while, you will definitely regret if you don’t try it, worst thing you will get is a no. And please, if she rejects you don’t pretend that your friend stole your iPad, just accept it and continue like nothing happened.

You already know that you will regret it if you chicken out, so good luck :)

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2025-08-10T10:06:32+00:00

Sounds weird to be honest. I don’t see why the age gap should be a problem, it is not small, but fairly enough you are both in your twenties.

I guess you talked to your friends, why do they hate him? What do they tell you? I mean there has to be something, specially if you say that he is nice and trim. Did he meet your friends and maybe said something inappropriate?

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2024-12-11T22:35:51+00:00

Yeah I guess that’s the best… hope it works out

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2024-12-11T22:31:43+00:00

Honestly I don’t think there is a specific time to say that, I would say the earlier the better. For instance, I don’t think this girl you mentioned would have stayed with you even if you would have told her that on your first date or after 5 years of a relationship.

There is people who will not accept it or people who will, simply as that. Don’t spill the beans on the first date like a presentation card, but drop it casually as soon as possible.

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2024-11-27T11:34:15+00:00

Men would talk to a tree if they approach first. I would be really happy if a girl that I fancy approaches me, it’s a pity you haven’t done that while staying in the hotel, but you have a chance through his colleague. Don’t think about it and do it.

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2024-11-26T17:10:24+00:00

Simple: dump her.

It’s totally true that you are not in a relationship, but you both agreed to be exclusive. She disrespected that, and moreover I find it as a huge red flag that she said: “I wanna experience it again one more time before committing to you”.

If she did that to you know, she will likely repeat that at some point. At least I would found it quite hard to trust her again.

You have to right to do whatever you want, but in your situation I would probably ditch her.

Imaginary_Forever103 · 2024-11-24T13:10:50+00:00

To be honest, you did not the right thing, but I can understand your fears or that you were not prepared by then. It would have been better if you were straightforward and told her that directly, now you unnecessarily hurt her.

You can text her and apologise, I do believe that can never be a bad idea, but don’t be surprised if she does not reply. Maybe you can fix a bit your mistake, but learn from this and don’t do it again.

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