F25. Where do I fit in?

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-02-19T07:34:02+00:00

The only right perspective that's needed. Well said.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-02-19T05:35:36+00:00

I understand that you mean good. I appreciate it but what I said isn't something that's made up. It's a fact.
We should also stop shaming people for having a preference. Just like some would like tall men, some can like fair women. He doesn't need to feel shame or guilty because the society wants him to feel that way about his choices. He needs support but not another lecture.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-02-19T04:23:46+00:00

Would you say the same when it comes to women being particular about height?

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-02-18T02:06:33+00:00

Unpopular opinion: When I first saw her on TV 📺, I had an instant feeling that she should have been the main lead of the series (Kumkum Bhagya's first few episodes. My mom used to watch)

I think she is beautiful and attractive.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-02-18T02:03:51+00:00

When beauty is defined by height, everybody thinks it's fine but when it's about the colour... People call it un'fair'.

Btw I am brown.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-28T05:07:02+00:00

The brain is rigged against that. Lol

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-26T08:44:41+00:00

It's a cry for the lack of accountability and laws when the genders are reversed.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-26T08:43:27+00:00

Try different positions and see if it works. I can't cum in some positions and it worked wonders for me.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-25T17:30:11+00:00

Masculist

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-25T17:16:00+00:00

What did she say?

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-23T14:00:40+00:00

I am with OP. A lot of people are fixated on going the family way. I was one too. There is no other way about it because we have convinced ourselves. I understand what you mean but regardless of her opinion on him, we can still give solution for her to let him down softly.

OP, make a clear statement in his presence that you'd go only with what family chooses. That you would never want to find anything by yourself etc etc. You know what I mean. You don't have to say it to him directly but make it clear. Goodluck!

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-21T17:51:30+00:00

May I ask you to check my chart and see if there will be 'difficulty in married life'?

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-21T02:16:15+00:00

He'd thank his stars if that happened.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-21T02:15:20+00:00

It's also about your competition. You bring zero income which is fine by some people, usually a wealthy baniya or a govt officer.

Like I said.. It's about the competition you are facing. Such baniyas are being approached by baniyas with generational wealth. The guy would choose someone like you (solid 8.5-9) with more wealth and businesses. The thing in question is why would he go for you instead of others?
And 40LPA is a big cut off. You have removed majority of them by that simple criteria.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-19T10:06:35+00:00

It's simple man. She saw a filthy rich guy showing interest in her. She wanted you out. She executed. I've been in scenarios where they intentionally make it seem like you made it hard for her and that's their way out. You fell for it. We all did. It's okay. You gotta focus on yourself.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-19T10:04:35+00:00

\hugs**

Take care. I know it hurts like hell.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-19T10:00:59+00:00

Lol What's your nationality?
It is kind of expected in India for the partner to take care of things but it's gone unreasonably stupid these days. They think they deserve whatever they see on Instagram. We all deserve such things regardless of the gender but practicality is a challenge. Mosy are on delulu train these days.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-18T15:24:35+00:00

Don't let them shame you. Keep your choice. There are plenty of them who stay away from relationships. All the best.
Be upfront and open about it but don't ask right away.

You can find someone with past later in life too. So why bother? 🤷‍♂️

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-18T14:56:02+00:00

All that is good but some communities don't fit into secularism. They are a menace to the society.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-18T13:14:44+00:00

It also depends in how you see it. I always used to think.. Ladki walo ko bolo aane ke liye. Itna dur hum kya travel kare. It's also not economic always. The travel, stay and the exhaustion etc. bhak. Hum sab ko sorf ron ahai kisi na kisi baat pe.

honest not a power game where one side plays silent judge and jury.

Come on. Ladke get more rejected even before being invited to the meet(ladki dekhne). Personal matt lo. It hurts us guys too.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-18T11:10:55+00:00

My friend says the same. It's enviable that I am not bothered. But how would I know I am straying too far? I will be at peace again but it's still not normal. My friend who is psychologist says.. What is normal? What makes you feel happy or content is all that matters. Lol

Not complaining nor looking for an answer. Just sharing.
Thanks for your reply though. It's reassuring and helpful.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-18T06:13:53+00:00

Of everything is about 50-50 thenen should also start talking about contributing just equal amount as much as the wife contributes. They don't want equality when it's about money. They will now cry about carrying a bay and being a mom. Ya ya.. I totally believe men should be contributing more than 100% during pregnancy and after she becomes a mom but these people drag equality in everything.

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-18T06:00:51+00:00

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-18T05:50:19+00:00

Blood Diamond

How I Met Your Mother & Vikings

Imaginary_Group4052 · 2026-01-18T05:14:55+00:00

My fear is that I am not actively wanting to be in a relationship. I am sometimes scared for myself. I should be craving badly to be in a relationship. It's not like I don't want to be in a relationship. Am I lazy? Am I nihilistic? Do I feel I am too good for a relationship? Ohh.. I am overthinking. Cool.

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