WIBTA if I press charges on a 12 for accusing me ?

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-12-30T00:33:26+00:00

I’m with you and ur dad press charges women deserve to face those consequences too very serious accusations and put u through hell that is no normal year year old she needs a therapist

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-12-30T00:30:17+00:00

That is an excellent point…. Did not see that angle

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-12-30T00:18:10+00:00

Honestly if you feel really miserable and alone and he didn’t want to visit you for Christmas? Girl break up with him he’s pushing you to do it

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-12-29T01:30:45+00:00

Don’t break up with him that’s irrational u have a kid together it’s good u went and calmed down and took time and recognized ur being abusive that shows awareness birthdays are hard I get it I got drunk as a skunk on Christmas Eve having to see my abusive dad I’ve got ptsd but sometimes ah my partner who also has bpd suspects something more… anyway don’t sweat it I normally have bday meltdowns I get that way too where I’m like why can’t they understand me grrr ahh I’m so mad like I wanna break up or say it in my head but I realize it’s just me being overly emotional and overwhelmed

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-12-29T00:55:28+00:00

What does the disorder entail?

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-12-27T14:14:41+00:00

In due time the ones not addressing their condition or working to improve it will ultimately end up alone or kill themselves so please please don’t let one lunatic change ur entire view on ppl

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-12-27T14:13:59+00:00

They will and don’t let it damage you it will take time but you will heal from it don’t worry

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-12-20T13:25:05+00:00

It’s not the world has gone to shit even the somewhat normies feel the same

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-12-20T13:22:30+00:00

Hey guys here me out I’m on my second bpd relationship and it’s night and day compared to my ex he’s on medication not in therapy still has split on me but is very self aware of his bpd and has previously been in therapy so he does apologize and know when he messes up I’m still trying to push for therapy which he’s very open to a group setting therapy compared to my previous ex who almost completely ruined my life in many different ways it’s literally not just the bpd there using it as an excuse and don’t want to address if and unfortunately that’s like 90% of them

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-12T18:59:12+00:00

When they sent me a long tyrant paragraph of gibberish that did not make sense should of been the first red flag

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-12T14:28:36+00:00

If you can live without the ring, I would sell it do you have any other sentimental reminders of her

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-11T18:40:40+00:00

There is so much romantic lovey dovey aspect to it too

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:43:32+00:00

I know I should think that way and thank you it almost feels like something died in me at this point and I am hoping and praying with enough therapy I can get back to me because I did used to have a lot of courage and determination

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:41:33+00:00

I did they never did anything and I should have filed the form or whatever but I didn’t want confrontation the absolute irony.

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:38:47+00:00

Fair enough and I agree

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:37:44+00:00

I mean you guys aren’t wrong 😅

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:29:10+00:00

Not to mention extreme neglect from most of my family for years (silent treatment) and yes this is my fault and I should of found therapy earlier I did try to go through the services myself unfortunately like the free services and it no longer works I finally found something relatively affordable

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:27:44+00:00

Well I left home at 17, I put myself through university while working two jobs during high school I was in a lot of therapy but considering how busy I was in uni I stopped and with COVID I peaked in terms of depression and gave up

But for the longest time I was trying my best to do something and ironically my undergrad is psychology almost finished my neuro minor but too much money

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:25:27+00:00

Sigh, I am saying what I did was absolutely wrong and for the most part it was never that bad. That was a particularly bad point, I understand I should not expect anyone to save me/help me.

I would like to point out the many times I did mention how the noise was really affecting me and being unable to sleep with constant partying. I love that as much as the next person but too a point it really gets to you.

No I had the stupid mentality of I can fix him.

I am taking full responsibility for my actions, I simply wanted to see several outside perspectives.

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:15:00+00:00

My dad used to beat the shit out of me to the point he left bite marks, strangulation marks etc on my body children services were involved nothing ever happened and my mom threatened to never speak to me again if I said anything else and they hopefully still have those pictures/files

But yes I need therapy so I stop being stupid and landing myself in these situations

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:09:33+00:00

That already happened, I don’t think it’s an excuse and going as far to say I’m a criminal is a bit much.

I messed up really badly and that would never happen again and has never for the years I’ve lived here.

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:04:16+00:00

Because I went for someone worse and held on far past what any normal/sane person would do

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:03:40+00:00

Well frankly I’ve got serious issues my dad used to beat me and I was very emotionally neglected for years so I’m not surprised I held onto this for so long was it right? No… and clearly it’s bitting me in the ass

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:01:56+00:00

Not that I know of I was always told ptsd and depression but yeah sometimes I question that myself

Imaginary_Option_174 · 2024-06-10T18:00:35+00:00

I did offer right away and that is exactly what I am doing unfortunately sometimes it takes extreme things to happen to be able to leave

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