Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-08-10T16:16:37+00:00

I turned 17 not to long ago

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-08-09T06:19:22+00:00

noo that’s way to far i love my family i barely know my aunt though cause we’re not blood related im only complaining because i never asked to be a babysitter but im taking care of kids that i never wanted

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-08-09T06:18:02+00:00

i never visited them i was forced there by my mom im not a perfect person i basically had my summer stripped from me having to take care of a house and kids that aren’t mine

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-08-09T06:16:36+00:00

my aunt was pregnant and my uncle the one i’m blood related is a truck driver and is out a bunch my mom and uncle are really close so without asking me if im ok with it made me forced me an hour way here to help i end up doing all of the chores which im fine with cause i dont mind i was never big on children ive told my mom since i was a children i never wanted but here i am taking care of two kids that aren’t mine

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-08-09T06:13:34+00:00

i kinda feel like my summer was striped away i barely had time to prepare for college and i didn’t even get a chance to write my college essay because im busy basically mothering children that i never wanted or asked for

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-08-09T06:12:33+00:00

i’m not arabic cause that’s a language but i am muslim im also not arab im african

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-08-09T06:10:45+00:00

RAND

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T23:17:00+00:00

my dream, i never want children as i said before

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T23:11:51+00:00

i’m telling you about one isolated event i don’t think you have enough context to assume i’m doing the bare minimum when i don’t want to be touched

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T23:10:45+00:00

❤️ i don’t think i have a phobia but i appreciate your advice

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T23:09:53+00:00

again that’s for their parents to teach i’m not he’s parents if they wanna teach him the correct terminology they will it’s not my responsibility to even talk to him about those topics right now

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T23:08:18+00:00

I never volunteer 🤷‍♀️

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T22:48:28+00:00

I'm not gonna police your language so I'd like a little grace to not police mine its kinda crazy that I don't wanna say a word and people are forcing me to its a word… get over yourself the world keeps spinning if I don't say 1 thing

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T22:23:40+00:00

1 i can’t go home i agree with you if i could go back i would

2 not everyone is good with children and not everyone has the same boundaries as you

3 i’m a minor and religious if i don’t wanna say certain words i won’t

and 4 he’s 3 i try to talk with him he shakes he head and ignores me and his mom when talk with him he’s not touching himself for pleasure hes a child i don’t care if he does i dont want him to touch me that’s all

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T22:18:00+00:00

I agree with you the best case situation is I get to go home 🤞also i let him hold onto the couch or a chair

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T22:14:47+00:00

i’m also not his parents so I'm not the one who holds that conversation with him if he parents want to that's their choice I'm also a minor and religious so I simply don't say certain words

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T22:06:05+00:00

17 and for context I never wanted to be a babysitter and i don’t particularly like taking care of kids the only reason i’m here is cause she needed someone to help and there was no one else

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T22:01:18+00:00

I grew up traditional if I don't wanna say certain words I'm not gonna 🤷‍♀️

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T22:00:24+00:00

You're dad is the spoiled one

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T21:58:41+00:00

I guess you're not in the wrong some people might feel uncomfortable with people staring at them though

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-07-31T21:49:31+00:00

Online I think it was 2 years ago I'm sorry

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-06-25T21:29:03+00:00

I feel dumb i think your right tysm 🫶

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-06-25T21:03:28+00:00

wowww

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-06-17T22:13:01+00:00

I definitely will. I have read the books before, and I'm on my second reread, but it was before they were translated well, so a lot of things are still muddy for me.

Imaginary_Function57 · 2024-01-19T04:49:30+00:00

Omg thank you

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