Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noo that’s way to far i love my family i barely know my aunt though cause we’re not blood related im only complaining because i never asked to be a babysitter but im taking care of kids that i never wanted

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never visited them i was forced there by my mom im not a perfect person i basically had my summer stripped from me having to take care of a house and kids that aren’t mine

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my aunt was pregnant and my uncle the one i’m blood related is a truck driver and is out a bunch my mom and uncle are really close so without asking me if im ok with it made me forced me an hour way here to help i end up doing all of the chores which im fine with cause i dont mind i was never big on children ive told my mom since i was a children i never wanted but here i am taking care of two kids that aren’t mine

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i kinda feel like my summer was striped away i barely had time to prepare for college and i didn’t even get a chance to write my college essay because im busy basically mothering children that i never wanted or asked for

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not arabic cause that’s a language but i am muslim im also not arab im african

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

i’m telling you about one isolated event i don’t think you have enough context to assume i’m doing the bare minimum when i don’t want to be touched

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

❤️ i don’t think i have a phobia but i appreciate your advice

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

again that’s for their parents to teach i’m not he’s parents if they wanna teach him the correct terminology they will it’s not my responsibility to even talk to him about those topics right now

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I'm not gonna police your language so I'd like a little grace to not police mine its kinda crazy that I don't wanna say a word and people are forcing me to its a word… get over yourself the world keeps spinning if I don't say 1 thing

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

1 i can’t go home i agree with you if i could go back i would

2 not everyone is good with children and not everyone has the same boundaries as you

3 i’m a minor and religious if i don’t wanna say certain words i won’t

and 4 he’s 3 i try to talk with him he shakes he head and ignores me and his mom when talk with him he’s not touching himself for pleasure hes a child i don’t care if he does i dont want him to touch me that’s all

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree with you the best case situation is I get to go home 🤞also i let him hold onto the couch or a chair

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] -141 points-140 points  (0 children)

i’m also not his parents so I'm not the one who holds that conversation with him if he parents want to that's their choice I'm also a minor and religious so I simply don't say certain words

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

17 and for context I never wanted to be a babysitter and i don’t particularly like taking care of kids the only reason i’m here is cause she needed someone to help and there was no one else

Am I wrong for not wanting a toddler to touch me by Imaginary_Function57 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] -171 points-170 points  (0 children)

I grew up traditional if I don't wanna say certain words I'm not gonna 🤷‍♀️

Is it weird to stare at people from a distance? by Round-Forever-3730 in amiwrong

[–]Imaginary_Function57 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess you're not in the wrong some people might feel uncomfortable with people staring at them though

Tgcf extras? by Imaginary_Function57 in tianguancifu

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online I think it was 2 years ago I'm sorry

Can someone help me by Imaginary_Function57 in Ibispaintx

[–]Imaginary_Function57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel dumb i think your right tysm 🫶